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Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Nobody: 2:06pm On Dec 11, 2016
mofeoluwadassah:
Dat will b d end of the relationship o cool
marriage nko
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by mofeoluwadassah: 2:22pm On Dec 11, 2016
NgcoboP:

marriage nko
i will remain in d marraige nw buh i will nt talk 2 him 4 somedays
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Divay22(f): 2:23pm On Dec 11, 2016
NgcoboP:
nag and provoke
girls are meant to be treated like a child,my elder brother used to beat me, I mean beat,cos no power,but my mouth is so sharp,but i still made him realise,if he continues that way,he might just kill me,sometimes we don't know we nag,if as a guy you are angry,walk out,just take a stroll,don't touch us,it makes us respect you the more.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Nobody: 2:30pm On Dec 11, 2016
Divay22:
girls are meant to be treated like a child,my elder brother used to beat me, I mean beat,cos no power,but my mouth is so sharp,but i still made him realise,if he continues that way,he might just kill me,sometimes we don't know we nag,if as a guy you are angry,walk out,just take a stroll,don't touch us,it makes us respect you the more.
not very easy..... but why do you enjoy it?
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Divay22(f): 2:32pm On Dec 11, 2016
NgcoboP:

not very easy..... but why do you enjoy it?
hmmmm dat i don't know.....for me i enjoy nothing
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Handsomecutepie: 2:36pm On Dec 11, 2016
Seun:
If the woman slaps the man, I think he has the right to be very angry. It is a sign of disrespect, but nothing more.

However, if the man slaps the woman, I think she needs to break up with him. If a guy can slap you before putting the ring on your finger, he will definitely use you as a punching bag if you get married. This is not a joke and this is not an exaggeration. (I am assuming that the man in question bigger than the woman...)


I guess you r one of those stupid rags that ladies walk on. A lady slaps you, get upset as a man and that Should be ok. However, if man slaps a lady, the lady should break up cos she ll be used a punching bag. What Make you think that the lady won't continue to slap you...

You r just pathetic and should be ashamed that you r boy not even a man. May your dick never work.

Imagine this idiot
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Nobody: 2:37pm On Dec 11, 2016
Divay22:
hmmmm dat i don't know.....for me i enjoy nothing
running your mouth and verbally assaulting men
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Nobody: 2:38pm On Dec 11, 2016
Handsomecutepie:


I guess you r one of those stupid rags that ladies walk on. A lady slaps you, get upset as a man and that Should be ok. However, if man slaps a lady, the lady should break up cos she ll be used a punching bag. What Make you think that the lady won't continue to slap you...

You r just pathetic and should be ashamed that you r boy not even a man. May your dick never work.

Imagine this idiot
well said
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Nobody: 2:40pm On Dec 11, 2016
if a lady slaps you.... without reasonable cause a good spanking ain't out of place
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Divay22(f): 2:43pm On Dec 11, 2016
NgcoboP:

running your mouth and verbally assaulting men
I have stopped,presently i find it hard to insult anybody,and for running my mouth,nt to a dude just close female friends.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Nobody: 2:46pm On Dec 11, 2016
Divay22:
I have stopped,presently i find it hard to insult anybody,and for running my mouth,nt to a dude just close female friends.
so you agree everyone got a responsibility in this matter
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Divay22(f): 2:48pm On Dec 11, 2016
NgcoboP:
so you agree everyone got a responsibility in this matter
yea
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Nobody: 2:50pm On Dec 11, 2016
Divay22:
yea
now that is a very sincere and valid viewpoint. happy married life.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Divay22(f): 2:56pm On Dec 11, 2016
NgcoboP:

now that is a very sincere and valid viewpoint. happy married life.
....hmmm. your last three words though.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Nobody: 2:59pm On Dec 11, 2016
Divay22:
....hmmm. your last three words though.
what about them?
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Handsomecutepie: 3:10pm On Dec 11, 2016
Listen and listen good @all asslickers who are claiming that i ll just walk away. You guys are nothing but disgrace to the rest of us(men). You guys should cover your ugly faces in shame. A lady slap you as a child and immature fools you are and your next line of action is to walk away. Lol!!! And you think you r an amazing man. Far from it, you r not.

Right from d day you were slapped, you r finished and done with as boy(man). Trust me, there is no other disrespect to a man in a relationship than being slapped. And guess what, your slaps ll continue...

Now listen fools, i have been slapped by a Naija babe while i was living in US simply cos she wanted me to pick an incoming call. It was my new catch(girlfriend) call. My girlfriend became furious and slapped me out of anger. However, i was dumbfounded for few seconds cos i have only seen it in Hollywood movies. At that point in time, she thought that i have got over it, i slapped her that the noodles in her mouth flew everywhere... What nonsense!!! Do you think i don't have female in my house, i do but we're not raised to slap anybody. You raise your hand as a lady, prepare to re dive whatever comes to you.

The second case was few years after this last one, before i know it, bang on my cheek, a subtle slap, i didn't allow the slap to get cold before i reset her brain back to factory setting. If you r not well trained at home, you ll be trained by outsiders.

My younger sister is married and i have a daughter. I never pray for any man to beat my daughter and sister but the day they both decide to raise their hands against their respective husbands, then, they should embrace whatever comes out of it.

I ll never slap a lady no matter what she says. Say anything against my mother, father, generation, destroy my house, burn all my clothes, certificates, withdraw my money, push me, slap my chest, slap anywhere from my neck to toes but if you dare slap my face, you ll pay instantly.

I got my respect from those stupid and getto brought up ladies. The funny thing is that the First Lady said that she is used to it cos her last boyfriend was a sissy. She said it. I dumped her ass few weeks after that and move to a better relationship.

Guys, pls, don't buy this gibberish from all these 21st century hoes. It all started like this in US and UK. Now, their men are like "a living dead".

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Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Handsomecutepie: 3:15pm On Dec 11, 2016
Eliza704:
Well my ex husband slapped me twice. Didnt hurt me though. Seriously but i made him believe that he did. The following weeks he was a new man when i was finished with him. Now lets say a man really slapped me! I mean slapped me hard and actually hurt me, that would be his last slap. He would leave the house one of two ways. In a police car or in an ambulance! No lie. I wasnt raised to let a man beat me. Ever see the movie, the burning bed? Im not playing.

But i presumed you wouldn't raise your hand against a man too cos if you do, you ll get what you ask for regardless all this your police threat.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Handsomecutepie: 3:24pm On Dec 11, 2016
Vicjustice:


Endure, you're a man, if i had a sister, i would have given her to you, you're a real dude, not like the barbaric Nyabinghi who doesn't understand things. But what do you expect from someone who sees his father regularly beating the shit out of his mother?
I was compelled to check his profile for his photo to see if he actually looks the barbaric guy in appearance, but sure, he'd be too ashamed to display his photo.
People should understand that a woman who slaps a man did so out of frustrations, not because she can physically beat him up. So, whoever revenges and hit back is not a real man: a real man should hold his peace and understand her feelings.
He who physically beats a woman abuses his physical features: You've been made physically stronger than your woman so that you may protect her, not to beat her.

Shut that trap you call mouth before thunder fire you fool. If you are impotent with no self esteem, tell us and something ll be sorted out for you.

In your fucking warped brain, ladies usually slap men out of frustration but a man shouldn't slap a lady no matter how frustrated he is. You are a rag with vero life in you cos if you are not, you ll realise that there are billion of ladies out there who ll never raise their hand against you regardless what you ve done.

The same thing applicable to ladies, there are billion of guys out there...

You are a sissy

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Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Divay22(f): 3:33pm On Dec 11, 2016
NgcoboP:

what about them?
kiss not thinking of marriage o,not in the next 5years......
but thanks though.....I'll surely do need it someday.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Nobody: 3:36pm On Dec 11, 2016
Divay22:
kiss not thinking of marriage o,not in the next 5years......
but thanks though.....I'll surely do need it someday.
that mindset will save you a lot of hassles
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by brownhawk: 3:44pm On Dec 11, 2016
I will turn away from her sight,ignore her for 2weeks. if she doesn't come back to apologize I will happily move on cos I'll be convinced she's not matured and worthy enough for my time
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by chigoizie7(m): 4:36pm On Dec 11, 2016
I have never been an advocate of violence relationships.

I will also maintain that any woman with enough guts to raise a hand on me will be also very strong to receive an equal dose of her medicine.

This apart.


Depending on my mood, I might retaliate or I will just walk away. But that is the end of it
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by nyabinghi(m): 4:42pm On Dec 11, 2016
who are the mofos/bitches mentioning me upandan, my mama is from a good background so she wont even dare raise her hand against my dad. i can see your mum's delight in slapping your dad, so carry on. me go scatter her face if she dares.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by newdawn2017(f): 6:28pm On Jul 17, 2018
mamba:
Everyone seems to be walking away grin like Craig David


What if it was your husband and not just a lover, would it still be HISTORY?
Re u kidding us (me & Ra)?? we'll leave b4 đ circle of violence begins.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by brownhawk: 6:57pm On Jul 17, 2018
I'm quick in ending relationships. Touch me and I'm done.

Just know you have appointed lucifer as ur prime enemy. Cos I have experience in dealing with my enemies grin
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by em19em6: 6:51pm On Oct 28, 2019
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