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Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(m): 5:56pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
passionate88: And i never said single mums don't get married to guys who have never had any child but you wil agree with me that given the choice, a single never married guy will easily choose a single lady without a child over a single unmarried mum and this is undisputable and that is my message. A single mum who is unmarried will need to place herself at a more vantage position to endear a single guy without a child when there are numerous unmarried ladies with no child hanging on their neck. 1 Like |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by passionate88: 6:00pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Toks2008:true. |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by ronald4lif(m): 6:07pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Toks2008: "It is not so easy for an unmarried single mum to see a never married single guy to really desire her and want her as a wife except she is very fortunate so my advice is for ladies in this category to look in the direction of single guys who are also baby daddies. The widowers with children,the male divorcée with children will be most suited for an unmarried single mum. " The embolden is an extract from the point my comment was premised on. I think you should be the one to read again what you wrote to be sure. I never ratified the inverse and antediluvian disposition of yours there. My views were opposing to it rather. You've to learn to embrace conflicting views and ideas than feel offended when people think differently. You're responsible for your thought, so do I and everyone else. We all must not be part of the OP you're on point brigade. Cheers. |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Dohyn3(f): 6:10pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
I so so agree with that no. 1. |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(m): 6:13pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
ronald4lif: My brother i am as objective as you can ever imagine and infact i get so impressed by logical and intelligent counter motion but what baffles me is the way you hit hard because you read my post in isolation. My first paragraph of that #5 clearly corroborates with your comment just that you rephrased and elaborated on it. Ok dude be very sincere.. if you have two options.. a sweet never married single mum and am equally sweet never married lady with no child given the fact that other virtues are constant in both please as an unmarried guy with no child which choice will easily come to mind? |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by viktor01(m): 6:21pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
I couldn't agree more with the op. what you wrote are facts and anyone with a different opinion is an "antifact" |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by blimeyVic(m): 6:25pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
I'm glad someone holds this opinion. Though I would say that the write-up is motivated basically by the current financial trend in the society,and not age bracket as someone earlier pointed out,but apparently,the OP's 'opinion' stems from what is obtainable in our society,both culturally,and otherwise. Somewhere in France,two teenagers might just fall in love and decide to tie the nuptial knots the following months;that's their system. On the contrary,that rarely happens here,calculate your school fees+baby's diaper+hospital bills+etc and common sense would force you to look the other way,while your french counterpart definitely has some government packages that allows him to school and pay later when employed,supports mother and child through and after child birth,etc. In the same vein,our culture limits most relationships from holding. Compare a situation where Davido won't even marry Sophia whom he had carefully or carelessly put in the family way, and where Nick cannon(sic) married mariah carriah(sic) just because he fancied her. So OP,I think you made a valid contribution with this one. Especially No.1. Parents should advice their girls better because its always due to their mismanagement of their little beginnings that they end up not taken by age 40. And those hoping to get married come 2016, the OP's wise words should be enough for you. #already loving 2016. 1 Like |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by kenny4one(m): 6:28pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
guys I saw this pic on my girlfriend DP, what do I do to her or the meaning of that. your advice please.
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Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(m): 6:31pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
blimeyVic: You are right on track and i actually wrote this with the Nigerian mindset. 1 Like |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by ronald4lif(m): 6:36pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Toks2008: It is not really about me bruv, it's about insensitivity and stigmatising a group of people, in this case single mums. Your posture therein is condescending and demeaning to them. No two people can be same so there's no way one can meet two people of constant and exact values. They would always be better in their individual ways and if the single mum has more values I'd settle for her and if the single lady has more admirable values so be it. What you're doing is no different from someone coming up to say HIV people or people with certain disabilities should stick to their kind. Although some cases can be true but it's not something to sedate the public with. It's discriminating and discrimination is meant to be repressed not encouraged. 4 Likes |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by blimeyVic(m): 6:53pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Your opinion is quite thoughtful and noteworthy. However,I think the message OP is trying pass across is that,the best and most convenient place to find a yoruba lady is in yoruba land,not that you won't find one in the creeks,but the chances of finding one is higher near ota farm. And as for your question on the single dad scenario,lol,some say it's a man's world,though I think differently, but Sanusi the Emir recently married a beautiful damsel,and might marry a pregnant lady next,if he chooses to. In all I think the OP is only helping our unmarried lovely NIGERIAN ladies segment the mix appropriately and know best whom to target in time. Âny rare occurrence is just 'JARA'. 1 Like |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(m): 6:56pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
ronald4lif: It is this your grammer i am not at home with and that is why i wrote that you dont need it cos you are reading my post in isolation..READ MY POST VERY WELL DUDE..I AM NOT DISCRIMINATING. Infact i can marry a hot after one and look away from a not so sweet single lady with no child. Anyways what ever rocks your boat |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(m): 6:58pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
blimeyVic: You just summarized the whole thing..Nice one. 1 Like |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by charismatic1(f): 7:04pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
In the real sense, i concur with this write up because it is basically reality,the commonest trend in this contemporary days, however, there are some exceptional cases. It will sound offensive for some people, especially ladies in some latter part of the category but truly this is a close fact except you're in denial. But note, whatever or wherever you fall,remember,with God all things are possible.Just pray/ask,be patient and stedfast,God will surely answer. I've seen exceptional cases, and there are still more that'll still happen. Happy new year everyone. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by passionate88: 7:04pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Adaeze003:That's nice. Always thought you were a feminist, many Nigerian feminist don't practice what they preach. Not against feminist though, just want their struggle to be about equality nd not superiority. |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(m): 7:10pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
charismatic1: Definitely there are and will always be exceptional cases.What i wrote holds true not in all but most cases. |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by ronald4lif(m): 7:14pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Toks2008: Thanks for the compliment. I'm thanking coz you find my posture as an isolation. I pride myself as an isolationist in approaching issues, and not the bandwagon brigade. I might be wrong, could be right. However, I need a robust antithesis to prove me where I'm wrong and missing the point and I'd gladly accept it. We're all here to learn and uproot our negative views to life even as we cultivate new ones. Your last statement is an admission that you're not ready to entertain opposing views and it is really sad. Anyway, cheers mate and happy new year in advance. 3 Likes |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by zubby29(m): 7:21pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Omotayor123:so we r good to go |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by ronald4lif(m): 7:30pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
blimeyVic: Thanks for your intervention and your opinion is appropriate and welcoming. While he might have got it right, he did misfired as well. I don't want to admit your examplary of Sanusi because while I respect his person, achievement and faith on which grounds he cited as reason for marrying a girl young enough to be her daughter but I think his action is wrong. Now to be thematic, I'm Igbo and let's say I live in an area, largely populated by Yoruba or Hausa, in this case southwest or Northern Nigeria. I'm searching for a bride so would you advise me to relocate to the East where I can find an Igbo? True, you can prevail on me to focus on where I can easily meet Igbos but for what purpose exactly when I can find myself a Yoruba or Hausa lady? By doing so, you're tacitly encouraging tribalism in a time where it should be shun and antiquated. What's your take? 2 Likes |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by simplisity(m): 8:03pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Odikwa egwu! |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Vikky014(f): 8:04pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Toks2008:NICE PIECE GUYS IN THEIR 30s whr una dey i need like 5 of una lemme make my choice am tired of all these indomie boys dt i roll with no TIME!!!!!!! |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Omotayor123(f): 8:23pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
zubby29:Not at all |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Stanleyafam(m): 8:35pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Number 2 is a fallacy.. that's the kind of point that forces ladies to look for older men.. |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Nobody: 9:00pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Toks2008: What is motigbo. Abegi continue your goodline of work in your department. You are doing a good job that must be appreciated. Continue on women in relation to men.......I'm learning a lot from it. A girl deceived me for so many years. I'm in my late 30s now and have started life afresh....searching when I should be happily married. |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(m): 9:03pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Kai..oyinbo po..you go soon write dictionary...happy new year bro |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by zubby29(m): 9:57pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Omotayor123:Lol happy new year |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Omotayor123(f): 10:16pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
zubby29:Chill.... Few more minutes dear |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by ggood: 10:42pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
married mum |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by iykedare(m): 11:00pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Adaeze003: Madam,how old are you? You sound pained cause you probably want to marry your age mate. Have you noticed that women get to look older than men of the same age group. A 25 yrs old girl is just ok for guys in their early or late thirties . women in their early 30s should go for guys in their late thirties or 40s. Did you say that you see girls and guys of same age group get married? But you know that you girls look way older than your ages because of una "hustling" days. |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by inspiredlegal: 11:22pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
I don't seem to buy to the assertions or thoughts posited in this post. Am in my late 20s and I wish I can get marry to someone within my age bracelet or someone in her 30s even single mum I wouldn't mind, provided she's someone who can advance my prospects vis-a-vis. |
Re: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by zubby29(m): 1:08am On Jan 01, 2016 |
Omotayor123:happy new year sweet |
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