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Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by PHATE007(f): 7:49pm On Nov 30, 2015
Lemme tell u something abt me, I nd ur alleged ex, na d same rope tie us in d sense dat we both are insecure and honest to a fault........ Take it from me, letting her know dat blood covenant is wrong nd re assuring her of d love u have for her (dat is if u do o) will do d magic.....


The decision to break up cos of just dat reason is a bit too harsh... She is hurt. Talk to her dear, straighten things out nd if u still want her, get back with her
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by francizy(m): 7:50pm On Nov 30, 2015
Hehehehehehe! OP, all the best oh!
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Nov 30, 2015
End time Blood Covenant
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by AfroKnight: 7:51pm On Nov 30, 2015
Holyfred, I want to personally congratulate you for escaping from the CLUTHES of a desperate girl.

There are many better girls out there. So don't even think of taking her back. You don't know what you just escaped from. Karishikas are out there bro. For real.

You will surely meet women who are better than her in every way.

Congrats once again.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by donkross1(m): 7:52pm On Nov 30, 2015
Baba u do well as you break up with her for early stage oo. Why would a girl of 21 wanna tie you down with blood covenant, if you date that kain girl for 3-4 years kan break up with her... Olboi she go kill you ni oo.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Gabaleve(m): 7:53pm On Nov 30, 2015
OP u and ur gal should go face ur books,...u both are immature in dis game of luv..una luv story dey rmind me of my jss2 dayz
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by onyeuka: 7:53pm On Nov 30, 2015
""""BLOOD CONVENANT""""" Guy no just try that nonsense in fact you did well by letting her go
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by justjify(m): 7:53pm On Nov 30, 2015
halfrica:



shebi e can sit her down nd talk her out of it

The girls sounds like sumone dat wud do wat op says if he sat her down nd talk to her well bou it
angry
You would have started with this comment. If you did, you'll either get a like or better mention than I did. You sound too restive for my liking. Learnt you had an e-fight with some guy on a thread. angry ... Sorry bae, am not a fighter. I don't fight with girls, okay?
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Pascalberry(m): 7:54pm On Nov 30, 2015
My guy u fvcked up. . . U would have rejected with ßrain and told her that in the real sense oaths ain't g00d, any little mistake can curse damages. U could av also threw points like "u kn0' humans ain't perfect so i miqht n0t be perfect en0uqh to keep oath, we both want a better future and we shudn't brinq whats qonna stop us.
My guy qo and apologize tew her ohh becus u ain't qona find any1 like her for decade.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by sunkoye: 7:54pm On Nov 30, 2015
Op...ur mama dey pray for u wella.....

dat would av been an end time relationship. ..
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Nov 30, 2015
justjify:

You would have started with this comment. If you did, you'll either get a like or better mention than I did. You sound too restive for my liking. Learnt you had an e-fight with some guy on a thread. angry ... Sorry bae, am not a fighter. I don't fight with girls, okay?


See fuvk wateva u feel
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by marlockj: 7:56pm On Nov 30, 2015
holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading cheesy



Op you Dnt love the girl.

How can you Jst break up Jst because she asked for blood blah blah.she never insisted when you said no to blood blah blah.

So why the break up,why did you not call ha and tell her the bad side of blood blah blah.

You were too fast.if I may ask what did she do wrong that you broke up.

To me she love u mre than you love ha.

She never insisted on the blood wateva, why the breakup
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by andyanders: 7:57pm On Nov 30, 2015
Good you broke up with her cus any blood covenant is a spiritual bonding which MUST destroy your life.
She must have been from an ocult home where they seek devilish spiritualist's help.

Never go back cus she is not right for you.A clean girl will not request for such thing.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by HaneefahRN(f): 7:57pm On Nov 30, 2015
holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading cheesy

Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Malakh: 7:58pm On Nov 30, 2015
Rajjah:
Blood covenant is a no no for me. She might evn be d one to be trapped. Though, op, get bak with her. Wat she has for u is love, which is scarce nowadays.
its not love, its obsession and idolatry.Most people in this world have not tasted, experienced or perceived what love is.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by girlhaley(f): 7:59pm On Nov 30, 2015
Hmm,this is really end time blood covenant

My guy,please run for life


Which kin absurd blood covenant be that......

Nawa oo
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Nov 30, 2015
holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading cheesy

some are looking for love while some have it and let it go but some are too stvpid to understand it and the others are just so immature to it. you still have a kid mind and when you are fully mature enough you will know that you have made some big mistake that you will want time to change it. undecided

i really dont like NAIJA WOMEN but what you did here is just so bad, but dont worry karma will deal with you later in life.

get ya seat belt ready wink
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by HaneefahRN(f): 8:02pm On Nov 30, 2015
holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading cheesy

Personally, I don't agree with blood covenant stuff cos anything can happen, no one knw tommorow.
If u truly love her, get back to her and make her see reasons wt u. She probably feels insecure that's why she is asking for such. Do nt give in to any covenant ish o
And bros when u wan get married, 40 baa? As u're saying u're far from marriage at 22, hope u're far from sex too
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by justjify(m): 8:03pm On Nov 30, 2015
halfrica:



See fuvk wateva u feel
cheesy hahaha! E pain am? Take heart dear
Ok come hug daddy

Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by enny4real23(m): 8:03pm On Nov 30, 2015
You will not know the value of what you have until you lose it. Dude, that girl is a rare gem, get back with her, hold on to her and never let her go but make it clear to her that you can NEVER have a convenant with her but reassure her of your love.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by ekundayoalo(m): 8:04pm On Nov 30, 2015
halfrica:
Tank u cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
You're welcome miss
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by BomboyOnline: 8:14pm On Nov 30, 2015
What is blood covenant? I Googled it and got this:

http://www.gotquestions.org/blood-covenant.html
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Nov 30, 2015
Well, both of you are young sha. Don't let ur story be like sugarbelly grin since you said she's obsessed with you
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Ups01(m): 8:15pm On Nov 30, 2015
^^ grin

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Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Ramos16(m): 8:16pm On Nov 30, 2015
dFroshie:
You don't have to go all way by breaking up with her,my opinion with your story is just that I see this lady is so much in love with you than you do and by breaking up with her you don't want her to do the unbelievable,her heart is too fragile....bro you need to get back to her if you do love her and make her see things from your point or view about swearing a oath


I think he did the right thing breaking up with her. You can't ask a guy/girl to go into blood covenant with you, what the hell is that, it shows how low level she thinks and such people can really be dangerous if there is a break up after a long relationship, he did the right thing.

For all I care she is diabolic, and can poison my food with love portion or some deadly killer stuff..
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by jayAjoku(m): 8:17pm On Nov 30, 2015
holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading cheesy

you just dodged a bullet from a crazy bbbbbttch wow *singing in big seans voice*
Thanks for reading cheesy
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Nov 30, 2015
justjify:

cheesy hahaha! E pain am? Take heart dear
Ok come hug daddy

Mind u m nt that skinny like d girl in d pix
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by MacMath(m): 8:18pm On Nov 30, 2015
I will advice you not to break up with but let her know the implications of blood convenant.
Mind u, don't ever do the convenant.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by noblegrex: 8:20pm On Nov 30, 2015
Oath or no oath if break up will come it will no one oath ca stop that.besieds,the love you claimed to be between you two is more than the oath.if the love is genueingly there,you can't have probs.go into aoth with her and fall into trouble big one. Do you even know if she's possesed.you might just swear an aoth into the pit of hell. My Advice;talk to her, if she insist on taking the oath then,you've got no other alternative.shikena
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by blimeyVic(m): 8:20pm On Nov 30, 2015
Pls Op. you know we've been the bestest best friends since Adam.
Abeg give me this girl's number. I need a good girl I'll sincerely love back till marriage,and from your narration,she kinda meets my requirements.
As much as that girl is highly ready to bond with someone, unfortunately to note also, she is on the verge of changing her views about TRUE love.
You don't need to run cos of her proposal,instead of your blood,give her your words. A Girl like that will listen to you cos she is just like an empty page to be written on. If you won't/can't convince her,and sincerely mean your words,please give me her Number before we lose another good girl to that 'all guys are the same' ideology. She deserves your/someone's commitment.
Re: She Says I Am A Devil But Was I Wrong To Do It To Her? by barcaboi(m): 8:22pm On Nov 30, 2015
holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading cheesy

oga blood covenant is a no no but u cldav talked wt her.......call her up and do so.....naivety got the better of u

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