A friend of mine is in need of mature advice concerning his relationship. He is in a serious relationship with an Esan girl from Edo state and he intends to marry her soonest but he is facing some challenges from family members especially.

They are not in support of him getting married to an Esan girl so right now he is confused and does not know what to do.

He is wondering what could be wrong with marrying an Esan girl. Please I need mature advice on whether to go ahead with the relationship and propose to her or to listen to his family members and call it quit.

Always a friend

Edo people, come answer o

U cnt win a battle against ur family,NEVER


he should try and persuade them,or make them see reasons with him,thats the best he can do

Shouldn't he be asking them their reservations ?
Cos no matter what he is told here ,the posters here are not his family members

@MendeZ
- that man should grow up and be mature FIRST
- get some balls and be independent SECOND
- make his own decision and stand by them, regardless of what people say THIRD

if a man cant stand by these points, then he is certainly not ready to get married.

MendeZ:
A friend of mine is in need of mature advice concerning his relationship. He is in a serious relationship with an Esan girl from Edo state and he intends to marry her soonest but he is facing some challenges from family members especially.

They are not in support of him getting married to an Esan girl so right now he is confused and does not know what to do.

He is wondering what could be wrong with marrying an Esan girl. Please I need mature advice on whether to go ahead with the relationship and propose to her or to listen to his family members and call it quit.

until we stop being tribalistic in Nigeria, we will continue to have this problem. weather esan or hausa, is not where she is from that maters but who she is. your parents has no right to chose a spouse for you because they are not the one to live with her, I personally dated a number of Igbo girls and the general believe about them liking money is not always true in all cases;. LET YOUR FRIEND TALK TO HIS PEOPLE, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ESAN GIRL, INFACT THEY ARE ALWAYS VERY FAITHFUL IN MARRIAGE.

Khd95:
U cnt win a battle against ur family,NEVER


he should try and persuade them,or make them see reasons with him,thats the best he can do

my dear you can will them.

tell ur friend to grow a pair first
then we can talk.

Confessng:
Shouldn't he be asking them their reservations ?
Cos no matter what he is told here ,the posters here are not his family members

But at least it will assist him in taking a decision.

LET YOUR FRIEND TALK TO HIS PEOPLE, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ESAN GIRL, INFACT THEY ARE ALWAYS VERY FAITHFUL IN MARRIAGE.[/quote]


He has already spoken with them but I believe u know how parents of these days react by thinking they are trying to protect their son.

iceberylin:
Always a friend

Bro lie tired me oo



Na him jor


Advice to op

Impregnate her.. tell your family na mistake... Satan work as usual


And the lad y family say...ANY ONE WHO IMPREGNATED THERE DAUGHTER MUST MARRY HER BY FORCE

Pheals:
Bro lie tired me oo



Na him jor


Advice to op

Impregnate her.. tell your family na mistake... Satan work as usual


And the lad y family say...ANY ONE WHO IMPREGNATED THERE DAUGHTER MUST MARRY HER BY FORCE

Hehehehehehe I love ur comment anyway but I am not the one. It's truely about a friend of mine

MendeZ:
A friend of mine is in need of mature advice concerning his relationship. He is in a serious relationship with an Esan girl from Edo state and he intends to marry her soonest but he is facing some challenges from family members especially.

They are not in support of him getting married to an Esan girl so right now he is confused and does not know what to do.

He is wondering what could be wrong with marrying an Esan girl. Please I need mature advice on whether to go ahead with the relationship and propose to her or to listen to his family members and call it quit.

Hehehehehe. Esan people av suffered. if its not benin den its Esan......Lol