Hi fellow Nlanders, I present to you my situation with the hope that I will get a great deal of sincere and good serious advice from experienced fellows and persons who are in the same shoes with me that have got a solution. I am a 29yo dude and never had a girl friend (this is not an advert though). My story goes like this. Ever seen in my early years in school I have had great restriction both at home and in school with regards to any love relationship. So I ended up finishing my secondary school without a gf even though I had a crush on some of the girls. I later took after the advice of my teachers and elders saying face your studies now and you can do that later in life, which I did and came out with flying colors. It felt so good concentrating on my studies and passing my exams without a relationship having seen how hectic it was for those with relationships and always complaining. So I graduated from university without a gf. Just after I thought it was time to meet mrs right in my NYSC or serving state, I had to come for my masters in the UK and the same thing followed. I graduated 2 years ago and now working but still without a gf and sometimes I still feel its wrong to have a gf, still being affected from my strict childhood and teenage periods.

Now I am coming home end of this year and I feel it is time to find love and settle down. I am not experienced in relationship but I would like to meet one girl and that would be final. I feel am too old to start chasing different girls every time so am looking forward to going to in a genuine and sincere relationship for once and get married soon afterwards.

Please any advice that can help me achieve this would highly be appreciated. I apologise if I have put too much text but I couldnt have done any better. Thanks for reading and your anticipated advice.

interesting


well don't worry it's easy to get women if you're somebody

emmm, dunno what to tell ya! well, ummm, i guess u got to keep ya eyes open.
SO wait, u mean not even 1 Gf ever?? are you a V? sorry to ask o, im just kinda shocked!!

Are yu a virgin?

well phatwizkid he didnt say if hes had quickies so we wouldnt know. But there is nothing wrong in not having a girl friend. Its all a matter of principle. You can lead a healthy life without one.

let me see ur pic plz

patwhizkid (f)

how u looking for virgine, i am vergine little boy, u can have me

Edogram (m), plz don't derail this thread!

patwhizkid (f)

do you like to see my pic, since u refuse of showing urs

You will surely get women. There are lots of them. Poor or Rich ,u will get women . But u may not get ur kind of woman.

Normally, ur kind of woman dont come to you, u go to them. You go out and get them.

And you know life isn't fair- a rookie like u just might end up with a veteran. And that will not be fair on u. Just hope for luck.

But try and see a counsellor to counsell you properly.

Cheers

Edogram (m), no i don't wanna c ya pix!

i will show u, i just take this right now from my laptop webcam.

Bros,u mean to say u've never toasted a girl before or high one before? O boy le dis one critical. I pity for d babe wey u go first high,cos her dis-tin go blow whistle and na 12plet una go born,and not even abortion go save una. Anyway wish u good luck,be a man,walk up to a babe,tell her ur mind,highest na 'NO' else u go beat nelson mandela record

Dear,



Pls kindlyreply to my private emailrbloveme1@yahoo.fr)

I know you will be surprise to receive my mail since we have neither seen nor
met before.Well, let me start by first introducing myself to you.My name is
Rita Benson, the only daughter to George Benson.My father was assassinated on his way to his office and since the sudden assassination of my beloved father I
have been leaving in terrible fear, couple with the political crisis here in my
country cote d'ivore.I am planing to travel out of the country, that is why
I have decided to contact you to help me contact the bank for the transfer of
the money my father deposited the sum of $6.5 million US dollar in a bank
here before his sudden assassination.I will give you more informations as soon
as you guarranttee me that you will treat me honestly during the investment of
this money in your country.
Dear, as you can see this money is my hope of survival and I am entrusting
this money on you with faith and believe that you will treat me in good faith
during my stay in your country.I will like you to also assure me that you
will honestly manage this money for me in the business which the money will be
invested, as soon as you give me this guranttee I will then give you all the
neccessary details concerning this money which will enable you contact the bank
on my behalf.I shall send you the document the bank issue to my late father when
he made the deposit in the bank and my picture for you to see me and I will
also like you to send me your picture for more trust and confidence.

Thanks.

Yours Sincerely.

Rita Benson
N.B:Pls kindlyreply to my private email(rbloveme1@yahoo.fr)

Edogram (m), plz be on topic!

patwhizkid (f)

i have donwload my picture here , is seems some one is deleting it.

Edogram (m), send it 2 my mb

patwhizkid (f)

i dont have ur mb

i just make my on tread u can join me there

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-277850.0.html

@ Poster

Take your time, go on a few dates and get to know ppl. Don't appear desperate for a relationship or you may end up with the wrong type of chic. After all, you're a guy and you have done well for yourself (it seems), you have a lot of time and a lot going for you. Observe and analyse for the mean time.

Edogram (m), post it hia!

Thanks for all your advice. I really appreciate it and will take on board alot of things that have been pointed out here. Thanks a million times, now I know there are really some good Nigerians out there that appreciate doing good and are ready to help others. keep it up cos am proud to be a Nigerian this moment.
HAPPY DEMOCRACY DAY TO US ALL.

To answer some of you question:
1. I have never had a gf or toast a girl.
2. I am not a v but I have not a had a serious sexual thing just the teenage thing which i would not call sex.
3. I cant put a pic but i can sent to your personal email if you are a girl but not guys sorry
4. Rita Benson may you daddy and his $$$ rest in peace as I am content with what I have and not looking for a gold mine.

Cheers babes and guys

Oya d_m, send it 2 my mailbox now!

d_m:

HAPPY DEMOCRACY DAY TO US ALL.

i cant believe i forgot today is democratic day in naija

patwhizkid (f)

u r here, u want other guys pix, what about my own.

not enough to u?

Lmfao

what the meaning of the

patwhizkid:

Lmfao

Guy, don't expect to hit the jackpot on your first try. If at first you don't succeed . . .

edogram:

what the meaning of the

laughing my fat ass off

Am laughing my fuc.king ass off.

y me:

i cant believe i forgot today is democratic day in naija

wen many people neva see food chop, how dem wan take remember democracy day. Abi u no knw sey body sweet person make am enter photo?