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| How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Nobody: 2:29pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
I don't know how this whole thing started,we went to the same university but different departments,we were not so close,just read together most times and strolled back home because we lived in the same area off campus. She added me on BlackBerry some months ago and since has been saying strange things i don't seem to understand. It started with normal compliments like- I like your dress sense,lipstick and so on. But I now hear things like.... I love you and i'm serious You are pretty Send me your pictures I love your lips When should I come visit you in lagos Let's gist about your sexual life......I usually just type "lol" when she's going too far. I actually thought it's just a normal compliment from a lady but now she stalks me on facebook,instagram,whatsapp,bbm etc The recent one that shocked me was on saturday I posted a picture of my pink room and she went about saying strange things that I can't even post here. I'm confused because she used to have a boyfriend in school back then,thats the reason I havnt confronted her yet, because she may deny it but deep down I know it's either she changed her sexuality or became bisexual and unfortunately I'm never going to be part of that.But incase she's finally bold enough to admit it which I pray she doesnt,i seriously don't have any idea how to rebuke her without hurting or bruising her ego. |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by lovelyadeola(m): 2:34pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
Cut the rope I'll say. disconnect Any means which she can use tto communicate with you. . . . Meanwhile CheckOut My Signature Below 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Nobody: 2:40pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
What if she tells u that she's lesbian? As a friend, u have to listen to her explanations fist before u conclude and be so judgmental to her and tell her straight up what u want to happen...definitely u have the rights to choose ur friends.. Good luck! 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by bronzegoddess(f): 2:42pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
Gimme her pin |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by obiorathesubtle: 2:47pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
Tell her about Jesus christ. Preach to her on the word of God. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by SunehriLasgidi(f): 2:47pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by MRBrownJ: 2:48pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
@petkruz simply tell her:" as much as i am flattered by you words, and i respect your sexual orientation (to each their own), i must tell you that i am in no way/shape/form attracted whatsoever to you (or any other women) sexually. i do like men, ONLY men, and thats my final answer, as i would like our friendship to remain exactly that, and nothing more. please stop such bisexual/lesbian way of addressing me as i am not comfortable with that, and will have to remove you from my circle of friends if you wish to continue to disrespect and offend me like that. thanks for your understanding and may you find what you desire elsewhere. if she continues talking to you in such manner, you have no choice but to remove her from your life (and circle of friends) 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Mermaids(f): 2:50pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
 bronzegoddess: |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by bronzegoddess(f): 2:54pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by babs01(m): 2:57pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
If u want catch a theif u catch him/her by wrist. She s nt a crimnal until she z found guilty. |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Nobody: 3:02pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
bronzegoddess: Give you her pin ke, lol |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Nobody: 3:03pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle:Ha unfortunately i'm not good in that o |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Nobody: 3:05pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
MRBrownJ: Thanks I need to copy and save this your write up for the rainy day. It's really cool, I appreciate brilliant minds like yours. |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by 2dice(m): 3:22pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
This one you wey to say NO dey do you like disss #Being one of Thy Rod(Love Machine) candidate won't be far from thy"  #TeamWearIRON-PANT Henceforth  |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Ikenna17(m): 3:32pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
It ain't nothing, cut that bi**h off!!! |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by obiorathesubtle: 3:34pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
petkruz:learn. That's the only way |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by fatheritunu: 3:37pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
MRBrownJ:nice advice bro. Pls I wanna ask u a question, what natural circle do you appreciate the most? |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by MRBrownJ: 3:58pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
petkruz: thanks, you are welcome fatheritunu: sorry, you lost me there.... what is natural circle? |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by IamLEGEND1: 4:16pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
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| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Nobody: 5:58pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
there's nothing polite abt it??
Tel her to go and meet her grandmoda 4 prayrs 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Abobaku1: 1:35am On Dec 06, 2015 |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Nobody: 2:50am On Dec 06, 2015 |
bronzegoddess:  |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Nobody: 4:51am On Dec 10, 2015 |
petkruz: JUST INTRODUCE HER TO ME; I WILL SOLVE UR PROBLEM 4U |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Jtmanager(m): 6:32am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Na wa o... Recommend me to her now... Tell her she can find tru love in me |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Nobody: 6:37am On Dec 10, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle: Why do i find what You just typed here Hilarious!?? Lmfao!Coming from You!? this is Ludicrous! Rotfl! |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by obiorathesubtle: 9:08am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Estharfabian: My brain works perfectly sometimes... I don't even know what made me type that. |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Nobody: 9:14am On Dec 10, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle:I think Your "Bible" Is showing...  |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by noblegrex: 1:32am On Dec 12, 2015 |
petkruz:how far about your lesbo friend.distribute her pin so that she can stop stalking,when people keep her busy.but make them lesbian allow we guys do the Bleep!ng na. |
| Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down A LESBIAN Or BISEXUAL Friend Without Hurting Her. by Nobody: 2:11am On Dec 12, 2015 |
you can only turn her down by hurting her.... there is no short cut to that |
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