I have a rich boyfriend, she spends money on me and pets me well. Yesterday he bought a costly wristwatch for me and some other stuff. But he started demanding for sex.

He said women have nothing to contribute in a relationship apart from sex. I disagree we ladies love care and cherish. Is that not enough?

Men should just stop seeing women as sex object. Me am keeping my body for my husband.

Smh. I know Op is a guy and he seeks attention... And I will give it to him...

You suck..

Digital break up.... kpele

If you can't give him your body, then stop accepting expensive gifts from him. After all u have nothing to offer him. Mumu girl

U want all d care in the world from someone who is not your husband and yet u have nothing to offer smh!

Harmattan sef can make someone high....

banjicom:
If you can't give him your body, then stop accepting expensive gifts from him. After all u have nothing to offer him. Mumu girl

U want all d care in the world from someone who is not your husband and yet u have nothing to offer smh!

What do you mean I have nothing to offer. Don't I love and care for him? Is it my duty to cook or wash his cloths? Am I his maid?

If the love and care I have for him isn't enough he should fuk off

I hate commenting in such senceless thread

Ezedon:
I hate commenting in such senceless thread

Then you are senseless. Is your type that I am talking about. You think is a man's world so you go as you wish

Ezedon:
I hate commenting in such senceless thread

Tears

RexKexMilann:
If you Could Exchange your "God-Given" Brain For A Bowl of Ice-cream, What is now the big deal In giving your Boyfriend sex after spending heavily on You …

Is funny how some girls want a relationship without sex..but still wants the boy to be showering them with gifts..olojukokoro

carlcar2012:
I have a rich boyfriend, she spends money on me and pets me well. Yesterday he bought a costly wristwatch for me and some other stuff. But he started demanding for sex.

He said women have nothing to contribute in a relationship apart from sex. I disagree we ladies love care and cherish. Is that not enough?

Men should just stop seeing women as sex object. Me am keeping my body for my husband.

My dear return all his stuffs dat he bought u nd leave !!!!!!
His perspective bou women is a write of!!!!!!!

carlcar2012:


What do you mean I have nothing to offer. Don't I love and care for him? Is it my duty to cook or wash his cloths? Am I his maid?

If the love and care I have for him isn't enough he should fuk off

How do women express love and care?

I am not supporting premarital sex. But u should know a typical Nigerian man. If he spends on u premaritally like a wife, then he expect wifely duties from you.

The question you should ask is: What effect does ur love and care have on his life and business? Is your love and care something he can't do without? What the difference between when he was single and when he is dating you?

Men mostly make sex a serious criteria when they feel the woman makes no impact in their lives whatsoever.

halfrica:

My dear return all his stuffs dat he bought u nd leave !!!!!! His perspective bou women is a write of!!!!!!!

Total write off. But am not going to return it. It will look rude.

banjicom:
If you can't give him your body, then stop accepting expensive gifts from him. After all u have nothing to offer him. Mumu girl

U want all d care in the world from someone who is not your husband and yet u have nothing to offer smh!

bros she needs all the care. Her name is carlcare

carlcar2012:


Total write off. But am not going to return it. It will look rude.

So u cant return them!!!!!!!! if u return them u nt been rude u only showed him u av got self worth nd he myt change his perspective bou u nd women in nigeria

Ok m waiting for a thread u will open saiying he raped u!!!!!!!

Imagine the guy was poor she wouldn't even think it twice b4 she would say "it's over btween me and u".
This is the reason the man insist on sex. It's not that he can't do without it but he knows the lady is with him cos of his money. So he's not feeling secure.

ministeriallist:
Imagine the guy was poor she wouldn't even think it twice b4 she would say "it's over btween me and u".
This is the reason the man insist on sex. It's not that he can't do without it but he knows the lady is with him cos of his money. So he's not feeling secure.

Who told you am there for the money. Did I force him to buy the stuff for me. FYI I prefer a guy that respects a lady. I am no gold digger

carlcar2012:
I have a rich boyfriend, she spends money on me and pets me well. Yesterday he bought a costly wristwatch for me and some other stuff. But he started demanding for sex.

He said women have nothing to contribute in a relationship apart from sex. I disagree we ladies love care and cherish. Is that not enough?

Men should just stop seeing women as sex object. Me am keeping my body for my husband.

Hmmm, something is very wrong with this. Why "rich boyfriend" & not just "my boyfriend" ? See, you've "objectified" /classified him by his monetary status, why get defensive when he objectifies you as something else other than human? You claim he buys you all these shiny trinkets, question is, would you stay if he only had love & care to give & nothing to benefit you in worldly terms?

Don't class people by their money bags if you don't want them to also view you as just a mere cumbag with nothing to offer. Don't accept what he buys with his money & let your relationship centre around that care you spoke of. Your mindset is one sided because you're
"gaining" something tangible out of this, the bling, while all you give in return is nebulosity & you wonder why he says you have nothing to give. Be fair.

He buys golden wrist watch and other stuff you collect and say no sex till marriage what will be his returns for investment. No sex before marriageis equal to No money and gifts before marriage. Am keeping them for my wife and future kids. Golddiggers

U can chop his money. Gv him body

carlcar2012:
I have a rich boyfriend, she spends money on me and pets me well. Yesterday he bought a costly wristwatch for me and some other stuff. But he started demanding for sex.

He said women have nothing to contribute in a relationship apart from sex. I disagree we ladies love care and cherish. Is that not enough?

Men should just stop seeing women as sex object. Me am keeping my body for my husband.

You probably milked him, so the best option for him is to bang and drop you which is fair, so to speak.

You should try to be independent and only allow the next guy spend less. I detest women who love money and material stuffs a lot.

DeeTus:
You probably milked him, so the best option for him is to bang and drop you which is fair so to speak.
You should try to be independent and only allow the next guy spend less. I detest women who love money and material stuffs a lot.

I didn't milk him. He is very rich. And am not a gold digger. He loves me and I love him too. He gives me money because of the love and care I give him. Isn't that what men want. As afar as am concerned is a 50-50 contribution. Sex should be out of it

halfrica:



So u cant return them!!!!!!!! if u return them u nt been rude u only showed him u av got self worth nd he myt change his perspective bou u nd women in nigeria

Ok m waiting for a thread u will open saiying he raped u!!!!!!!

There is no better way to identify a hungry and classless girl. She's even using abusive and vulgar words. Too classless for my liking, whatever attracted him to her? Maybe she is beautiful, but what is beauty without discretion?
PunkyVeer ur advise is spot on. You took that right outta my mouth, I have nothing more to add.
Modified : what's all this talk of love and care like it has a different meaning from what I know.
Note that i'm not in support of guys thinking they can buy off sex by showering her with gifts, no, but for op to create a thread on this matter, it's obvious say this imminent break up from her "rich bf " is paining her and she would miss the money. Mi lady, if ur not comfortable with his approach for sex, pls breakup before her leaves you, it would give you the psychological fillip.

carlcar2012:


I didn't milk him. He is very rich. And am not a gold digger. He loves me and I love him too. He gives me money because of the love and care I give him. Isn't that what men want. As afar as am concerned is a 50-50 contribution. Sex should be out of it

No. Love-making is also part of being in love. Another is affection and is utmost important which you probably don't know. Are you really romantic? Probably not.

The bottom line is you didn't live up to his expectation. Forget the fact that he spends money on you, that is not the arithmetic of love.

In relationship, there's what is called long term and short term relationship. A man can decide to date you for short time if you don't know what you're doing.

Girls av always been self centred since d beginning of tym. u claim u give him love and attention in exchange for his expensive gifts, dis means u feel u actually doin him a favour. wat if he actually feels, by giving u money he is also actually doin u a favour nd should expect sumtin in return which is sex, also he still gives u d love nd attention u give him, wat do u give him in return. a lady adviced u to return d gifts if u feel u CNT give him sex to prove ur self worth, BT obviously, u don't care abt ur self worth, u only care of d monetary gain. so its ur choice, give nd collect. if u wanna keep ur body for ur husb, let him also keep his money nd gifts for his wife. and u can both continue giving urselfs d love nd attention u ve bin giving urselfs b4 nw

carlcar2012:
I have a rich boyfriend, she spends money on me and pets me well. Yesterday he bought a costly wristwatch for me and some other stuff. But he started demanding for sex.

He said women have nothing to contribute in a relationship apart from sex. I disagree we ladies love care and cherish. Is that not enough?

Men should just stop seeing women as sex object. Me am keeping my body for my husband.

bro. Seriously do u understand wat u wrote? U mean u collected money from a guy and dont want to return d favour 4 him? i recommend a brain surgery 4 u, maybe u migth just start seeing tin d normal way.

carlcar2012:


What do you mean I have nothing to offer. Don't I love and care for him? Is it my duty to cook or wash his cloths? Am I his maid?

If the love and care I have for him isn't enough he should fuk off

if ur love and care is not amounting to sex,pls tell me what exactly is the love and care u usually do?

carlcar2012:
I have a rich boyfriend, she spends money on me and pets me well. Yesterday he bought a costly wristwatch for me and some other stuff. But he started demanding for sex.

He said women have nothing to contribute in a relationship apart from sex. I disagree we ladies love care and cherish. Is that not enough?

Men should just stop seeing women as sex object. Me am keeping my body for my husband.

is people like you that's affecting the change buhari wants to bring in.....why not wait for your husband to come and buy you the expensive gifts plus if any guy comes around don't request for it cus ur husband your waiting for won't be happy...mchew iranu

troll.



lalasticlala, ban this _shemale

Lol. If you're a lady who typed this nonsense, then you are just a slave. He has purchased you with his money and gifts and you'd better comply.