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smileysmiley:
Hello OUR,
I am a married woman and I live with my
husband in a two bedroom apartment. I have
been married for three years but do not have any
kids yet as my husband and I are still waiting for
God to bless us with children.
You would think this is the problem I have with my
mother-in-law right? The fact that i don’t have
kids? Actually, the reason i am writing to you is
far from that.
My mother-in-law lives in the village and we live
in the city. She comes to visit us quite often which
i definitely do not have a problem with as she is
welcome to our home anytime.
The only issue i have with her regular visits is the
fact that whenever she comes, for whatever
reason, my husband always asks me to evacuate
our matrimonial bedroom for her. He makes me
leave our room to sleep in the guestroom while
him and his mother sleep in our bedroom.
I have wondered and thought to myself if it is
normal to have a full grown man sleep with his
mother in the same room especially when there is
another room available but i am unable to
reconcile it in my head.
I asked him why he does it and his response to me
was “my mother and I are very close and she
suffered so much for me growing up so the least
I feel I owe her is to make her very comfortable.
And if she feels more comfortable in
our matrimonial bed? Then so be it”.
I was appalled after i got his response. So
appalled that i decided enough is enough!
The next time she visited, i deliberately went to
bed earlier than usual and tucked myself under
the covers pretending to be asleep.
When it was time for her to go to bed, could you
believe my husband came to wake me up from
my pretend sleep telling me that i should go to the
other room so “mama” can come to bed?
I couldn’t believe my ears. I literally thought i was
dreaming.
Anyway, just for peace to reign, i did as i was told
and mama actually came to bed while i slept in
the guest room as usual.
Please OUR, tell me what i can do. I have endured
this for three years but it is becoming ridiculous.
What will happen when we have kids? How will I
explain to them that daddy sleeps in the same
room with grandma whenever she’s around and
not mummy? Does that even sound like
something anyone should say out loud?
Kindly advise on what i should do to save the
situation because i am really getting tired of the
entire thing.
Source: http://alocovivavoce.com/2015/10/09/877/

smileysmiley:
Hello OUR,
I am a married woman and I live with my
husband in a two bedroom apartment. I have
been married for three years but do not have any
kids yet as my husband and I are still waiting for
God to bless us with children.
You would think this is the problem I have with my
mother-in-law right? The fact that i don’t have
kids? Actually, the reason i am writing to you is
far from that.
My mother-in-law lives in the village and we live
in the city. She comes to visit us quite often which
i definitely do not have a problem with as she is
welcome to our home anytime.
The only issue i have with her regular visits is the
fact that whenever she comes, for whatever
reason, my husband always asks me to evacuate
our matrimonial bedroom for her. He makes me
leave our room to sleep in the guestroom while
him and his mother sleep in our bedroom.
I have wondered and thought to myself if it is
normal to have a full grown man sleep with his
mother in the same room especially when there is
another room available but i am unable to
reconcile it in my head.
I asked him why he does it and his response to me
was “my mother and I are very close and she
suffered so much for me growing up so the least
I feel I owe her is to make her very comfortable.
And if she feels more comfortable in
our matrimonial bed? Then so be it”.
I was appalled after i got his response. So
appalled that i decided enough is enough!
The next time she visited, i deliberately went to
bed earlier than usual and tucked myself under
the covers pretending to be asleep.
When it was time for her to go to bed, could you
believe my husband came to wake me up from
my pretend sleep telling me that i should go to the
other room so “mama” can come to bed?
I couldn’t believe my ears. I literally thought i was
dreaming.
Anyway, just for peace to reign, i did as i was told
and mama actually came to bed while i slept in
the guest room as usual.
Please OUR, tell me what i can do. I have endured
this for three years but it is becoming ridiculous.
What will happen when we have kids? How will I
explain to them that daddy sleeps in the same
room with grandma whenever she’s around and
not mummy? Does that even sound like
something anyone should say out loud?
Kindly advise on what i should do to save the
situation because i am really getting tired of the
entire thing.
Source: http://alocovivavoce.com/2015/10/09/877/

MrCork:




....u this ungrateful sellfish irasbolastickated Ghana girl....shudunt u be happy he sleep wit juss u & yor mum instead of cheatin outside yo marraige wit outsiders?....do u no wot u want?

Techinally hear in pekam, we callit * 3some* ...big deal...GROW UP!!!

smileysmiley:
dearest Mr Cork I've been expecting your comment for a while now, now derail the thread Your Royal Highness

smileysmiley:
dearest Mr Cork I've been expecting your comment for a while now, now derail the thread Your Royal Highness

MrCork:




....anyway s..did I mention I drive £28,000 (cash) range rover spot!

MrCork:




....anyway s..did I mention I drive £28,000 (cash) range rover spot!

MrCork:




....anyway s..did I mention I drive £28,000 (cash) range rover spot!

MrCork:




....u this ungrateful sellfish irasbolastickated Ghana girl....shudunt u be happy he sleep wit juss u & yor mum instead of cheatin outside yo marraige wit outsiders?....do u no wot u want?

Techinally hear in pekam, we callit * 3some* ...big deal...GROW UP!!!

smileysmiley:
no, I'm just hearing that now for the first time, tell me more His Royal Highness

Ishilove:

In your dreams

bibijay123:
Next time tell your husband that the three of u shld sleep in d same room, tell him abt u missing mama so much n wanting to spend enoff time wit her

CaroLyner:
you should be paying consultancy and solution fee for what am about telling you..but never mind I will try help u out it's obvious that so many things are going through ur mind . first thing u need to do before taking any further step when next ur MIL is around get a phone with good memory or Sdcard put it on flight ✈ mode wen ur MIL is about sleeping go to the room and lay d bed... let ur husband know u have done dis so he won't do it again now select a place closer to the bed and start d recorder on d phone... if u have a way u can set a cam u can as well but dat requires more in d morning go pick up ur phone ""

NemzySeries:
hmmmmmm.....dis 1 W're hearing new & weird stories everyday I wunt b shocked if ur hubby & hiz mum are intimately engaged Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo bkos I dunt c d reason y parents of newly weds wud b visiting every nw & den as if na ultimate search season 12 dem wan apply 4.....it cud also b spiritually related bkos I bliv ur hubby & hiz mum kws watz up joor instead of giving us d moda & son luv yeye gist

MrCork:




....lookhear sweet hat...if I diside to bring my range rover to Nigeria. ..truss me...you will hav no choice but to fall in love wit me!! (REAL TALK)