Am afraid of love.just recently i noticed that all the gyals i truly loved in my life.i always seem part way with them as soon as i notice am falling in love.
Also This happen to me twice i mean falling in love with my friends.who are gyals but not doing anything so as not to damage our friendship.
Also i hate love films.i forced myself to believe love is weakness that a man must think with his head not heart.
Note.no gyal has or have ever broken my heart because i use them for my own reasons.so if they leave me, wil just replace them...so because of this i keep many gf.
But i want to change.be a better person but i can un derstand why i am afraid of love and to love
DO I NEED HELP OR ITS A NORMAL FEELING

Its coz it feels like a heart attack

sinaj:
Its coz it feels like a heart attack

lols.i dont get you

sinaj:
Its coz it feels like a heart attack

Naah.. Op just has to grow up.

We all r afraid to love, but we can't do without it

kilokeys:

Naah.. Op just has to grow up.

grow up,how?

Greekgoddess:
We all r afraid to love, but we can't do without it

we can actually if there is mutual interest

oloyede252:
we can actually if there is mutual interest

Dere is always mutual interest on the onset

Richy4:
Just maybe you have heard so many story or have seen some people that were heart broken because of the four letter words.
You cannot see anything good about it till you give it a go......

You needed some reassurance that love is a good thing... but if this reassurance comes from your role model, it will give you the chance to try it. Who is your role model? approach him or her with this topic... the assurance he/she will give you will be super cool... it is a psychological thing..... give it a go (I mean a decent role model of yours ooooo )

thks

Cc: babra19

Love only comes to those who believe in it...from your write up i can deduce the fact that you never believed in love, so, don't expect to be loved.

Simply because u don't want to be heart broken