Anytime I hear girls (especially Nigerians) claiming to be feminists, I just shake my head and laugh coz she's obviously oblivious of what exactly she's talking abouh. Before u begin to judge or insult me, kindly go through my list and see why you might think you're a feminist, when in actual sense, your real self believes and knows you aren't.

1. The Holy books: Now, whether you're a christian or a muslim, the truth remains your religion has unarguably placed the man above you. In the Bible, GOD made the man to be the HEAD and the woman the assistant, helper etc of course, there can't be two heads. The Quran also... Well I don't need to say much about that coz all muslims know it.
Now, this goes to show that if u believe in GOD and His existence, and you want to make heaven or al jannah (as in the case of our muslim folks), you can't be or support feminism or else you can't make paradise. If you don't believe in GOD, then check the next one, you might see the reason why you aint a feminist.

2 Most of you will be ranting "both genders are equal" when you ought to be pleading for us (men) to allow both genders to be equal, yet when a man hits a woman, he's considered a coward. I mean, if we're both equal, why should my hitting you be a problem? If Tosyne2much slaps Airforce1 , no one would talk (except jeering Airforce1 to retaliate and both should fight), but if tosyne2much now hits misspicy , hell would be let loose as people would start attacking tosyne2much. Now let's take a look at this, in most developed nations, when an adult hits a child it is called "abuse", the same happens when a man hits a woman. You have subconsciously agreed that the man has an advantage.


3. Now both genders are equal, yet it's the same set of females that'll be expecting the man to be sweet and romantic, you expect him to buy you flowers and nice things, say sweet words to make your head swell, treat you like a "PET", the truth is, that's because your subconscious knows you actually are. Why should I buy flowers or pet my fellow mate?

4. You go on a date and you expect him to handle the bill. You begin to hear phrases like "aren't you the man?" From the same set of people who shout "both genders are equal". You expect him as the husband to handle the major responsibilities. If you and your younger siblings live together, who takes the major responsibilities? And why? The answer is the reason why your subconscious knows you aren't equal.


5. Abeg make una help me add the last one

I'm open to all criticisms


It's [size=14pt]ADONIS3[/size] baby...

In my opinion, all these Nigerian ladies, especially the ones here on Nairaland, who claim to be feminists, are either delusional or just plain ignorant.

My brother some naija babes are confused this days.

I'm a womanist .

Women r just confused.

dachaste come and see oo we're not equal

Decker:
In my opinion, all these Nigerian ladies, especially the ones here on Nairaland, who claim to be feminists, are either delusional or just plain ignorant.

I'm inclined to subscribe to your point

The truth of the matter is that those proclaimed feminists are usually arrogant and delusional just as Decker opined

Mmmmm men bashing women since d death of christ....feminist or not, everyone has a role to play btw from ur post, u sound egoistic alongside our uncle dat is concurring...no offense intended

tosyne2much:
I'm inclined to subscribe to your point

My guy.

this happens only when the mans authority gets out of hand.a man wants to be respected by his wife but he disrespects her forgetting that respect is earned.A woman is a helper,ur own missing rib and a mate to u not a maid.respect and love her and u will receive her full submissiveness .

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cruzita:
this happens only when the mans authority gets out of hand.a man wants to be respected by his wife but he disrespects her forgetting that respect is earned.A woman is a helper,ur own missing rib and a mate to u not a maid.respect and love her and u will receive her full submissiveness .

Excuse me, please I have been wanting to ask, are you a male or a female or you are just confused? Because your profile says you are a female but your dp and comments you make say otherwise.

Decker:


Excuse me, please I have been wanting to ask, are you a male or a female or you are just confused? Because your profile says you are a female but your dp and comments you make say otherwise.

what does my moniker say

naijaboiy:

ROTFL!!!!

Is that a guy or girl in that profile?

Guy the thing tire me o.

The picture looks like that of a dude, but if it's actually a girl, then that's one fugly girl.

cruzita:
what does my moniker say

Sorry if this might sound insulting but yes, your moniker says that you are a female, but your display picture doesn't look like that of a physically and hormonal normal female.

Cholls:
My brother some naija babes are confused this days.

And english like this is the beginning of confusion

Decker:


Sorry if this might sound insulting but yes, your moniker says that you are a female, but your display picture doesn't look like that of a physical and hormonal normal female.

then believe whatever u like cos I can't start giving u details about myself

cruzita:
then believe whatever u like cos I can't start giving u details about myself

Again, sorry if I sounded a bit rude, but please just answer these two questions and we are good.

1. Are you a female

2. If yes, are you the one on your dp, if no, is that your boyfriend?

Please answer my questions, you will be doing yourself and a lot of curious and confused people as myself, a whole lot of good

Decker:


Again, sorry if I sounded a bit rude, but please just answer these two questions and we are good.

1. Are you a female

2. If yes, are you the one on your dp, if no, is that your boyfriend?

Please answer my questions, you will be doing yourself and a lot of curious and confused people as myself, a whole lot of good

if that's what u want I'm a female and dats me on my dp cos that's the way I like to be