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Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by BoneBlogger(m): 9:54pm On May 21, 2018
A Nigerian lady has got herself trending yet again after revealing why she's not a wife material. The social media influence, Angela Nwosu took to Facebook to share her reasons as she smoked shisha.

Read her lengthy piece below;

I am not a Wife Material!

All of the pictures I’ve seen on social media depicting wife material are of women cooking alone, doing all of the cleaning and doing their “womanly duties.” Don't get me wrong, there are two different roles in relationships that one partner will be better at than the other. Me, proudly smoking shisha and not afraid to post it on a platform as big as Facebook, shows that I am not a wife material, I hate that word, with reckless abandon. Girls are forming and pretending, not being themselves, all to be termed a wife material and land a husband living their lives just to please the society and painfully, publicly stand on a morality higher ground, while doing terrible things in secret. The only way I survive on earth is being myself and not what society wants me to be, na only me waka come.
And yes, the shisha pot belongs to me.

No, I am not married and no, I am not a feminist, but I’m a firm believer that relationships are a team effort. To make a relationship work, responsibilities of the household must be shared. I’m all for cooking and burning down the house together. This is the 21st century and there are so many more opportunities for men and women than there have been in the past.

Like I said, I’m not a wife material. If I ever get married, I’m not turning into your slave just to be ‘a perfect wife material’ I’m not your mother, nor will I ever be. I’d much rather call in a pizza and watch movies than slave over a meal that requires 3 hours of my time to prepare. If your friends are over to hang out with you and watch the game, I’d rather be sitting on the couch yelling at the T.V. too, than catering to you and your friends. I also won’t expect you to be the only one supporting our family. I’m not broke and Amadioha isn’t taking care of me for nothing, ighotago?

I’m not your typical girl or typical girlfriend, I am extremely different and I definitely won’t be your typical wife. I won’t wake you up with the smell of breakfast, because chances are, if it’s a weekend, I’m sleeping until 12pm. I will probably burn at least one piece of food every time I cook for you and then proceed to tell you we’re going to eat out and do shisha afterwards. For your birthday, I’d rather buy you Play Station 4 that we can play together, than buying or making you something more sentimental. When you wake up next to me, you won’t see Sleeping Beauty. You'll see that my mouth will be dry of no lipstick from the previous day, you will always see my spots clearly, my eyes will be partially open and my hair will look like ike okuko.

I don’t have unrealistic expectations for a husband to be “hubby material,” and I don’t want someone to have unrealistic expectations of me to be “wife material.” I know that people have their faults and it’s hard to live with someone no matter how much you love them. I don’t expect my future spouse to have to pay for everything we have just like I hope he doesn’t expect me to cater to his every need.

Who makes these rules anyway? These rules for what is wife or husband material and what is not? I’m not even “feminizing” here, just wondering why we tend to subscribe to the notion that a certain set of qualities are desirable for marriage. That a girl doing shisha is wayward, an ashawo and a disgrace to womanhood, therefore, will never get married. There’s a statement my mother says “as our faces are different, so also are our needs different”. What Mr Okoli requires in a wife may be completely different from what Mr Okonkwo wants and for Miss Angie and Miss Doris, their list of requirements will also differ by a sharp margin.

Dear future husband,
I will be your best friend, your support system, your spouse, your partner in crime but more importantly your ashawo. I won’t be your second mother or your babysitter. And we definitely won’t just exist in the same house. We will be 50+ years old and still be attending concerts, watching Boondocks, while drinking cheap wine and taking spontaneous trips to the beach.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/i-am-not-a-wife-material-i-am-not-a-feminist-lady-says-as-she-smokes-photos.html

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Kxngstein(m): 9:56pm On May 21, 2018
With her masculine physique she must be a misogynist

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by SoapQueen(f): 10:02pm On May 21, 2018
Is that person male or female or a tranny?

This Shisha, is it a fun thing to do? I wrote an article on vaporizers some days back. I was gob smacked at how pricey they are. They get much patronage too.

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Blakjewelry(m): 10:13pm On May 21, 2018
and op expect me to read those loong story because of one idiot

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:21pm On May 21, 2018
Nice one and if you ever get married may it be with a man who shares your view.Some of your points made sense to me.

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Nobody: 10:36pm On May 21, 2018
To nairaland guys This is your portion Amen

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Nobody: 10:41pm On May 21, 2018
undecided

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by CoolFreeday(m): 10:44pm On May 21, 2018
she has her point but can't be my wife.
she make some sense though...

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Sheuns(m): 10:45pm On May 21, 2018
shocked

Yes you're not a wife material but husband material as a lesbo. All these your stories, na you go mould man wey go accept all the trash you put up there

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by CoolFreeday(m): 10:45pm On May 21, 2018
vikkimimi:
To nairaland guys This is your portion Amen

what are you saying

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Berlyn1(f): 10:46pm On May 21, 2018
her life her business.... not everyone is destined to be married ... if its her calling to be whatever she chooses to be let's pray she succeeds anyway grin

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Nobody: 10:46pm On May 21, 2018
na male or female be dat?

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by CoolFreeday(m): 10:46pm On May 21, 2018
SoapQueen:
Is that person male or female or a tranny?

This Shisha, is it a fun thing to do? I wrote an article on vaporizers some days back. I was gob smacked at how pricey they are. They get much patronage too.


can I get the link to the article?
Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by SoapQueen(f): 10:48pm On May 21, 2018
CoolFreeday:


can I get the link to the article?
The one I wrote? I wrote it for a client. I could mail it to you.

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by cana882(m): 10:53pm On May 21, 2018
Congrats dear..

In 6yrs time, you'll be running to Shiloh and asking God why..

With your head wey be like energy bulb.

In fact!!!

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by MANNABBQGRILLS: 10:53pm On May 21, 2018
Obviously, you are not a wife material!

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Nobody: 10:53pm On May 21, 2018
High people everywhere

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by tolufase: 10:53pm On May 21, 2018
vikkimimi:
To nairaland guys
This is your portion
Amen
. Haba! Smoking shisha instead cooking. Please don't let it be.
Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Nobody: 10:54pm On May 21, 2018
grin
Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Simbrixton(m): 10:54pm On May 21, 2018
Na she sef
Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by jeeqaa7(m): 10:54pm On May 21, 2018
Ogini bukwa nkea

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Harrynight(m): 10:54pm On May 21, 2018
Linda ikeji even try still couldn't get a husband of her own n end up as baby mama, and this trash think she can fair beta?

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by paulchineduN(m): 10:55pm On May 21, 2018
This Ogbanje of a girl don land for nairaland? Hmmmmm. OK oo

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by BlackHatNaija: 10:55pm On May 21, 2018
She's right! She doesn't look like one.

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Guyman02: 10:55pm On May 21, 2018
Between this attention seeking idiot and the MOD who moved it to FP, I don't know who is more irresponsible?

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by nabegibeg: 10:55pm On May 21, 2018
BoneBlogger:
A Nigerian lady has got herself trending yet again after revealing why she's not a wife material. The social media influence, Angela Nwosu took to Facebook to share her reasons as she smoked shisha.

Read her lengthy piece below;

I am not a Wife Material!

All of the pictures I’ve seen on social media depicting wife material are of women cooking alone, doing all of the cleaning and doing their “womanly duties.” Don't get me wrong, there are two different roles in relationships that one partner will be better at than the other. Me, proudly smoking shisha and not afraid to post it on a platform as big as Facebook, shows that I am not a wife material, I hate that word, with reckless abandon. Girls are forming and pretending, not being themselves, all to be termed a wife material and land a husband living their lives just to please the society and painfully, publicly stand on a morality higher ground, while doing terrible things in secret. The only way I survive on earth is being myself and not what society wants me to be, na only me waka come.
And yes, the shisha pot belongs to me.

No, I am not married and no, I am not a feminist, but I’m a firm believer that relationships are a team effort. To make a relationship work, responsibilities of the household must be shared. I’m all for cooking and burning down the house together. This is the 21st century and there are so many more opportunities for men and women than there have been in the past.

Like I said, I’m not a wife material. If I ever get married, I’m not turning into your slave just to be ‘a perfect wife material’ I’m not your mother, nor will I ever be. I’d much rather call in a pizza and watch movies than slave over a meal that requires 3 hours of my time to prepare. If your friends are over to hang out with you and watch the game, I’d rather be sitting on the couch yelling at the T.V. too, than catering to you and your friends. I also won’t expect you to be the only one supporting our family. I’m not broke and Amadioha isn’t taking care of me for nothing, ighotago?

I’m not your typical girl or typical girlfriend, I am extremely different and I definitely won’t be your typical wife. I won’t wake you up with the smell of breakfast, because chances are, if it’s a weekend, I’m sleeping until 12pm. I will probably burn at least one piece of food every time I cook for you and then proceed to tell you we’re going to eat out and do shisha afterwards. For your birthday, I’d rather buy you Play Station 4 that we can play together, than buying or making you something more sentimental. When you wake up next to me, you won’t see Sleeping Beauty. You'll see that my mouth will be dry of no lipstick from the previous day, you will always see my spots clearly, my eyes will be partially open and my hair will look like ike okuko.

I don’t have unrealistic expectations for a husband to be “hubby material,” and I don’t want someone to have unrealistic expectations of me to be “wife material.” I know that people have their faults and it’s hard to live with someone no matter how much you love them. I don’t expect my future spouse to have to pay for everything we have just like I hope he doesn’t expect me to cater to his every need.

Who makes these rules anyway? These rules for what is wife or husband material and what is not? I’m not even “feminizing” here, just wondering why we tend to subscribe to the notion that a certain set of qualities are desirable for marriage. That a girl doing shisha is wayward, an ashawo and a disgrace to womanhood, therefore, will never get married. There’s a statement my mother says “as our faces are different, so also are our needs different”. What Mr Okoli requires in a wife may be completely different from what Mr Okonkwo wants and for Miss Angie and Miss Doris, their list of requirements will also differ by a sharp margin.

Dear future husband,
I will be your best friend, your support system, your spouse, your partner in crime but more importantly your ashawo. I won’t be your second mother or your babysitter. And we definitely won’t just exist in the same house. We will be 50+ years old and still be attending concerts, watching Boondocks, while drinking cheap wine and taking spontaneous trips to the beach.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/i-am-not-a-wife-material-i-am-not-a-feminist-lady-says-as-she-smokes-photos.html



Frustration no be better thing oooo undecided

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by kereman1(m): 10:56pm On May 21, 2018
gini big deal...
your mates in ghetto dey do worst...

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by awa(m): 10:56pm On May 21, 2018
Good for you
Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by oshe11: 10:56pm On May 21, 2018
Ofcourse....


She is a PYSCHIA MATERIAL

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Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by Nobody: 10:56pm On May 21, 2018
Who cares

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