hoes69getwifed:


Not if sisters watch out for sisters

DouchessPunkyII:


Aint nobody got time for that! I always say, God gave each one of us far more superior intellect than he gave to a goose, so when one chooses to be dumb just because some dude gives their panties a wet spot , I for one have no sympathy for that. Sorry.

hoes69getwifed:


Sure boo, to each her own.
But personally, I keep an eye out for sisters

Genea:
.she is a confused fella,doesnt she know dah a guy dah allows u to abort 4 him wont marry her....

petkruz:
2 abortions? Babe after the first you should have left, you didn't need to do it twice.He was never ready and no need fighting him,move on. With time you would heal

Odunharry:

True this... she's to blame partially.. the guy Neva raped her or he didn't carry out abortion on her himself..
Atimes I wonder where some people put their brain when they are in love.
I don't know what she is expecting having unprotected sex

MRBrownJ:


are you saying that any woman having an abortion for a guy, he would never marry her?



so a man that aint ready today, and ask his gf to have an abortion, will never ever be ready (with that said gf)?!



many think they can trap men, and hurry an unplanned marriage, thanks to a pregnancy.

MRBrownJ:


are you saying that any woman having an abortion for a guy, he would never marry her?



so a man that aint ready today, and ask his gf to have an abortion, will never ever be ready (with that said gf)?!


The possibility of this is slim. I don't know how men reason but if I was a man a lady who has undergone ass or boobs surgery would be a huge turnoff.likewise a lady who committed murder twice! To him he would rather go for a gal who hasn't damaged her womb than someone who has.My neighbour was planning to get married to a lady who foolishly confessed she's had 3 abortions.He called off the engagement instantly



many think they can trap men, and hurry an unplanned marriage, thanks to a pregnancy.

MRBrownJ:


many think they can trap men, and hurry an unplanned marriage, thanks to a pregnancy.

Odunharry:

that's what many still believe till today evn if they see ur post it won't change.. sex doesn't really keep a man

petkruz:
The possibility of this is slim. I don't know how men reason but if I was a man a lady who has undergone ass or boobs surgery would be a huge turnoff.likewise a lady who committed murder twice! To him he would rather go for a gal who hasn't damaged her womb than someone who has.My neighbour was planning to get married to a lady who foolishly confessed she's had 3 abortions.He called off the engagement instantly

Genea:
use protection if u dont pregnancy

MRBrownJ:


yeah but sadly, we all know too well that many of these women have NOTHING to offer a man, apart from their body.

Odunharry:

very true and it's sad how some want everything in a guy..

Guys ain't just looking for sex alone as many of them believe... it goes beyond that

DGKN:
Saw this post on FB and decided to post it here....



So guys can be this wicked or was I a fool? After destroying the lives of different ladies, they settle down with almost the best. My boyfriend is contemplating ending our six-years-old relationship.

He hasn’t been able to come up with a reasonable excuse but quoted his pastor and I’m 100% certain it is due to the two pregnancies I or we aborted when we were undergraduates.

Of course, I had complications after the second abortion that almost took my life and since then we’ve been having protected sex. He has introduced me to his family and vice-versa but he hasn’t proposed to me.

He told me he can’t continue with the relationship because we are not meant for each other. He said his pastor told him I’m not his wife and our marriage won’t be fruitful but the pastor didn’t see it in his vision that I have once aborted twice for him.

We are still on the issue and I have let him realize he can’t walk out my life just like that! He said his mind is made up besides he has given his life to Christ and he wants a new beginning. A new beginning after destroying my future!

patitobeeb:
is your womb still okay

MRBrownJ:


but how can these women (obviously lacking), offer more than what they possess? they never focussed that in the fairytales they so want to recreate, the prince, 99% of the time, married "a princess".

yeah they think that because we men love sex (and who can blame us?) then by quickly offering us the "honey" on a platter, we will lose focus on all what they are lacking... and sadly some desperate men do, and go on to marry these trophy wives.

MRBrownJ:


yeah but sadly, we all know too well that many of these women have NOTHING to offer a man, apart from their body.



just because a woman has an abortion certainly doesnt mean the END for that particular couple, but it certainly means that smething needs to be changed.



or any other contraceptive method out there like the pill, for example

iceberylin:
Did he rape you
Did he chain and drag you to the Hospital

Just pray for ya sins...

DGKN:
Saw this post on FB and decided to post it here....



So guys can be this wicked or was I a fool? After destroying the lives of different ladies, they settle down with almost the best. My boyfriend is contemplating ending our six-years-old relationship.

He hasn’t been able to come up with a reasonable excuse but quoted his pastor and I’m 100% certain it is due to the two pregnancies I or we aborted when we were undergraduates.

Of course, I had complications after the second abortion that almost took my life and since then we’ve been having protected sex. He has introduced me to his family and vice-versa but he hasn’t proposed to me.

He told me he can’t continue with the relationship because we are not meant for each other. He said his pastor told him I’m not his wife and our marriage won’t be fruitful but the pastor didn’t see it in his vision that I have once aborted twice for him.

We are still on the issue and I have let him realize he can’t walk out my life just like that! He said his mind is made up besides he has given his life to Christ and he wants a new beginning. A new beginning after destroying my future!

DGKN:
Saw this post on FB and decided to post it here....



So guys can be this wicked or was I a fool? After destroying the lives of different ladies, they settle down with almost the best. My boyfriend is contemplating ending our six-years-old relationship.

He hasn’t been able to come up with a reasonable excuse but quoted his pastor and I’m 100% certain it is due to the two pregnancies I or we aborted when we were undergraduates.

Of course, I had complications after the second abortion that almost took my life and since then we’ve been having protected sex. He has introduced me to his family and vice-versa but he hasn’t proposed to me.

He told me he can’t continue with the relationship because we are not meant for each other. He said his pastor told him I’m not his wife and our marriage won’t be fruitful but the pastor didn’t see it in his vision that I have once aborted twice for him.

We are still on the issue and I have let him realize he can’t walk out my life just like that! He said his mind is made up besides he has given his life to Christ and he wants a new beginning. A new beginning after destroying my future!

iceberylin:
Did he rape you
Did he chain and drag you to the Hospital

Just pray for ya sins...

eddymandy94:
heartless being

Odunharry:

maybe they can work on it and learn from their counterparts ..true about sex thing though.

support, advice, encouragement, gifts no matter how small etc Also go along way in getting a guy.

Infact they should simply reciprocate any thing their guy do for them...
Atimes u see many makin a list of qualities they want in their partner and sadly they themselves don't even possess any of those qualitie.

MRBrownJ:


bro,:
- i blame these women who dont love and cherish themselves FIRST. they dont value themselves and instead act and treat themselves like meat (going for the highest bidder). they obviously have NO respect for the person they see in the mirror every morning, because if they did, they would certainly not act the way they do.... how can they ever be happy, if they have NO concept of what happiness stands for?! the majority will assimilate happiness with money, and since the most probably wont get any, they will end up bitter women blaming all men for the "poor" situation these women find themselves into.

- i blame their mothers who have told these women since the day that they were born that their whole destiny/existence is about finding a man to marry. in fact, teaching them that they have no value unless "accepted" as a wife by a man; telling them that there is a (bride) price that should be paid for them, and that as soon as someone does, they become that person's property.

- i blame the society where these women live who doesnt value single women (however successful they may be) and instead teaches them that they aint shiiit without a man by their side; a society who thinks that a woman should be under a man, and submissive; a society that sees these women as nothing more than a house help/childbearer; a society that frown on single mothers or/and divorced women, and therefore have so many good women stay in miserable and abusive union.

- and finally, i blame "some of" us MEN who think that we can buy these deluded/lost women and make a GOOD wife out of these miserable damaged women; men who dont treat/look/desire these women as their equal, and instead think that they can live life, and have a fantastic family, without a GREAT woman by their side; men who opt for "good for nothing" trophy wives, and who then get surprised when these women cant even boil an egg but can roll the best joints and twerk as good as Nikki Minaj; men who flaunt their cash to attract these clueless women and then who wonder what they've done wrong when a richer guy woo their women away.

Odunharry:

Agree with all what you say ..maybe u should create a thread for it.. that why I always look forward to ur posts.. insightful

Truth the society and their older sister/aunty are to be blame too.. sad all those lay so much emphasis on women getting married irrespective of whether they are happy or not..
Society too isn't helping matter... And we are part of the society too..

We need to change ourselves to change the world.

MRBrownJ:


well said, the change starts with us all regardless of what we are going through in life.