i'm sick and tired.

Anybody, pls wat do i do?

Dump his sorry backside and get intouch with me, but hang on a minute, How do u want him to treat u? pls tell me

@ Phemour,

Whats up?? please move this thread outa here to the romance section.

dear rossy,have u eva contacted him on dis issue?i mean telling him hw u feel abt this,wel if u hva not,den do dat now,let ur man know hw u fell,let him know dat u ned to be treated like a queen which he is not givin to u, make him understand dat dat is how a lady should be treated,or dnt he love u?? well i guess u should sit and talk tins ova ok?? best wishes

dear rossy,have u eva contacted him on dis issue?i mean telling him hw u feel abt this,wel if u hva not,den do dat now,let ur man know hw u fell,let him know dat u ned to be treated like a queen which he is not givin to u, make him understand dat dat is how a lady should be treated,or dnt he love u?? well i guess u should sit and talk tins ova ok?? best wishes


Dear Fsudoka, Thanks 4 dat. i tink i'll jst sit and talk with him.i'm vry sure he still luvs me as much as i luv him.

lol

Try to let him know how you feel about his behaviour, i believe he will understand you if he truly love you the way you said. best of wishes rossy

u need to let us know oe he isnt tretin u d waqy u want.is he droppin money but not droppin body?etc u need to be cleare

Steps: Decide if this is indeed the relationship for you.
Learn to communicate. You will need to feel comfortable talking about your feelings, and those that you perceive your partner to have. Once you have decided to talk openly about your feelings, you may want to have the talk in an environment in which you feel safe.
Keep in mind that if you are feeling something, your feelings are valid. Do not allow this person to minimize your feelings.
Write down a few things that you want to talk over, and if possible, you should have some examples of the behaviors that you are not comfortable with. Make sure that you have a clear understanding of the issues you would like to address.
Start the conversation with something positive about the person, or about your relationship. People are often defensive when they perceive negativity, so make sure you go in with an open heart. If you can't think of anything good to say, you may want to think over the choice to stay with your partner.
Ask your partner to hear you out, before he or she speaks. If you sense that your partner is not receptive, you may want to have the conversation at a later time.

Tips: Counseling is a great way to talk about your feelings. Couples counseling is even better.
Always talk one on one. Don't bring others into your relationship.
Do not have the conversation over email or over the phone. Body language can tell you a great deal.
Trust your instincts. If it does not feel right, it probably is not.
Take Colonel Sherman Potter's (from M*A*S*H) advice: "Whenever you have trouble with someone you love, you can either stop loving them, or you can love them a whole lot more." One of the best ways to be treated well is to take the initiative. Treat them even better than you have been! The better you treat them, the better they will treat you.

What treatment is he giving you?

What do you want him to do differently?

Talk to him, Tell him how u want to be treated ok and be so cool about it too ok

i go with Biola44, th more you treat them the more they treat you back. nice advice there biola have this ,  

let him know how u feel & if he doesnt change, then dump his sorry arse

Then again poster, it depends on what exactly you mean when you say 'how you want to be treated', not at all saying this is the case between the both of you but some guys could be treating their girls decently and to the best of their ability but the girl is just a diva/snobbish or whatnot and is demanding for more than he can give unfairly thus he isn't 'treating them the way they want', vice versa.

So poster, how is he currently treating you and how exactly do you want to be treated?

how do u want to be treated lady?
let ur xpression be known to ur man

Geeez If your bf is not treating you as you want to be treated. . .tell him, bear it or move on!

ThoniaSlim:

Geeez If your bf is not treating you as you want to be treated. . .tell him, bear it or move on!

i second that!! - i am big communication fan and if it doesnt work - dont force it

is it because of the new catch you wanna dump him?

@ poster

how do u want to be treated

eeez If your bf is not treating you as you want to be treated. . .tell him, bear it or move on!


why now!

NLD: Thanks to you all 4 ur picese of advise.
  I Think i knw wat to do nw.

  MAY GOD Bless u all.

dump him. he ain't treatn u right now, he won't treat u well

later. the longer u stay, the harder it will get to leave .

People Let Get This Straight!
The poster herself is very STUPID

What kind of a topic is this?
And those of you who replied to this topic
have you take you time to ask yourself what she meant?
Your boyfriend is not treathing you the way You Want!" 
So how is he treating you? tell us first!

He is not sending you 50,000 Naira every months?(afterall that is what you want)
Not taking you shopping every week?(afterall that is what you want)
Don't want to buy you a new car(afterall that is what you want)
Don't wanna to be your maga(afterall that is what you want)

Grrrr! Get a life!
Nobody on Earth Can Satisfy your Want!---They can atleast only satisfy your need

sexylogan:



dump him. he ain't treatn u right now, he won't treat u well

later. the longer u stay, the harder it will get to leave .

Di.ck Head!

isnt he tryin in bed
Just curious

dat's the reason why u've always been ALONE.

IDIOT,A FOOL FOR LIFE,U WILL EVA LIVE TO REGRET INSULTING SOMEONE U DNT EVEN KNW ON A SITE,BASTARD
AND LET ME TELL U,D GIRL DAT U MIGHT EVEN SEE AT LAST WILL B THE ONE TO KILL YOU.INGRATE, I JST PITY 4 UR UNFORGIVING LIFE.

NLD:THANKS TO BOTH GOOD AND BAD ADVISE. I APPRECIATE.

U RE ALONE:U WILL BE ALONE TILL THY KINDOM COME. OLODO!

;d

Which one is ur own nw? why do u pple want to knw?
Ok in everything!