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Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by ailehwise(m): 4:23pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
dguizman:Guy you lied. White is beautiful |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by dhummystecah(f): 4:26pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
gbengus17:If they catch him ehn, na serious flogging |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by dguizman(m): 4:27pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
ailehwise:ur opinion |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by vague: 4:28pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
lilmax:and you wander why people like you suffer all your life. With this mindset, why would anything good come your way? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by felalegend: 4:34pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Mindfulness: She is aware his Dad married 5 wives and this is just the 2nd. His Naija wife should expect 3 if not more. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by lilmax(m): 4:56pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
vague:which part? |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by ikescope: 5:10pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by iPopAlomo(m): 5:13pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Unbelievable... no one talks about the switching bitch...?! |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by mathelo(m): 5:40pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
The weddng must not be statutory before it will amount to bigamy. In Nigeria, there are many form of marriage. Anyone aside from Statutory marriage is Customary marriage and that is crime if there is existing Statutory marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Nobody: 5:44pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
felalegend: The fact that his father had 5 wives does not mean that he will have more than one and is no excuse for him keeping his second wife secret. You have not answered my question. Is it also "purely African" to keep your second wife secret? |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Btruth: 6:05pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Osinachiadinma:....hummmmm! I don't think she would do that? |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by redcliff: 6:48pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Blizzy9ja: Your cousin is one in millions. you cannot use that as a basis for ur arguement. Besides, any inter racial kid who does not identify with his root simply connotes that his root (either dad or mom) was cut off from their up bringing. It simply means (coming to ur own understanding) that the dad or mom probably had a problem with their foreign partner Which is not different from what this silly man in the story did. So when i say stfu, i mean it to the very letter! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by ug0197777: 7:14pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
fromnigeria: NA WA OOOO |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by kandiikane(m): 7:21pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
kilode100: To be honest, that is quite untrue, the man is in the same boat as the wives. He went for what he can take home. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by aluko360(m): 7:30pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Blizzy9ja: Chei, see black man sense of reasoning. How will you feel if the wife of 10 years is your sister? You'll give pat the cheating husband 0n the back? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Ojady(m): 7:43pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
A lot of people say a lot of things here, full of ignorance or just plain out of touch with reality. As an African man or woman, married or not, how many of us will, knowingly, deliberately, being nubile, go out, talkless of marrying, a woman/man who already had 2 kids from a previous alliance. If you say, why not, then you are the true offspring of the devil - A LIAR. First of, anything can attract the sexes to each other, both were emotionally available for different reasons, she for reasons bothering more on the heart, he bothering more, on that of the mind - typical of the way both sexes approach life and its issues. Now for 6 years, their needs were met - she, a companion who judged her not for her appearance ( traditional African men like their women healthy not hollywood promoted anorexia impressions on telly) and he, an opportunity to be a man again, that is work, commit, protect, provide, lead, make good African intercourse with a woman. Now no one knows the antecedents of both prior to 2004, neither can we say, if it was pure bliss within the 10 year time they were together. Nevertheless at that time, both were beneficial to each other - he was a father to her prior kids, he was a source of clean credit for her, he picked up her kids and literally, was a father to them; he had to endure the covert discrimination of her friends, society and even family, even insults from her previous baby daddies; he perhaps was reminded every now and then of how she made him whatever he is in the UK - I mean the circumstances are innumerable... What we see here is a clash of cultural differences...something and someone had to give, and No, it wasnt going to be the one who had the upper hand (the oyibo) but he who realized he had an alternative. Now before anyone goes on about UK getting nasty, do you really think "anybody got time for that", anh han! He, a British Citizen now, he got British kids, He entitled to welfare benefits if he needs them, and, if there is the chance, the UK want to take a piss, he would just cross over to any of the developed countries of the Commonwealth say Canada, Australia, New Zealand etc with his new bride, and he'd be just fine... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by tevinsolt: 8:19pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Blizzy9ja: to fvcking be a man, and not go behind his family back to go marry some woman, because he wants to have kids in Nigeria, are you even kidding me right, she just had a new baby, she won't refuse if he's man enough, I'll tell you that much. |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by armyofone(m): 8:24pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
She should work hard to get his green card revoked, sue for polygamy etc. Get a good lawyer who is good at making up lawsuit names....make sure life is unsuitable for him in the UK. Work and forge ahead. No long thing. |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by oglalasioux(m): 8:27pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Blizzy9ja:We place too much emphasis on children when getting married. Our infrastructures and institutions are busting at their seams and we're still bearing children like animals in Africa. This is very wrong. If this man married for the purpose of having children then he's wrong because he already has four. I believe the Nigerian girl sponsored his trip and he had no choice but to pay her with marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Pebcak: 8:31pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
kilode100: [img]http://i./5n18DqTunxt4I.gif[/img] 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by no1madman(m): 9:03pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
your toto= 2.5 |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by 4nobody4every1: 9:31pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Pebcak: |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by rhames(m): 9:39pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
a drama ends with a big round of applause. so there are still gullible people in the white mans land. tufiakwa. |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Miami11: 9:40pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Ojady: Did anyone force him to marry a woman with kids, he knew this ahead of time and continued to propose, Nobody held a gun on his face, did he not know about clash of cultures before marriage Why did he not divorce first, why leave kids wondering where is daddy, hopefully the white woman sues him until he is deported. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Miami11: 9:45pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
rhames: White people are raised with honesty, this does not give a Nigerian power to take advantage of a person's love and emotions( ain't this why people brand Nigerians fraudsters and scammers) What was wrong with him entering the marriage in good faith and divorcing first.( then when UK deports 5000 Nigerians people start throwing in religion. Did this man even care for the kids he sired for honesty, 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Miami11: 9:52pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Truckpusher:There is a whole lot of Decent African men married to white women and happy, Koffi Annan is one Gabons president is married to a white woman Talk for yourself, don't talk for all African men, Some African men are no lowlifes marrying for their selfish needs, they marry for real, irregardless of color, religion or creed. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Kassidy90(m): 9:54pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
These bros aint loyal... |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Miami11: 9:58pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
claremont: White women don't go down that easy, the kind of suing and reporting that will be done to immigration, this man better start Struttling his behind and start life in Nigeria, The law will listen to the white womans(it's own citizen) unlike the two timing bushman( especially in UK) where Nigeria has been blacklisted 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by Truckpusher(m): 10:03pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Miami11:You probably didn't get what I was talking about. |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by 9japatroit(m): 10:07pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Blizzy9ja:It is still wrong,if he was interested in securing his Nigerian space then he should not have married an oyibo in the first place,this exactly why it is not in my dreams to live/live out my life abroad for I know that I'm a traditional man at heart. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by 9japatroit(m): 10:08pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Blizzy9ja:It is still wrong,if he was interested in securing his Nigerian space then he should not have married an oyibo in the first place,this is exactly why it is not in my dreams to live/live out my life abroad for I know that I'm a traditional man at heart. |
Re: My Husband Went Back To Nigeria Last Christmas To Wed A New Wife - UK Woman by claremont(m): 10:14pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Miami11: He has been in the UK for years, he is probably a citizen now or at least a permanent resident. They can't deport him anywhere. |
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