Our sisters should understand that Allah has created us to have partners wherein we could find repose " And among his signs is that he created amongst yourselves mates wherein you find rest(repose, satisfaction) and he put between you Affection and mercy . . . ."

Every woman desrves the company of a man and likewise a man desrves the company of a woman. A woman can propose to a man and even a married man as there are instances women proposed to the Prophet PBUH even one incident happened in public as reported in Bukhari/muslim. The prophet married a woman who proposed to him and the woman requested she just wanted to be among the wives of the prophet on the day of judgement.

We should believe in the whole of the book like uplawal said, we should not apply one rule and dislike the other, polygamy is halal, proposing to a man is halaal and marrying a married man is halaal. In as much as no haraam has been done everything is perfectly alright.

If a sister is chasing your husband, it is your husband that has to turn her down or accept her proposal. The hadith of the prophet said "You would not be a believer till you love for yourself what you love for your fellow muslim". It is a higher level of faith for a woman to even marry a sister in need of a man to her own husband.

We are in the life for a little while and I want some of our sister who are not comfortable with women wanting to marry their husband to think about this scenario. Today you have your husband and tomorrow one could be a young widow and in need of a husband which will put you in the same situation the other sisters are in now. I have heard this happened and the widow herself wants to marry a marrie dmand while she never wanted another woman too marry her husband. Polygamy is not easy for women I accept , but we should understand the spriritual side of marriage and be more flexible so that we are not tested by Allah in a way which we might not like.

And God knows best.

So where is the trend where u can meet a muslim guy or girl in need of a serious relationship

@Lolafowowe; As sSalaamualaykum wa Rahmatullah, sister. ^^^^^^^^^^ start the thread [trend], sister.
you can take from here to the whole world. it is a good thing to revive a sunnah.
a woman or a man can begin it. after all going good is rewarded, equally for both genders.

khadijah [ra] made the first move [interest of marriage] towards the gentleman and noble messenger [as].

uplawal: funny.am proposing to someone already but hes proving hard, dnt know why

May Allah provid you with the right person.

amin

Asalam alaykum my wonderful sisters. The Muslim Corpers' Association of Nigeria MCAN Lagos state chapter, is having her Sisters' Seminar,tagged " SOCIETAL REFORMATION: MUSLIM SISTERS ON CALL". It is inshaa Allah taking place on January 12th 2014, at the LASUCOM Masjid, Ikeja,Lagos; 9am prompt. Our lecturers for the day include Mrs. Eniola Olajobi, CEO of Brainy Educare; Dr.(Mrs.) Muibah Ojulari will be taking the health section. There will be interactive sessions,games etc. Let us all be there, and don't forget to come with a friend. It promises to be educative, and mindblowing. May Allah spare our lives, Amin

lolafowowe: So where is the trend where u can meet a muslim guy or girl in need of a serious relationship

‎السلام عليكم ‏
Hmmn... Am thinking of opening such thread also but am thinking that it nay be hijacked by non-muslims so its better we dont open such thread.
Anyway we can get to know eachother from here also if you dont mind.