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Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by agabaI23(m): 7:57pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Moana:What excuses? Are you trying to tell me that you never had days when he could not provide when you were living with him? What if he lost his job or his business collapsed? |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 8:05pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
agabaI23:stop shifting the goal post. We are talking about people who do it delibarately 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by agabaI23(m): 8:26pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Moana:No, I am not. i just told you those you see in the courts in a mixture of a few deliberate and many who are having Buhari time |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Fanirandele: 8:28pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
because unfortunately there are no real laws in place to enforce that 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 8:28pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
agabaI23:what did Buhari do again? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by agabaI23(m): 8:40pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Moana:Buhari time=hard time 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 8:43pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
agabaI23:there is always someone else to make the scapegoat for our problems 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by agabaI23(m): 8:47pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Moana:You are getting it wrong. Buhari time is a synonym for hard times. That is not making someone a scapegoat..come on |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 8:59pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
agabaI23:be careful what you say will be what you will get 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by agabaI23(m): 9:04pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Moana:Careful? Fuel is selling for 140 and it is not even available When he came in 1984, there was scarcity of everything including forex. There was hard times This time again it is repeating. Buhari is bad omen. he has to prove me wrong and I am praying he does but so far, that's the reality. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by cococandy(f): 9:07pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
What if the woman is happily divorced? Say her life is better and happier without the marriage. why do you think the average divorced woman is angry and vile? (note the word vile) classicB: 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Nobody: 10:48pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
cococandy:She might be happily divorced but then she wont sing praises of her ex husband to her kids anymore, rather she will choose to tell them the bad side of the man. Women are different, but eh go scarce bfr u see a divorced mum talk good about her husband. Something made them seperate right? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 2:29am On Dec 28, 2015 |
agabaI23:but there was scarcity of fuel even before Buhari was inaugurated abi? Is it not the Minister of Petroluem's duty to deal with the issue anyway? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Nobody: 6:58am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Fanirandele: What law do you propose should be in place,let me guess The man should pay 20,000 per month till when the child clock 18 isn't it ? |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by babythug(f): 8:03am On Dec 28, 2015 |
I've heard of scenarios of separation where the husband withdraws from meeting his financial obligations on the children with a view/hope to forcing the wife back home. I also feel because the children are with the woman it's easier for the man to say "I don't have the funds" and the wife who is forced to see the children is more pressured to run around to sort the bills. In some cases some men just shy away because they believe they're spiting the wife for leaving or theyre consumed by emotions for a new woman and probably her children so don't care about the other children.... 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by agabaI23(m): 10:15am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Moana:Buhari is the minister of Petroleum. Are you not in Nigeria sweerie? |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 11:01am On Dec 29, 2015 |
agabaI23:no im not |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by agabaI23(m): 11:03am On Dec 29, 2015 |
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Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 11:23am On Dec 29, 2015 |
agabaI23:Nigeria has female students that leave their children at home so they can attend university and stay on campus 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by agabaI23(m): 2:03pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Moana:I don't get you here Sure we have such but how does come into our discussion? |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Exceed15: 8:05am On Jul 29, 2023 |
In some cases it is the woman,because of the pain of the separation denies the father access to the children to hurt him too. Even to speak with the kids is difficult .In this scenario if I were the man I would keep my cool and not fight it. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Exceed15: 8:08am On Jul 29, 2023 |
agabaI23: Hmm.. wisdom 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Exceed15: 8:14am On Jul 29, 2023 |
avicky: I have also seen a mother who used the children as bait to torture the man. Most times women make it difficult because of the anger still in them |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Exceed15: 8:18am On Jul 29, 2023 |
Moana: Single mothers can play victim a lot. Hear from the man to get a balanced story. U no dey Inside the relationship, na wetin dey tell u u carry for head |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Exceed15: 8:23am On Jul 29, 2023 |
NiceJenny: Only Foolish women turn the children against their father. Apparently she's causing damage to the kids psychologically |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by AutoChick4U(f): 9:48am On Jul 29, 2023 |
Only Broke irresponsible men do this. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by AutoChick4U(f): 9:49am On Jul 29, 2023 |
Moana:prayers is needed here |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by GistFullGround: 9:49am On Jul 29, 2023 |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Justbehave(m): 9:52am On Jul 29, 2023 |
avicky:So how many surveys have you carried out to arrive at this? I have 4 kids from my baby mamas and they are all living with. In fact I'm taking care of them more than their mums to the extent they even don't want to see their mums. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by TheGift: 9:53am On Jul 29, 2023 |
You are referring to fake men who don't appreciate the privilege and responsibility of Fatherhood. Regardless of ones relationship with their mother, a Man's children remain His children. And "he that doesn't take care of His own household is worse than an infidel." 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Godwin4444: 9:53am On Jul 29, 2023 |
agabaI23:God bless u Most times d woman use her weapon if not allowing d father see d child then the man use his weapon of not rendering any financial assistance 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Candidlady: 9:53am On Jul 29, 2023 |
2015 thread Most that posted would have deactivated |
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