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Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by djon78(m): 4:13pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
blaise26abj: Exactly People should not rush in having children honestly Because going separate ways after marriage and having children is a very big evil on the children brought into the relationship The horror it brings to these children is unimaginable Couples should ensure that there partners are long term minded people. They should do Proper research It's those short term minded people that immediately seek for divorce Once you notice your partner is short minded relationship person run one time They easily have divorce at the back of there minds 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by twilliamx(m): 4:13pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Women lie alot. Most men are ready to take care of their kids they are not just ready to confront a toxic entity each time they need to see their kids 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by placeofallure(f): 4:21pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
shegxi: God bless my dad. He has been responsible, still is even as I am married, always responsible. Hey Dad! Your baby girl loves you forever. I pray you will live till 120 years, Aaamen! Irresponsible men just don't have the fear of God, nothing else. Even if you don't have, let it be seen in the little that you have that you care. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by gvibes: 4:34pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
agabaI23: All dis new generation won't know dat |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Caleycash(m): 5:33pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
avicky:That's just an exception, exceptions doesn't make the norm!, the norm is that most divorced women restrict there kid(s) from there ex husband intentionally out of bitterness and revenge 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by agabaI23(m): 5:38pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
gvibes:Don't mind them He failed to prove me wrong. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Caleycash(m): 5:39pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Moana:You women always have and know people!... always on the negativity and division, nawa oo |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Caleycash(m): 5:44pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
NiceJenny:There's nothing like real men!... it's a manipulatively coined language to coerce men to do things against there wish and displeasing there selves to please others, A man is a man, either he's responsible or irresponsible! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Caleycash(m): 5:47pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
cococandy:Quit deluding yourself, no Divorced woman is happy... divorce shows FAILURE in one major aspect of life! |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by LtChisom: 5:47pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
avicky: And I have seen callous, useless, worthless and vile woman who use the children of their ex to punish their ex. She denies my guy free access to his daughter and uses the daughter to extort and exploit my guy. Mind you she was the one who walked out of the marriage because was finding things hard, she from fckin outside got married to another but now wants to whine her way into my guys life when she saw my colleague is now set up. Women are mostly idiots with fish brain. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by sylve11: 5:51pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by achimendy(m): 6:59pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
deeptesting: Only God know why some men do that. I can never cut ties with my children, there are my heir. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Sirianese: 7:43pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
agabaI23: It's because the women force their kids to choose sides and they naturally side with her since she has custody. The man cuts off contact to preserve his own sanity that's why he's quick to start another family which takes the edge off the pain Women are master manipulators, especially in patriarchal societies. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by pooozeee(m): 10:08pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by hairyman(m): 10:56pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: Before such laws mandating the continuation of a man's responsibilities to his children are enacted as you suggested, It would be fair to first enact laws that mandate joint physical custody in the event of a separation or divorce. I suggest that it become a criminal offence to keep a man's children from him or restrict or control his access to them any way. With such laws balancing mandatory child support (which by the way, men go to prison for) things should work out fine for all parties. I have always asked divorced women; if you want your father's child in his life so much, why don't you make arrangements to send him the child to spend holidays with? I find it simply baffling. How is it that a person does not want to compromise but wants the other party to? |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by loswhite(m): 12:34am On Jul 30, 2023 |
avicky:Of course you won't buy his assertion because women always want to play the victim. The person you quoted has seen what he is talking about but you claim he is telling lies because of you have seen one irresponsible father...lol. Have you not seen irresponsible mothers? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by donbenie(m): 1:04am On Jul 30, 2023 |
avicky:Because you have seen a case, where the father willingly absconded,it doesn't make his assertions any less true.. Most divorced women are bitter, vengeful and spiteful and will do anything to frustrate the man.. And their weapon of choice is their children.. A man who just came out of a toxic relationship,will not be eager to continue in such a relationship,by proxy.. Deal with your ex husband maturely and he would not abandon his children for his peace of mind.. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by donbenie(m): 1:08am On Jul 30, 2023 |
achimendy:They cut ties, because they can't continue to deal with toxic relationships.. Most divorced women are bitter,vengeful and spiteful.. His sanity is paramount and if he has to cut ties to preserve his mental health,so be it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by cococandy(f): 1:52am On Jul 30, 2023 |
Caleycash: Are there divorced men who are happy? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by realtalk19: 2:40am On Jul 30, 2023 |
agabaI23: She's speaking fact.men like that are just naturally irresponsible and deadbeat fathers |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by realtalk19: 2:42am On Jul 30, 2023 |
omogin: She's speaking fact.even while together some men are not responsible talk more of being apart.it should not affect your responsibility as a man to the child involved. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by realtalk19: 2:47am On Jul 30, 2023 |
Moana: You are right.even social welfare will be advising you to settle instead and God help you the man is loaded or connected.the case wunt move an inch. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by realtalk19: 2:50am On Jul 30, 2023 |
because a divorced woman is angry and vile. Some of them try to turn the back of the kids against their daddy by saying all sort of bad things about him, no matter how hard the man try to be a responsible father, the kids would not appreciate it. Men know this and that is why they dnt indulge themselves. Not all dads tho. Not all women speak ill of their ex spouses to their kids. if you try as much to involve their father and he isn't doing anything ,will you abandon the kids? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by realtalk19: 2:52am On Jul 30, 2023 |
agabaI23: At least some men still make effort. How about those that don't and still don't care. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by achimendy(m): 7:51am On Jul 30, 2023 |
donbenie: You're very correct. Most women are like that, they even instigate the children against their father. But I think the best thing is after cutting ties with wife I'll look for a way to take custody of my children o. I no go leave my children for her. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Caleycash(m): 7:54am On Jul 30, 2023 |
cococandy:Including the men no one is happy, divorce is a failure in terms of marriage and family |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Traplord09: 7:54am On Jul 30, 2023 |
Miami11: Lol see this one blaming a man from her problem.. After running away from the marriage,u hopeing for the man to send you money for the child and family services. Y will a lady run away from the house with the child when she knew she does not have the money For child up keep.. ... ? |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by cococandy(f): 8:59am On Jul 30, 2023 |
Caleycash: They may not be happy about the divorce. I don’t think anyone goes into marriage hoping it fails. So obviously they won’t be happy that it didn’t work out But it doesn’t mean they have no happiness in their lives as individuals. Two different things. So when you say there’s no happy divorced person, you’re coming across as if you mean that once someone gets divorced, they’ll never be happy again. They will be. Just not about the divorce. And eventually it gets behind them. And they move on. And find happiness in other things 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Foodqueen(f): 9:41am On Jul 30, 2023 |
Some women motive is .... If I can't have you, u won't see your child. They don't really want a father for their kids, but a husband for themselves. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Motirayo2018(f): 10:29am On Jul 30, 2023 |
There are many things I want to write but I don't where to start |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by vickydevoka(m): 10:53am On Jul 30, 2023 |
blaise26abj:So, u don't know that women tend to behave well when there is no child. I will advise to give birth to one and wait, if you can't condole her evil spirit then everyone will go their separate ways |
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