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| NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by scentmarlc(m): 6:54pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Hi Guys, Happy new year to all romancelanders, and all nairalanders @large. This is my first thread in recent times so you can understand its importance. Let me go the Nairaland way ;, "Its happening to a friend of mine"  .lolsBut Obviously the questions are: #1. Is it possible to love someone so much and yet feels safe and loved in the arms of another person (male/female) ?? #2. By any chance, is it possible to be 'just friends' with someone you know deeply, you are in love with? #3. How do you explain to your partner, if you are the one in this dilemma? CONSTANTS: ** Both ladies in question are RELATIVELY friends ** (The guy didn't actually know before hand) ** Both ladies are VERY beautiful and presentable ** ** The former is younger than the latter but both are cute and sexy **  ** However the former is submissive but demanding while the reverse is the case for the latter ** ** SeXually the latter is Baddest but the former I was told, is also a badoolee **Both their locations are fairly central so access to both 'angels' isn't a problem ***** To a very large extent, both ladies are just distance friends and neither has an inkling of what is going on. Only the sharp guy knows ** So Romancelanders, Just to be fair........Its a New Year, what do you suggest my friend should do ( assuming you are in his timberland shoe )Over to Emusmith ( the professor ) , wristbangle (balogun leyin Obinrin ) , Monalissa1895 (madam know all ) Omotayor123 (babe shook mouth bikoo )2 Shares
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| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by agarawu23(m): 6:57pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
This your question tie wrapper |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by MzPecs(f): 6:58pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
1. Yes, it's possible. Happens when the person you love don't actually reciprocate the love and care. Then you've this friend u feel loved and secured with more than ur bf/gf. 2. Hmmmm.. It's not really possible. That's suicide! 3. This is hard.. |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
What's this? some interview questions??  The former, the latter ish...Really confusing!nyways...there's no way You could love two peeps! it's either lust, admiration, obsession or infatuation...  #2 ofcourse it's possible! in the movies, perhaps? #3 Uh....Now, that's a hard one! Uh...without hurting her? well, Goodluck with that!  1 Like |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by jaymejate: 7:03pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
[size=13pt]not a romancelander, sorry. I hug, not romance [/size] |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by JeffreyJamez(m): 7:04pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
The odds of both of them finding out sooner or later is 1.65.. Your nigga should set his priorities right biko..... as a young man,this is so not the time to be entangled in such a delimma. |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:05pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
I don't do maths exam-type questions, NEXT! |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Lols...Are you sure you are not the "friend"? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Estharfabian:oh it's actually possible to love more than one person deeply. Op, throw a coin to decide their fates. |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by goodmorning40: 7:07pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
it's a dilemma and only two solutions are involved, ur friend can either choose to keep hanging for as long as he can before dropping into the deep blue sea or he call on the devil to drag him up |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by scentmarlc(m): 7:07pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by cruzita(f): 7:08pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
| I don't get it throw more light pls |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Teempakguy: Oh wow! So people now gamble with love, infatuation, lust e.t.c  |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by scentmarlc(m): 7:09pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Estharfabian: Straight from tha box, Usual estharfabian style |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Teempakguy:Uh...Mr techguy... Its Either You've been watching way too many Telumundo Or The Einstein Formulas is a bit over the top... I do not think it's psychological possible to Love two humans equally...It's probably a feeling confused with "LoVE"... nyways...the way Humans abuse the word "LOVE"...I wouldn't be surprised...  |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by scentmarlc(m): 7:12pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Abge helep me call tosyne2much and misspicy for dis mata ooooooo Lalasticlala abeg helep my ministry . U fit use am do newyear gift. |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by girlhaley(f): 7:14pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Hehehe....the latter...the former You can't love two ladies at the same time Its impossible |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
scentmarlc:You've been paying attention!  |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Estharfabian:Wait a minute maam! Does that statement mean you are a robot |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Hmmmmmm i knw u r d one naw God deyIts better u choose one now !#i mean d one u love |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:19pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
PushMusic:I like to believe I'm A special Alien... they just transfered me to this possessed world...through Bluetooth, perhaps? David, I wanna go home!!! |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Estharfabian:W.t.f! I'm confused now. What the hell is wrong? Will you talk to me and quit playing games. |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
PushMusic:You pay way too much attention to intangible things! |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Estharfabian:Hmmm! Maybe you're right. But you don't even know me. |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Estharfabian:since when did i become a tech guy? Anyway, love is just an emotion. Like every other emotion, it can be fixed on multiple objects. Now that you mention telemundo, my experience with love stories is quite the opposite. In the movies i've watched, there is usually only one love interest. Which is quite unrealistic in my opinion. |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:32pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Teempakguy:Uh...I Read Your diary! Which I'd actually stop doing soonest...the Big science thingy is breaking my heart! You should watch "The two wives"... it's one of the telemundo Ish...A guy having two love interests..! |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
girlhaley:dey there dey deceive una self. |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:35pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
PushMusic:Uh....surprisingly, I do |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by scentmarlc(m): 7:36pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
MzPecs: Thanks love! Your advice is noted  |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
Estharfabian:Will take your advice and probably start paying less attention to intangible stuff and more to tangible stuff like what you're having for dinner. |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by scentmarlc(m): 7:40pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
jaymejate: Oga tek life easy ooooo bikoo |
| Re: NEW YEAR DILEMMA : Love One, Care For Another !!! by misspicy(f): 7:41pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
scentmarlc:1) it is possible to Love two persons at a time equally provided there is distance and the right resources,Trust me,it is 100% possible 2)It is very possible to be just friends with a person you love,lol,it only cost you discipline. 3)I am a very secretive person,so if I happen to be in any of the above situation trust me,its like an icing on a cake,no batting of eyes amma do my sh!t and move onNote: the above is nothing but my opinion,and we humans relate to situations differently I think I will advice your friend to have a open mind about the whole sh!t,just allow time and circumstances play out naturally,meanwhile enjoy the show while it last my #1000note |
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