am really so sad about. my friend who just opened up to me that she is a lez and really want to stop !!!! she has been my gud friend and good advicer on relationship ,never knew she is a lez her hatred for men I always tout was due to only galz school we both attended






how do I make her stop this act ? bashing and reasonable comments allowed

Only God can help her.

Don't be homophobic.

djeezy:
Only God can help her.

[size=14pt] Don't be stereotypical.. ..
So only God can help stop guys from masturbating?


She just have to kill that dirty spirit of lesbianism from her Mind and have the willingness to abstain completely. .. .

#heaven helps those who help themselves... [/size]

You Cannot Stop Her, Only the "Grace of God" Can!

Vjcray:
[size=14pt] Don't be stereotypical.. ..
So only God can help stop guys from masturbating?


She just have to kill that dirty spirit of lesbianism from her Mind and have the willingness to abstain completely. .. .

#heaven helps those who help themselves... [/size]

And you think this advice will work? ohw please. That's her sexuality, she just can't change it. She's already an adult and part of her. Let's face facts. Masturbation is different from someone's sexuality. The later is what makes you who you are and cannot just be changed you idiot. If you are straight and like women, why don't you try and change to liking men. Let's see if it's just a mindset thing. Dumb fool.

YourMain:
Don't be homophobic.

It's 'un-African' and against Abrahamic religion. Not to forget it's 'unnatural'. Didn't say anything o, just passing.

djeezy:
And you think this advice will work? ohw please. That's her sexuality, she just can't change it. She's already an adult and part of her. Let's face facts.

[size=14pt] exactly the fact I am tryna face....

You opined that only God can help her and that is where I feel you are wrong.. ..

You have to make up your mind to completely get rid of the dirty behavior and don't wait on God to miraculously transform he/she...

Accept corrections.. .
Cheers [/size]

ronald4lif:


It's 'un-African' and against Abrahamic religion. Not to forget it's 'unnatural'. Didn't say anything o, just passing.

RexKex:
You Cannot Stop Her, Only the "Grace of God" Can!

Exactly my point. Ones sexuality cannot just be changed no matter how hard you try.

joliyp:
am really so sad about. my friend who just opened up to me that she is a lez and really want to stop !!!! she has been my gud friend and good advicer on relationship ,never knew she is a lez her hatred for men I always tout was due to only galz school we both attended






how do I make her stop this act ? bashing and reasonable comments allowed

Bring that lesbo skank to me for some intense private consultations!

You can also join us too because 3 is not a crowd during my sessions!!!

Vjcray:
[size=14pt] exactly the fact I am tryna face....

You opined that only God can help her and that is where I feel you are wrong.. ..

You have to make up your mind to completely get rid of the dirty behavior and don't wait on God to miraculously transform he/she...

Accept corrections.. .
Cheers [/size]

It is not a behaviour. it's a sexuality. Stop arguing.

YourMain:

I trust you didn't miss the humor in the comment.

firstly tell her to change her view about guys.

Secondly tell her d benefits of been Heterosexuality(straight)

thirdly u can help her get a cool guy not necessary a committed relationship
u can recommend me anyway.

lastly she needs prayers and fasting.

That thing is not easy to let go. I went to a girls school too and I did what everybody was doing(insults are allowed) but when I got to higher institution and I tasted another food diff 4rm finger!! Na another story.
I tried to keep my mind off ladies. I admire them openly and that does the magic. I still wish 4 a gal sex but wen I talk to my guyfrnd(not boo) about it, I forget it.
Let her try to have a guy in her life, xplain things to him and I hope he will be the mature type that can handle it. Talking about it to guys helps a lot. Best of luck girl

djeezy:
It is not a behaviour. it's a sexuality. Stop arguing.

[size=14pt] like WTF?

I should sit and be mute to falsity?
Darfug?

You need God's intervention.. yes but no other entirely. ..

Oh well.. . - - - - - - - - - - - - > [/size]

Topestbilly:
firstly tell her to change her view about guys.

Secondly tell her d benefits of been Heterosexuality(straight)

thirdly u can help her get a cool guy not necessary a committed relationship
u can recommend me anyway.

lastly she needs prayers and fasting.

Nice try.

RexKex:
You Cannot Stop Her, Only the "Grace of God" Can!

Oniro ni e.

Vjcray:
[size=14pt] like WTF?

I should sit and be mute to falsity?
Darfug?

You need God's intervention.. yes but no other entirely. ..

Oh well.. . - - - - - - - - - - - - > [/size]

Whatever!

did she has a guy?

ronald4lif:


I trust you didn't miss the humor in the comment.

I didn't oo.

I'm tired of these African mentality. Ridiculous.

May I ask ? Were you like that before you moved ?

joliyp:
am really so sad about. my friend who just opened up to me that she is a lez and really want to stop !!!! she has been my gud friend and good advicer on relationship ,never knew she is a lez her hatred for men I always tout was due to only galz school we both attended






how do I make her stop this act ? bashing and reasonable comments allowed

sadly, you cant!! she is who she is and, no matter how much she decides to "fake it" and pretend to be who she is not, at the end of the day she is a LESBIAN. she hates men and is attracted to WOMEN. there is nothing that can be done and i seriously do feel sorry for the man who will settle for this fake hetero woman.

here is something for you to do, ask her these simple questions:
- why do you want to stop being a lesbian?
if she gives you any reasons such as family, religion, social/peer pressure etc then she is fooling herself.

- how long do you expect to fool people that you are hetero (and subsequently be miserable)?
if women is what she desires then she will be NO good to any men, as she will be a bitter miserable person in a loveless/careless/emotionless r/ship. and yes, she can possibly fake it for a few months or years, but eventually she will have to go right back to who she really is, and what brings her joy.

- do you think being a lesbian is a choice?!
does she really think that her sexual preference (what brings satisfaction in her life) can be changed at free will?! that her brain can start reacting differently to how its formatted?!

And you all should know that even if she starts having sex with guys does not automatically make her straight.

MRBrownJ:


sadly, you cant!! she is who she is and, no matter how much she decides to "fake it" and pretend to be who she is not, at the end of the day she is a LESBIAN. she hates men and is attracted to WOMEN. there is nothing that can be done and i seriously do feel sorry for the man who will settle for this fake hetero woman.

here is something for you to do, ask her these simple questions:
- why do you want to stop being a lesbian?
if she gives you any reasons such as family, religion, social/peer pressure etc then she is fooling herself.

- how long do you expect to fool people that you are hetero (and subsequently be miserable)?
if women is what she desires then she will be NO good to any men, as she will be a bitter miserable person in a loveless/careless/emotionless r/ship. and yes, she can possibly fake it for a few months or years, but eventually she will have to go right back to who she really is, and what brings her joy.

- do you think being a lesbian is a choice?!
does she really think that her sexual preference (what brings satisfaction in her life) can be changed at free will?! that her brain can start reacting differently to how its formatted?!

Sensible comment.

deliverance straight up

djeezy:
Exactly my point. Ones sexuality cannot just be changed no matter how hard you try.

Yea, People just fail to see beyond What can Be seen With the Physical eyes. That's the Problem!

Op kpompi! Shey u hear? Most grls r in2 dat shiii

Topestbilly:


Oniro ni e.

You knew that I won't be able to decipher that, Why Mention me in the First Place? Or you just want to be Silly?

YourMain:


I didn't oo.

I'm tired of these African mentality. Ridiculous.

May I ask ? Were you like that before you moved ?

The African talks are just flimsy excuse without substance fueled by established religion. People only mention its against African culture when it's of convenience to them. Hypocritical wingnuts.

I didn't really know much about gays before I moved to Britain, it was relatively unpublicised and not something we now read on the media. Perhaps, if I had knew then I'd have also be prejudicial against them, perhaps not. But I'm glad that I've risen pass the stage where I would judge what two consenting adults do in their bedrooms, not as they are no threats to me.

Take her to papa.

Topestbilly:


Oniro ni e.

You knew that I won't be able to decipher that, Why Quote me in the First Place? Or you just want to be Silly?

Hmmm....it's really difficult to talk a lady outa lesbianism o...they are so engrossed in it, mayb unless except God intervens.