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Re: Is It To Go Back To Him Or Get A Divorce? by finewoman(f): 5:26pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
greatcrown:if you think I am not ready for marriage pls tell me wat I did wrong to make u think so and wat I should do to show that I am ready for marriage. |
Re: Is It To Go Back To Him Or Get A Divorce? by finewoman(f): 5:29pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
What is killing him is pride and unnecessary ego, when deep down he is hurting. I saw him and couldn't recognise him, it's very obvious physically dat he is miserable. |
Re: Is It To Go Back To Him Or Get A Divorce? by finewoman(f): 10:11pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
greatcrown:what will I do to show that am ready for marriage? Mind you I have my pride to protect as a woman. |
Re: Is It To Go Back To Him Or Get A Divorce? by diva90: 6:04am On Jan 06, 2016 |
I would advice you to get a divorce. You don't have a healthy relationship, secondly the man clearly doesn't care about you. The marriage doesn't look like it will ever be functional. Ask your self if your life and happiness matters more than what people think... At the end of the day, you are the one miserable in the marriage not them. Why would you go back to a man who physically abuses you when you can raise your kids on your own and live on your own? Do you have a job? Are you financially okay? If yes, then why would you go back? What if he beats you one day and you lose consciousness and die? Thirdly, he behaves as if he has moved on, probably has a serious relationship(s) with another female. I would advice you to move on for your own good. I know this is a bad saying but I don't believe marriage is a do or die especially when there is violence involved. Your life and well being should be priority. Good luck! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It To Go Back To Him Or Get A Divorce? by finewoman(f): 3:34pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
diva90:thnk you |
Re: Is It To Go Back To Him Or Get A Divorce? by God2man(m): 6:47pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Limiting God. Is there anything too hard for God to do? Has God created anybody he can't control? Take this case to the person who created him, let's see the outcome. 1 Like |
Re: Is It To Go Back To Him Or Get A Divorce? by MARKone(m): 11:05pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
finewoman: If you are relatively OK where you and the kids are, still remain there, tell your parents to give you more time to pray over it(moving back), don't go back yet, don't file for a divorce yet. Some people have stayed much more longer, and came back as brand new couples otherwise, allow the union to die a natural death, it is only a Monster that will allow his wife and innocent children sleep on the road, no matter what the woman did. 1 Like |
Re: Is It To Go Back To Him Or Get A Divorce? by finewoman(f): 11:20pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
MARKone:thanks for ur advice but I need to divorce him so dat he can be made to contribute for the children's upkeep, since I left him till now he has never called to knw how d kids are fairing not to talk of contributing to their upkeep. Everything has been on my shoulders alone both sch fees, feeding, hospital bills, clothing, birthday celebrations, etc. While he is busy gallivanting around and spending money on women. Is such a man not coursed? |
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