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Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
ifymorena: Come! You better watch yourself. Watch yourself gidi gan before I call thunder come fire that your mouth. Na only men get quanta ni. I dont know why you women are so self absorbed. One man does something wrong and suddenly all men are the same. Have you ever had yourself checked to make sure you are not the one with the problem. You are writing this rubbish inspite of your personal text "live make I live". Biko abeg live una life make we sef live our own ooooo. Wetin? On top say we dey hangout for Nairaland. Nne!!!!!!!!! Nne!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NNE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Anwale m'ndidi Ehen!!! |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
irunooboo: Why, do u have a problem with it? |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Eben2: 4:37pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Marriage can never stop a womanizer from sleeping around. I learnt that in a hard way. However, there is a sure way of overcoming this terrible vice. I overcame, you too can overcome. Please go through my own personal experience and how I got over sexual addictions: Please check this link: https://www.nairaland.com/1512964/Jesus-only-way-heaven-muslim/1#19559173 In the mean time, read this: IT IS A PRACTICAL EXPERIENCE! Like Adam and Eve, you have a choice: to choose Life and live or to choose sin and die. But if you would allow Jesus into your life today, He will destroy sin (and other works of the devil) from your life completely. He did it in my life and He can do it in yours. God is not interested in religion and I am not preaching to you religion but the power of God to make you His son, to make you live a holy life even in this evil and corrupt world. I was told this several times too but I really didn’t believe it or commit it to heart and so I continued to wallow in my sin until Jesus found me. Although I was born into an ifa (Yoruba indigenous oracle) family, I grew up to attend church occasionally but I never knew God. I grew into adulthood and my sinful life grew too. I grew to become a terrible fornicator – a sex addict (at this time I was a regular church attendee and sometimes participated in church activities but I did not know God), I was a terrible liar and a thief. I was working in HR department of a bank then and I would give job to people who didn’t have certificate in as much as they were able to pay. I aborted several pregnancies. Most times I was not happy with the life I was living but I could not help it. Even on Nairaland, I was a bad boy! If I give you the name I was using then, you will understand what I mean. Later, I felt the only solution to my sex problem (which seemed to be the most difficult of my lifestyle) was to get married. I did get married to my only sweetheart, the only woman I ever loved thinking I would not be able to cheat on her. Truly, I did stop for some months, but when I started again, it became worse than it used to be. It was like the demon in me when to look for seven (7) demons that were stronger and meaner than him and all of them made my heart the home. I could not live two days without sex! I had chains of girlfriends, even went to the extent of sleeping with my wife’s sister (not blood related) and had a relationship with my landlady’s daughter. Upon all these, I would still visit brothels for the prostitutes. My life was marred with dirtiness! My wife would cry her eyes out but it didn’t stop me. Then a day came, December 5th of a beautiful year. It was a Sunday. I with my family went to the church as usual. The Friday preceding this day, I met two girls and had appointment to see them in different hotels on that beautiful Sunday. So, I was praying silently that the preacher would be quick with his sermon so I could meet up with my appointments. Minutes into the message, I didn’t know how it happened, I saw myself in the state I really was: a sinner with a very heavy load of sin, needing a savior. I felt so heavy and fell on my knees with tears all over my face. I knelt and bent down in shame and asked the savior to help me. I confessed my sins as many as I could remember and asked for forgiveness. I wept with a heavy heart and suddenly, it was as if a load was lifted off my neck and felt so free and an overflow of an emotion I never felt before filled my soul – joy! I knelt down weeping but I stood up with smiles of joy. There and then, was the victory that Jesus alone gives handed over to me and I became free. I was given a direct access to God Himself and a fellowship I am not willing to trade for anything else! Right after, my life changed! Everybody around me noticed something different in me; my colleagues at work, my numerous girls, my family and most of all, my wife. She was born and bred a muslim but when she saw my changed lifestyle, she asked for how she could experience it too and the way was shown to her and she joyfully embraced it. My dear brothers and sisters, Christians in name and Muslims alike, if you have not experienced this, what are you waiting for? Religion? Don’t deceive yourself; allow God to set you free through the sacrifice of His only begotten Son! Do it and do it NOW! |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by ceemere: 4:40pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Bae asks: are u a womanizer? Me (with a confused face): what is woman? |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by GodwinTobi(m): 4:41pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Only APC can change a womanizer.... |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by walepackage(m): 4:44pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
It's ain't an easy task for a womaniser to change cos he's married,but his woman can make him change dependin on d way she treats him physically and emotionally |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by IVORY2009(m): 4:47pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
irunooboo: Oga sup!! |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by lascopes(m): 4:48pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Very possible and over possible, dependin' on the girls attitude and God on her side Very possible and over possible, dependin' on the girls attitude and God on her side |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Davidsylva: Yeah right But let's define womanizing. You mean an African man being an African man? Unmmnkkay |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Etizz: 4:51pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
The answer is NO.... the guy just have to change himself.... |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by KanoAbiaBabe(f): 4:51pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Ofcos marriage can change him,but the lady has to go extra miles to make him change for good. 1 Like |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Alezy(m): 4:53pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Leriebloom:oh so u kw u didn't smile?? plus ur posture....hnmmm |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Zoe99(f): 4:56pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
It's almost impossible.If he was a womanizer before marriage,it will be difficult for him to stop after marriage. |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Uthman75: 4:57pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Once a player is always a player...... So guys is ''Only God can judge us''. |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Orangina(m): 5:01pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Op, I,ve seen young men whom are Not responsible,buh, immediately t/he/y got married he became Responsible. The answer to your question is yes. |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by engrjacuzzi: 5:06pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
except he is dasuki then it is possible |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by buoye1(m): 5:11pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Only God has that power |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by pablobellins(m): 5:12pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
KashyBaby:L L. Am sure he doesn't mean that. We nigerians welcome u. Yh i speak for all. If nah pidgin u wan sabi, u no get problem. Chill on |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by mopolord(m): 5:15pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
nice one RexKex: |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by ekwelive: 5:17pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
who don bad don bad and vice versa |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Ibukun003(m): 5:19pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
The Bible answer it all. Jeremiah 13:23King James Version (KJV) 23 Can the Ethiopian change his skin, or the leopard his spots? then may ye also do good, that are accustomed to do evil 1 Like |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Leriebloom(f): 5:21pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Alezy:Was trying so hard to look serious. I m d big smile kind of person. |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by macfish101(m): 5:21pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Marriage can change womanizers...take me for instance; I'm a changed man |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Spanner4(m): 5:21pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
sinaj:Sinaj be happy coz am never a womanizer |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
It is only possible thru divine intervention,1ce a thief is always a thief |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Alezy(m): 5:28pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Leriebloom:oh...I grab, so u trying hard to do what u don't kw how to do, so think of how weird that zz. ur beautiful doe |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Toosure70: 5:29pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
yes now to home base ashewo, fucking your friends, relatives, house help and gate man. |
Re: Can Marriage Change A Guy Who Is A Womanizer? by Leriebloom(f): 5:46pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Alezy:Whats weird bout taking a straight face picture? Tnx in btw |
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