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Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by repogirl(f): 1:04pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Op, you are under their roof, not paying rent or anything.... You've got to do something useful in the house to show appreciation for their putting you up in the house. You've got put in your own part. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Nobody: 1:04pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Poverty and pride.....perfect recipe to get your broke, jobless ass kicked out of that house soon enough. You expect him to do the dishes while you sit in your room looking for verses in the Bible to support your arrogant and condescending religious self abi? 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by delishpot: 1:06pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Well, if he says wash plates then do so for peace to reign or move out. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by LoveJesus87(m): 1:07pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
GMartyns:AhAh are u thinking well at all? You are staying with them in their house, so he shld be the one washing the plates abi what stupid question are u asking or your sister wu is ur senior, wu works ALL day long shld be washing the plate for you abi?? or what are u saying? Cum, which side do u cum 4rm sef? At 30? U have a strong moral, disciplinary and psychological problem 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by oglalasioux(m): 1:09pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
You should be worrying about your sister. She's the one in trouble not you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Nobody: 1:09pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
@OP at 30 years you are still staying with your sister? and you are complaining? you arent grateful tha tyour Brother inlaw is nice enough tpo habor a liability like you? its your type that cause maritals problems for their sibblings!!!! Mr too proud to wash dishes though i am broke and unemplyed, pls pack out of that house and take your wahala some ehre else!! what are u trying to do? are u an agent of Lucifer? See before i get back from work i better see your things out of that house!!! f00l!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by LoveJesus87(m): 1:10pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Cutehector:My brother thank you ooo |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
" I can't be washing plates in this house, neither is my wife going to do same, you must wash every plate used in this house henceforth" if true,dis statement is harsh and somhow disrespectful. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by CandiceJay(f): 1:14pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
4C2215131: Its not my fault u decided to give my comment ur own meaning |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by schumastic(m): 1:15pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
keishablack: details of the sign post behind you though 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by 4C2215131: 1:16pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
CandiceJay: Whatever. Each to his own. |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by CandiceJay(f): 1:19pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
4C2215131:Exactly |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by amdoyin82(m): 1:22pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
If na me be ur sister's hubby, u go even wash my cloth join and also send u on errands. Wat d hell is wrong wit u? U are 30 and he his 40 and u are trying to make comparison. U think say 10yrs na joke. Oh, if he were to be ur direct elder brother, I mean s same blood and he asked u to do such, will have questioned me? If u are satisfy, go find work and try rent a single in a place called Lagos and how easy it is. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Nobody: 1:24pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Let me share my life story with you so as to bail you out of your worthless pride. I left my parents house to live with my mum's younger sister. It was a house of commotion; 3 wives. My Aunty was the 2nd wife among the 3 wives. My parents are financially ok but i wanted something outside my comfort zone; a bigger breakthrough being in finance aad career. I left Akure for Abuja where i became NOBODY. I learnt from history that my Aunty whom i intend to live with has an habit of sending her nieces and nephews back to their parents on any slightest mistake. She did it to immediate younger sister which led to a big family issue. I was more determined to become somebody in Abuja when i heard the stories of my cousins who had been sent packing unceremoniously. There were 4 cars in the whole house with 6 children. I was already awake by 5am every morning to wash all the 4 cars before the three wives leave home for their different stores including my uncle who worked with Ministry of foreign affair. My Aunty didn't want me to wash the other two cars(cars of the other two wives) but i always told her that i was cool with the task. My Aunty had a pure water and Zobo business, i will cooked the recipes and kept the business in existence then. This means that I have to live with sleepless night; cooking and mixing all the recipes before drivers come in the morning to take these water and Zobo to our various customers. And guess what, I got my own job at Apo legislative quarter to go to by 10am as a shop attendant. We lived in Apo federal housing. I ll come back from work around 11pm, no food, make Eba( every night being the fastest and easiest food to make), by 12 midnight, ready to start my water and zobo task. I ll sort that out by 2am and straight to bed. By 5am, I was up again to wash the four cars; i felt like a slave but there was a constant reminder that kept me going then and that reminder was my "Future". I believed that i won't do all these for the rest of my life. I knew it was temporal. My uncle usually screamed whenever he saw me eating around midnight. He always asked me why Eba all the time not any other food...... However, d lesson of this story, my Aunty husband(Uncle) was about to go on his retirement leave when a golden opportunity to send take someone abroad with him came up from his office. All his older children were already schooling abroad except the little ones. He was left with his wives' younger brothers. He called all the three wives about this opportunity and guess what, all the three wives including my Aunty nominated me to travel with him. The other two wives actually left their own brothers out...... Here i am today with three Nigeria-British children and a beautiful wife. I don't wash my own car talkless of someone's car anymore. I have a local car wash garage where my car is professional washed when there is need for one. I can afford anything within my limit today..... 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by OCTAVO: 1:25pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Azil:I tire ooo. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Obidikejr(m): 1:25pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
uyiekpenm: Some people just want to talk, didn't you hear him say he has been in search of a job since graduating, would a financial stable man at 30 still live with his parents talk more of his married sister? Circumstances are different for every individual, for the fact you have jobs lined up for you immediately after graduation doesn't mean it's so for everyone. You guys claim to be educated and learned yet you don't know the state of the Nigerian economy, over 10m youths don't have jobs because there's no job. Spoilt kids like you with connected dad's and uncles take up the little position without be worthy of it. |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Etizz: 1:25pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Is it not obvious he wants you to leave his matrimonial home?? Very obvious of course.... 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by JaneKenedy: 1:26pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
At op, i don't think he is being rude, being part of a home, there must be 1 or 2 things u do to mk pple who received u as one them happy. And you are not doing that. Forget ur age, u r the youngest in the house. You hv to wash the plates, help ur sis with her chores, since she is the bread winner in d house. 10 yrs is not 10 days any ways And again u are a kettle than is calling pot black. You think the man is happy that he is doing nothing abi?. So, humble ur self, and pray u find job soon so you can move out and perhaps watch one of ur younger relative pose in ur house doing nothing but to eat, wash his/ her own plate, and sleep, and know how u will feel. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Obidikejr(m): 1:27pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
uyiekpenm:Big mouth |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Obidikejr(m): 1:29pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
helovesme: Best advice so far... Unlike people that bash the op without proper reasoning |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by peren: 1:33pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
I have a job and i can afford my own place, for cultural and family reasons i choose to stay with my sister. However my own brother in law askes me to wash his car, my father, my brothers, my unlces have never asked me to do such a thing before, i do not even always enter the car, even though i was deeply hurt i did it, and would do what ever they ask. I however would not forget, when the time is right or when i am ready i would leave their house for them. |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by awa(m): 1:35pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
You have to leave the house asap or what other means do you want him to use and ask you out |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Obidikejr(m): 1:37pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Suigeneris93: If you can't advice don't insult, didn't you hear him say he has been in search of a job since graduating, would a financial stable man at 30 still live with his parents talk more of his married sister? Circumstances are different for every individual, for the fact you have jobs lined up for you immediately after graduation doesn't mean it's so for everyone. You guys claim to be educated and learned yet you don't know the state of the Nigerian economy, over 10m youths don't have jobs because there's no job. Spoilt kids like you with connected dad's and uncles take up the little position without being worthy of it. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Feranchek(m): 1:42pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Suigeneris93: iPray you don't experience hardship |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Feranchek(m): 1:43pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Suigeneris93: iPray you don't experience hardship. Smh |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by PHIPEX(m): 1:44pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Op you sound funny and proud. I know most young men in Nigeris didn't finish NYSC till they were 26 but you must not allow difficult time make you misbehave. I did those things you listed till I moved out at 28 even though I was working meaning I had an excuse of being tired. Infact I washed their Car before I go to work. Today they serve me with best of dishes and wash it afterward whenever I visit. There is time for everything, don't jump the process. You can't live in their house and expect them to do the dishes. Be humble even in job search else you'll find it difficult to even accept some offers that you may consider below your status. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Feranchek(m): 1:47pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Suigeneris93: iPray you don't experience hardship. Smh4u |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by BLESSEDISDLORD: 1:58pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
I was graduated when I was 24 years of age, I was not born with silver spoon, I got a room for myself then and my foam then is less than an inch, even not in my village, but to God be the glory am living in 3 bedroom now with my family a brother in- law of 300l in university, his always waking up 5am everyday,sweep and wash plates, even sometimes telling me not to take my cloth to dry cleanner, you are their brother since u are living with them, if u can't coply with them leave their hous. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by fejikudz(m): 2:02pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
cococandy:My sister i tire for the guy o 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Cutehector:could this be coming from a sane entity? There are guys out there having challenges and is this a way to soothe him? If you didnt have anything meaningful to say, you should have just kept your mouth shut rather than spewing thrash to make ftc |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
BLESSEDISDLORD:na so my guy, carry on bro. I dey feel you |
Re: My Brother In Law (sister's Husby) Is Becoming Too Rude For My Liking... by publicenemy(m): 2:06pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
GMartyns: Bro I understand ur situation becos I have been there. Ignore the insults from these shallow minded feeble Nairalanders. My advise to you is for you to get a place of ur own. Even if its in a shanty and shabby area just get a cheap one room apartment even if you have to sleep on the bare floor pls do and take charge of ur life. I understand u just got out of school but that's not an excuse you could do menial jobs just to get by as long as ur dignity is intact. Your brother in law wants you out hence the attitude. Take charge of ur life bro, nobody owe you nothing. |
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