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Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:06pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Now this is what happened to me. I'm not gonna say it happened to a friend like some used to. I am just curious and would appreciate meaningful comments. When I was much younger, precisely 6years, I had this quickie with a neighbour. He was around that Age too, we just did for the fun of it, I don't realy know what led to it, I just saw that this boy and I had some kisses and sex, twice. I grew older and I blamed myself for doing that trash then, there hasnt been much exposure as it is these days, I had been a bad girl for doing the 'mummy and daddy's game'. This year, I will be 24 years. I have never had any sexual intercourse after the one I had 18 years ago though I have had some boyfriends But sex was out of it. To the Best of my knowledge then, there was nothing like pain or blood. Now, I wonder, wasnt the hymen torn then? How come girls even below 6 years (who were taken advantage of) now have blood stains and experience pains? This hymen, do they vary in flexibility? I wonder if I have been deflowered back then? Now I experience mighty pains if anything comes around the V area, as tiny as a finger. I am just curious.. *** Comments like 'who cares if you are a Virgin' Who Virginity don help Should please not be typed here. I have been sincere enough to type this, I will respect Matured contributions. Cc:Lalasticlal 84 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:09pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
As long as the hymen is still intact.No you've not been deflowered 23 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by bigtt76(f): 12:14pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
99.9% sure you were not deflowered. At that age the boy's preek would not be strong enough to cause any damage to the hymen. A guy needs enormous force to deflower a grown a$$ babe sef. Yes the current day kids raped have blood stains because of the force with which the rapist do their thing inflicting bodily injury to the kids rather than their hymen. MhizTessy: 99 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
bigtt76:you're right. 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Ladies comes to her rescue 2 Likes |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by talk2ancient(m): 12:23pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Spreads mat 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
bigtt76:Hmmm I see... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Ab025(m): 12:23pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
You are a secondary Virgin. 55 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by misspicy(f): 12:24pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
bigtt76:what more can I say,bigtt76 said it all Mhiztessy is still a virgin after all... 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Sigh. Do you even know what a hymen is ? Virginity by presence or absence of an hymen is the most ridiculous thing in the world. You do realise it's possible to have a hymen completely intact even if you've had sex. The hymen isn't a big piece of tissue just covering the entry of the vagina. Virginity by definition is the state of never having sexual intercourse. If you've had sexual intercourse, you're not a virgin. Finish. 279 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
quiinnBee:My curiousity led me to talk to a doctor, he said he would check with his fingers to see if there is a wide entrance. He was wearing his gloves when I told him, 'dont bother again, thank you sir' 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
bigtt76: No offence. But that's not how the hymen works at all. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:29pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
YourMain:Ma'am, I've always read that the flexible hymen breaks when a force comes in to find its way into the lady. how come it would still be intact after an intercourse? 5 Likes |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by bigtt76(f): 12:31pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Mr. Doctor wan play guitar ni I'm sure there are better ways to check than doing the manual thingy. Truth is if you've only had an encounter with a 6 year old back then, you have no cause to worray. Funny enuf some girls without any encounter still get their hymen broken due to excessive bicycle riding so stop worraying joooor and live your life! MhizTessy: 4 Likes |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
MhizTessy: It is very very very possible. The hymen doesn't cover the entry of the vagina, if it did then how would we have our periods or even put a tampon up there. The hymen is more of an archway around the vagina. Which doesn't have to tear at all if he was being careful. Even if it does break, it doesn't nullify ones virginity. You can break your hymen by running. So your "as long as the hymen is intact theory" is invalid. 43 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by bigtt76(f): 12:32pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:33pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
YourMain: Please educate them. misspicy: OP, Virginity is a state whereby someone has never had sexual intercourse before. And sexual intercourse is the insertion and thrusting of the male_penis into the Vagina. If you have been penetrated by the genitals of a male, whether or not your hymen tore, you are no longer a virgin. Mhiztessy, you are not a virgin. 55 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
bigtt76: Ive explained somewhere in this thread. 1 Like |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Decker: Thank you for reminding me what Virginity is 5 Likes |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Jewelnutch: 12:40pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
I dunno about you, but I've been deflowered. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by bigtt76(f): 12:40pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Ok tnx YourMain: OP ...abeg nor worry yoursef and all the talks about being penetrated or not. You are still a virgin! Na you get your thing don't let anyone worry you. MhizTessy: 4 Likes |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
MhizTessy:check with his finger? theres actually something doctors use in checking and it doesnt require dipping the fingers. he's a pervert 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by misspicy(f): 12:42pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Decker:I think OP is still a virgin,why? according to her story,she was 6,the hymen becomes stronger during female formative years,which means the hymen must have been too thin to actually bleed or cause pain,and according to her,the boy was around her age grade,meaning he must have had a tiny pencil type of penis_ which couldn't have done the work of breaking the hymen,that is why,it becomes more painful for an older virgin to become disflowered than a younger virgin,say 30years/20years old virgin 10 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
quiinnBee:You can say that again! |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
bigtt76:I appreciate your polite comment. 4 Likes |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Maxi112: 12:44pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by bigtt76(f): 12:47pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
You're welcome. The whole issue is just like a sinner for example, who prays to God for forgiveness and has the belief he's been forgiven only for another person to still be ranting in his ears that he's still a sinner. Have a lovely day. MhizTessy: 6 Likes |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
bigtt76:You too maam Thanks |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by jmoore(m): 12:51pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Virgin men don't have hymen. Therefore there is no physical proof to determine a virgin man. The hymen proof should also be discarded too for women. Conclusion: A virgin is one that has never had sex, be it man or woman. 6 years old? I can't really blame you. Too young to differentiate between right and wrong. Was it mere smooching or intercourse? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Jewelnutch:Ok Thanks |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Jewelnutch: 12:56pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
MhizTessy:Why thank me? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Jewelnutch: 12:57pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
MhizTessy:Why thank me? 2 Likes 1 Share |
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