No matter how much we try to deny it, I will keep saying that sex has a very important role to play in the success of any marriage. Sex creates a kind of intimacy between two people. It makes you loosen up and feel free with one another. The absence of sex in marriage kills the marriage because it leads to cheating and unnecessary quarrels. Some couples find it embarrassing to talk about their sexual flaws but until you talk about it, you won’t be able to take corrections and make it better.

What should you do if your partner is not good in bed?

The answer is very simple. Talk to them about it and work on making them better. Now the real question is how do you go about telling your partner that they “suck” in bed without hurting their ego?

People are different so the way you go about it depends on the kind of person he or she is. You can’t just raise the topic when you are having a beautiful dinner together or when he is reading the papers. You will spoil things that way. You know your partner better than anyone else so you should know how to present it to them. But I have some suggestions.

I think the best time to talk about it is when you are cuddling together in bed. Don’t sound all too serious because that will only make them tense and spoil the atmosphere. Or better still, direct them on what to do when you are having sex. Move their hands to where you want it to be and don’t let go till they get it right. If it’s a situation where your partner doesn’t change position at all and it’s beginning to bore you, make the move and change the position yourself (make sure you carry them along with you).

If you still can’t do any of these and you know your partner wouldn’t mind watching porn with you, then watch it together and suggest that you two try it out. Don’t worry, even if you’re a girl, do the same. He won’t look at you as a cheap slut. After all you two are legally married. It is better for you to be a slut with your husband than to go out and have sex with someone else. The dumbest reason you can give for cheating on your partner is that you don’t get sexual satisfaction. You can get it if you want all you have to do is teach them how to please you.

Try all these I suggested and see how it helps. If you have other helpful suggestions (which I know you do), please go ahead and suggest in the comments box so that we can learn from you too and build a happy marriage.
CIAO!!!


SOURCE: http://nairarepublic.com/thread/what-to-do-if-your-partner-is-not-good-in-bed/

End Tym thinking,end Tym sex,endtym budget.

End time praise

OVI75:
End Tym thinking,end Tym sex,endtym budget.

lol....u sef be end time commenter

I never marry first

make person marry first before una go dey talk of positioning

Biko, make them marry first before u spoil them