batstan:
Hi folks, please a brother needs your advice. It may sound like a story in a movie but I tell you all, it happened live.
It first started when she discovered that we still share pleasantries with my ex. like a birthday wish, successful achievements and resending messages, mostly whatsapp, that says you should send to like 10 people and some funny stuffs.
We got into a heated debate when she brought up the issue on a particular day last week, claiming we are still seeing each other with my ex, who is already married too. For the records, I have never hit or beat a lady, no matter what, it's my vow. At a time, during the debate, she just spilled the bean and the words just came out like an arrow, "Whatever, if you like keep mating your ex, after all I only have sex with you to fulfill all righteousness ".
She can attest to my faithful and caring heart, coupled with hardwork to provide for my family but she just got me.........

This small thing , Op, just encourage her to continue fulfilling all righteousness shikena, if you listen and take to heart everything that comes from their mouth, you'll never stop posting threads here.

MARKone:


This small thing , Op, just encourage her to continue fulfilling all righteousness shikena, if you listen and take to heart everything that comes from their mouth, you'll never stop posting threads here.

No one likes it when his or her spouse is in constant communication with his her ex. No one likes it.
No one likes it no matter the nature of the friendship.

I can bet you that your wife just said that to hurt you because she was deeply hurt by the fact that you are still in constant touch with your ex.
Cut off from the lady. Block her off on all your social media accounts and your phone contact.

Apply wisdom and restore peace to your home by doing the needful.

Good luck.


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Mindfulness:


Oh my, now I need to let go of half of my friends.

C'mon, you know what I mean.

His relationship is suffering because of his actions and yet he wants to eat his cake and have it. The interesting twist here is she's not even done anything to him yet, yet he's already having sleepless nights.

Talk about double standards.

cynhamscakes:
No one likes it when his or her spouse is in constant communication with his her ex. No one likes it. No one likes it no matter the nature of the friendship.

I can bet you that your wife just said that to hurt you because she was deeply hurt by the fact that you are still in constant touch with your ex.
Cut off from the lady. Block her off on all your social media accounts and your phone contact.

Apply wisdom and restore peace to your home by doing the needful.

Good luck.

Brilliantly said.

+1000 likes

EfemenaXY:


C'mon, you know what I mean.

His relationship is suffering because of his actions and yet he wants to eat his cake and have it. The interesting twist here is she's not even done anything to him yet, yet he's already having sleepless nights.

Talk about double standards.

Well, if he wants peace to reign, he better conforms to his wife's expectations.










In and outside of the bedroom.

Mindfulness:


Well, if he wants peace to reign, he better conforms to his wife's expectations.

In and outside of the bedroom.

It's not so much about conforming to expectations but doing the right thing.

Afterall, what's good for the goose should be equally good for the gander.

EfemenaXY:


It's not so much about conforming to expectations but doing the right thing.

Afterall, what's good for the goose should be equally good for the gander.

True.

Good night dear. Have a good night rest!

Mindfulness:


True.

Good night dear. Have a good night rest!

Retiring so soon?

Okay, goodnight dear.

How did the issue of beating even come up?

Mindfulness:


You are under the right impression and I am very confused indeed.

I quoted the wrong post when I was stalking your profile.

Lmao... You ehn!

What is wrong with you? Really....

Mindfulness:


Well, if he wants peace to reign, he better conforms to his wife's expectations.










In and outside of the bedroom.

His wife is just being totally insecure and she suffers from low self-esteem...

So he can't tell his ex happy birthday anymore? Women!!!

crackhaus:

His wife is just being totally insecure and she suffers from low self-esteem...

Possibly. And she does not trust him on top of that.

So he can't tell his ex happy birthday anymore? Women!!!

He can but it will cause trouble in his marriage.

Mindfulness:


Possibly. And she does not trust him on top of that.



He can but it will cause trouble in his marriage.

I'm glad you agree that bar the fact that he's still in contact with an ex, the wife is possibly insecure.

So do you also advise women to eliminate all contact with their exes and every other single/married male friends, to avoid causing trouble in their marriages?

crackhaus:

I'm glad you agree that bar the fact that he's still in contact with an ex, the wife is possibly insecure.

So do you also advise women to eliminate all contact with their exes and every other single/married male friends, to avoid causing trouble in their marriages?

I didn't advise him to eliminate anything. I just pointed out the consequences of not doing it.

Mindfulness:


I didn't advise him to eliminate anything. I just pointed out the consequences of not doing it.

So it's not such a big deal to have an exes contact then?

crackhaus:

So it's not such a big deal to have an exes contact then?

It obviously is to some people. How would you feel about your wife having contact with her ex(es)?