scantee:
what do u mean by wanting to get marry to her severally? I said we agreed to get married after her school, since we are still young, so no rushing, as for school fees & hostel whatever that is not a topic bro, i never said i did but if i do is nothing to regret because someting you do out of love is nothing, my major concern here is not about whatever i spent on her, that is nothing...my only problem is that i feel hurt for i so much trust her bro.

scantee:
thanx paddi, how go de go? I hope u de hit contracts now wella?

ariyike23:



its all good,jes give urself a break frm all these heart issues.. lol,they are really stressful,thats why i am dating myself,its too stressful trying to fulfill the needs(emotional nd odas) of someone who wuldnt even move a foot for u. she may adjust,u guys may still reconcile buh dont force it.

9japrof:


thanks joor, yep doing small small jobs now wey I dey combine.with ma.full time.job.

Buh Na big big contracts dey hungry me now

cosmo84:



Sorry chief, I don't think you should be upset with jeffizy's post. You might not see it but from your write up, the issue of hostel accommodation n school fees is an essential part of this discussion as u both fit a stereotype except you can't bear the whole truth currently. Pls dnt vex for me o.

My advice: Pick up n move on. You seem a good person. You will find someone deserving of your kind. Trust me she'll realise what she lost in you sooner or later.

scantee:
is that u on ur profile?

ariyike23:


lol..yes..u av askd me bf..do i look different frm d first pic??

scantee:
kinda of, the first made u lok older, ur pretty in both anyway..

ariyike23:


lol..yeah..kos i was on native and the gele thing.. thanks anyways

scantee:
uwc. U base lag?

ariyike23:


yeah,i live and work in lag..

scantee:
cool thanx man, her matter de my waste bin now, i don print new form to replace her asap lol, though she has been begging, but i have lost the trust i have for her so no need again.

scantee:
ok gud,would like speak with u on phone if u don't mind!

Ayoolajumoke:


Please scantee, forgive her.

ariyike23:


lol...its okay as long you dont expect me to cure your broken heart..jes kidding..

scantee:
my dear when u lost trust in ur r/ship is never not gona work again, even if i accepted her bk my mind would'nt be @ rest anytime she is far. So life have to go on...

Ayoolajumoke:

Sigh... All the best then.

scantee:
thanks Jumi.com

scantee:
broken heart? Lol she is the one nursing the broken heart not me, mind u i am the one that call it off. Give me ur digit, if u kant post it here u kan pm me instead or fb me.

scantee:
cool thanx man, her matter de my waste bin now, i don print new form to replace her asap lol, though she has been begging, but i have lost the trust i have for her so no need again.

jeffizy:

As hard as it is, you have taken the bull by the horns.

You, my man, deserves 5 crates of Gulder the ultimate.

ariyike23:


i jes did..

scantee:



just replied.

ariyike23:


hmmn ok,,buh ah didnt get it,,lemme reload my mail

ariyike23:


hmmn ok,,buh ah didnt get it,,lemme reload my mail

sofadj:
This kind of relationship will constantly give you sleepless nights.
Sweet today, bitter tomorrow.

She's confused because, she has seen some guy that she considers better for her in a way ( that may be true or not)

The earlier you get out the better for you.

Deep inside you, you know its the right thing to do, but you are being cowardly. Its not easy though considering you must have sacrificed a lot for her and thinking of the stress of starting from the scratch with someone new.

What you shouldn't do
Don't call her asking for clarifications on your relationship, she has already shown you through her actions and by saying she's confused. Also she wouldn't be specific.

Don't outdo yourself by trying new ways to show you love and care. I'm sure she knows that already. Besides that will only make you commit more and make her more powerful. Also it will make the ultimate break-up more hurting.


What yo should do
"Call her up, tell her you can't deal with her attitude anymore and break up"

Move on bro.


Trust me, 6 months from now, you will be glad you broke up.

If you do anyother thing, you will only be postponing the "break up day"

scantee:
God bless u bro, all u said above is the mistaken i have been making, i have been trying all different ways to please her more and she kept giving me cold shoulder, & that has made her more powerful, the more i call her the more i get hurt and hear something that will make my blood pressure raise.. I could'nt hold it back i kept calling...,Her atitude had made me to make a vow "Death Should Strike me if i ever call her again @ least for 3months" believe me bro that vow had made me strong and focus, she is the one doing the calling now & i have vowed never to pick her call again.. The next time she will hear from me again will be the day i will send her my wedding invitation. ME DON ENTER LABOUR MARKET SHARPERLY SHARPERLY...SEARCHING MODE ACTIVATED NO TIME.

ariyike23:


lol @ labour market,sha take it easy.. i did mail you this night...

ariyike23:


lol @ labour market,sha take it easy.. i did mail you this night...

scantee:
ya i undersands ur point just that is not that easy knowing how far you have gone with ur plans for over 3yrs now, it hurts more because i singlehandedly relegated all my female friends to the bench only to make her comfortable & win her trust, believe me i have hundreds of female crushers but i never gave them the chance just to make her happy..<in my next world i will never date a student> again....