Missing the presence of a woman is much more important than missing the booty, Deola said.

A man wants a woman who seems more responsible in her A-game when it comes to making a home and would also want to see the qualities of a wife material before asking for her hand in marriage.

But most ladies would advice that a woman should not cook, clean, or do anything domestic for her man until he puts a ring on it.

Which boils down to this question; If a woman cooks and cleans for her boyfriend while dating / courting, has she lost her value? Does it make the guy think less of her? Will she get the ring, if she doesn’t?

When is the right time to show the qualities of a wife material in a relationship?

Kindly share your thoughts and opinion.


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So what happens after you get the ring, you'll swap back to slut material? Wife materialism is beyond showing that u can cook and clean the house. Make humility ur life principle. I've seen a woman whose husband taught how to prepare amala and pound yam before.

Every woman right from her childhood should start learning the qualities of a good wife material. When d time comes, it will flow naturally. Qualities like respect, cleanliness, good grooming, good culinary skills can be incorporated at an early stage.

As is the new trend nowadays, no man wants to purchase goods without first testing them, or getting a glimpse of their performance.

So, if you are that type of lady that can't cook or render other domestic chores for her boyfriend until marriage, well, the chances of you being liable for dumping are very high.

And if I may add, it's only guys who are under pressure that will fall for the gimmicks of two-faced ladies.

asadike:
Every woman right from her childhood should start learning the qualities of a good wife material. When d time comes, it will flow naturally. Qualities like respect, cleanliness, good grooming, good culinary skills can be incorporated at an early stage.

You are a wise woman.

Not here in 9ja will a guy propose to marry a girl without seeing the wife qqualities in her. I think u can start showing that when u see how serious he is but don't 4get we can pretend but as a girl there are some things we just know and can sense like the 'players' nd the 'keepers'

After ladies have heard too much about a lady losing respect then we tend to behave in the manners that "the world" says is right.

What will it take a lady to prepare meal for 2, wash the plates that both of you ate with, or sweep the floor of the dirty house you are visiting...
Gosh, nobody told you to cohabit but if you can visit, treat that same place like your house..

But if you think its too much, if e drop e boxers for ground, use am mop

6 months into dating or courtship, try cook him a meal.

Many ladies by that lenght of time have demanded much moneyfrom him as most suitors are regarded as meal tickets..

Ladies, fear God.

But what is your opinion about it before marriage?

Some ladies lose guys simply because they do not want to show that side of them. Like some ladies would say, he is just my boyfriend and not my husband.

RadicallyBlunt:
So what happens after you get the ring, you'll swap back to slut material? Wife materialism is beyond showing that u can cook and clean the house. Make humility ur life principle. I've seen a woman whose husband taught how to prepare amala and pound yam before.

Qualities like respect, cleanliness, good grooming, good culinary skills can be incorporated at an early stage.

Are you referring to the early stage in a relationship?

asadike:
Every woman right from her childhood should start learning the qualities of a good wife material. When d time comes, it will flow naturally. Qualities like respect, cleanliness, good grooming, good culinary skills can be incorporated at an early stage.

Lol.

favoured234:
After ladies have heard too much about a lady losing respect then we tend to behave in the manners that "the world" says is right.

What will it take a lady to prepare meal for 2, wash the plates that both of you ate with, or sweep the floor of the dirty house you are visiting...
Gosh, nobody told you to cohabit but if you can visit, treat that same place like your house..

But if you think its too much, if e drop e boxers for ground, use am mop

Yeah, guys want to have a package... But guys too can pretend as well...

HateU2:
Not here in 9ja will a guy propose to marry a girl without seeing the wife qqualities in her. I think u can start showing that when u see how serious he is but don't 4get we can pretend but as a girl there are some things we just know and can sense like the 'players' nd the 'keepers'

You can meet a guy and get married in six months...

Naughtysite:
6 months into dating or courtship, try cook him a meal.

Many ladies by that lenght of time have demanded more than N100,000 from him as most suitors are regarded as meal tickets..

Ladies, fear God.

I think they should start exhibiting it as soon they are of adolescent age

Does it make sense that a woman thinks that cooking, cleaning and doing chores for a man when he ain't your hubby is counterproductive but him paying your bills and bearing some of your financial burden when you are not his wife is good?

Menzy86:
Does it make sense that a woman thinks that cooking, cleaning and doing chores for a man when he ain't your hubby is counterproductive but him paying your bills and bearing some of your financial burden when you are not his wife is good?

ask dem o..

Esthersblog:
But what is your opinion about it before marriage?

Some ladies lose guys simply because they do not want to show that side of them. Like some ladies would say, he is just my boyfriend and not my husband.

Well it depends. Some guys propose early so the lady would knw she's not to wait too long to show those qualities. But some guys prefer to observe b4 they propose..in this case, I'll say d ladies can show the qualities but shd knw that its a 2-way risk. The qualities may attract him and they may not for reasons like having a family-known gf b4, ambition etc. If he's not attracted and mature, he'll explain to u with understanding but if he doesn't, he's still not at fault. D lady shd just encourage herself again and move on. Her hubby will locate her.

Menzy86:
Does it make sense that a woman thinks that cooking, cleaning and doing chores for a man when he ain't your hubby is counterproductive but him paying your bills and bearing some of your financial burden when you are not his wife is good?

I wonder o.

Lol.

Menzy86:
Does it make sense that a woman thinks that cooking, cleaning and doing chores for a man when he ain't your hubby is counterproductive but him paying your bills and bearing some of your financial burden when you are not his wife is good?

Okay right time to show qualities of a wife material?
whenever he tells you he wants to go to the tailor then you show him that you are a wife material so there would be no need going to the market to cut yards of cloth to sew. You can easily cut him the much needed material. smh

asadike:
Every woman right from her childhood should start learning the qualities of a good wife material. When d time comes, it will flow naturally. Qualities like respect, cleanliness, good grooming, good culinary skills can be incorporated at an early stage.

God bless u..exactly what I have in mind