Romance › Re: Sisters approaching guys for romance!!! by 28Schweet(f): 9:44am On Jun 04, 2010 |
 adusol: Right! eish, the train is about the leave the station, for Bloem, r u in or not Sir Adu, |
Romance › Re: Being With One Girlfriend Is Boring by 28Schweet(f): 9:26am On Jun 04, 2010 |
@ poster, ever think may be you're the boring one, couples who are in tune, find comfort and solace in just being themselves, if you need another person to entertain you, it means your minds (read brain) is not being exercised enough. try reading a book the next time boredom overcomes you when your girlfriend is there, or not,  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See Nairaland`s Finest Guy. by 28Schweet(f): 9:17am On Jun 04, 2010 |
 now that; that's out of the way, please modify that[b] regard [/b] to the appropriate word, lol  |
Romance › Re: What Is Beuty. by 28Schweet(f): 9:02am On Jun 04, 2010 |
 no word as eatable, it's edible  |
Culture › Re: Official Translation Thread by 28Schweet(f): 8:54am On Jun 04, 2010 |
Can someone please translate "happy birthday anniversary to you, may it live upto expectations" in to Yoruba please.
Merci, |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See Nairaland`s Finest Guy. by 28Schweet(f): 8:36am On Jun 04, 2010 |
SA Lady: @schweets two kids and married, now what am I suppose to tell my cousins 'cos I told them am busy shopping for them here in NL. My gorgeous cousins are not married and they all have one excuse I havent met the right one. I am tired of hearing those words. lol, tell your cousins they aren't going to meet the right one until they've been through all the wrong ones  , I mean really, how are you going to know you're with a prince if you haven't been with a frog  PTA, 90kms from me, everytime i drive there it's like going to another province, will be there on the 16th, Shapa Bafana Shapa, |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See Nairaland`s Finest Guy. by 28Schweet(f): 8:27am On Jun 04, 2010 |
SA Goddess: LOL, thought a jealous mugu would have put a scratch on them fine pins oooo since the last time i saw them 
Pleasantly surprised you uploaded! hey check now girl, u gonna c i aint there no more, so those who saw, better count themselves priviledged  , besides SAL posted yesterday so i thought y the heck not, it's not like ke FB, now that takes vooma, |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See Nairaland`s Finest Guy. by 28Schweet(f): 8:20am On Jun 04, 2010 |
SA Goddess: Hey bathong Schweet actually uploaded her pic, what a pleasant surprise love those gorgeous legs Schweet!
SA Lady, all I see is mountains girl, upload kindly!  HEY WENA SAG, it wasn't for your eyes, besides you've already seen my toes, kanthe what were you expecting, lol, |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See Nairaland`s Finest Guy. by 28Schweet(f): 7:51am On Jun 04, 2010 |
 take a peek now my sistah, |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See Nairaland`s Finest Guy. by 28Schweet(f): 7:45am On Jun 04, 2010 |
 i can do it now, whilst most of the peeps are still sleeping  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See Nairaland`s Finest Guy. by 28Schweet(f): 5:28pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
@ KgDavid I did say I'll be posting 4 S.A Lady, so when she gets in the house 2moro,up my pic will go, pele o, lol |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See Nairaland`s Finest Guy. by 28Schweet(f): 3:43pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
SA Lady: @kgdavid and @creamish you were great spot today thanks and I'll keep that smile on. This is me signing out again peace beautiful people. how can you go when i'm about to upload my pic, tomorrow now  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See Nairaland`s Finest Guy. by 28Schweet(f): 3:29pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
 hahaha, lolest, where in RSA r u? & just for you i'll post my pic. lolest, |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See Nairaland`s Finest Guy. by 28Schweet(f): 3:15pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
SA Lady: That wasnt so hard afterall, didnt think I'd manage that. Handsome @kokonets is not catching up his loss I guess. @schweet any intro? clarify, ke slow, |
Properties › Re: Is It Right For A Tenant To Tell His Landlord To Increase His Rent by 28Schweet(f): 3:11pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
 how ignorant, making fun of a person that can't express themselves in a 'foreign' tongue. how sad, truly sad. @ poster, my question would be this, weren't there contracts signed, wasn't there notice given of the intention to increase the rent, the landlord should've given his tenant at least three months to accept the terms of the new tenancy conditions,i.e. increased rent, |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: See Nairaland`s Finest Guy. by 28Schweet(f): 2:36pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
 u guys more than make up for all the 'urgly' dudes we see on African Magic  thought my hubby was the only good looking naija man, glad to see i was wrong, |
Sports › Re: World Cup 2010 Time Table In Excel Format by 28Schweet(f): 2:26pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
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Romance › Re: Guys Which Would You Marry-a Single Mother Or A Serial Abortion(ists) by 28Schweet(f): 2:07pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
SA Goddess: Ok, a serial abortinist is that 90% that was talked about in the other thread but I get what you are saying about not knowing about the countless abortions unless one partook in them! Tricky! my thought was a 'serial' something is one that is done more than once or twice, i'm dying i tell you, |
Romance › Re: Guys Which Would You Marry-a Single Mother Or A Serial Abortion(ists) by 28Schweet(f): 1:48pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
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Romance › Re: Guys Which Would You Marry-a Single Mother Or A Serial Abortion(ists) by 28Schweet(f): 1:41pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
what's a serial abortionist?  |
Romance › Re: How Many Abortions Have You Commited by 28Schweet(f): 12:10pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
petebor02: Sits back and gets a bowl of popcorn,
so u are serving popcorn without a bottle o coke abi? defeats the purpose o, |
Romance › Re: How Many Abortions Have You Commited by 28Schweet(f): 11:58am On Jun 03, 2010 |
zebra543: oops james unidentified 007 now publishes paper under anonymity! People on this site are full of shite! If your proffesor has published a paper why are you hiding his identity? Actually im very credible, unfortunately abortion is illegal in nigeria so that will stop REAL REASEARCHERS from publishing anything contrary. The figures you pulled out of your arse wont go anywhere with me! I didnt school in nigeria, and so have a great understanding on the prorportion 90% represents SMH! Sits back and gets a bowl of popcorn, |
Romance › Re: How Many Abortions Have You Commited by 28Schweet(f): 11:41am On Jun 03, 2010 |
petebor02: the fact is that any lazy who had stay in a intimacy relationship up to 2 years and above must have aborted babies.simple  REALLY, U DON'T SAY, but given some of the responses on this thread, https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-455935.0.html, by some ladies on here may be your supposition is not so far off,  |
Romance › Re: Need Advise by 28Schweet(f): 10:02am On Jun 03, 2010 |
loyet: My boyfriend was a victim to this bank layoff(sack) since october last year and till now he has not gotten a job.he is planning to travel out if job seems not to come.and seriously planning it.something happens early this year when one guy is seeking for my hand in marriage and he did everytin he can do and pursue the guy.he has not propose to me,he has not introduce me to his family member.what he told me is that when he gets job he will make everything formal and he is planning to travel outside the country.i love him but am afraid b/c i dont actually know his plan. pls i need advise.good one @ poster a couple of questions from me to you. 1. how long have you and guy been together 2. why didn't he make everything formal when he had a job previously 3. given the unpredictability of guys who travel how sure are you that 'abscense will make the heart grow fonder' 4. don't you think the fact that he's cagey about his plans, is proof positive that he's unsure of you and him, if you were 'the one' he wouldn't hesitate to tell you his goals and life plan. I married and popped two kids for a guy who travelled outside of 9ija for work, he had some girl like you waiting for him, while he played and got played  ; some may be faithful and whatever, but he's not even making promises, ayi |
Family › Re: Would You Allow Your Pastor To Ruin The Joy Of Your First Child by 28Schweet(f): 9:02am On Jun 03, 2010 |
eddy1977: those kinds of prophecies only happen in africa. most of our pastors mix our african traditions with theology.if your friend really believes that his dad is behind his wife's misfortunes ( which is an insult),then he should ask the pastor to deliver the father of these diabolical forces.
a ten month old pregnancy can be explained scientificaly.in fact most first time mother deliver their babies on the 41st week of pregnancy. car accident and disabilities are just instances of life.
tell you buddy to cool off and avoid the so-called PASTOR  thank you for the voice of reason, a pregnancy is actually ten months,legally where I'm at, you're allowed to carry until 42 weeks if the baby doesn't want to make it's appearance, medical intervention would only be sought after 42 weeks, SMH @ ur friend denying his mother and father their grand child, what kind of Christians are they; that they won't believe God will see them through even if THEIR FATHER harbours ill will for them  |
Romance › Re: Contraception - Do Our Naija Women Believe It Is A Bad Thing? by 28Schweet(f): 8:27am On Jun 03, 2010 |
queeneve: Contraception causes a lot of fertility issues in women and not only fertility issues there are addition side effects that may or may not be known. I always encourages my clients to use Natural birth control if they are with one partner and committed relationship preferably married. However, I know the rise of fornication predates marital intimacy so I always encourage a test before intimacy and effective condoms.
However, condoms does not prevent HPV (Human Papiloma Virus) warts or lesions that causes cervical cancer in women. There are host of diseases that are not protected by condoms and I strongly suggest one faithful partner or abstinence (no intimacy until marriage).
The natural birth control is called Billings Method, which is simply avoiding intimacy during a woman peak stage during her cycle. The safest time for intimacy is the day of her last period up to ten days depending on how long her menses cycle some women cycle lasts 28 days until menstruation and some women 31 days so the best thing to do is count her cycle starting from her last day to the first day of her period record that and also look in her panties during the 10th day after her period to check for mucus if the mucus is thick that her fertility peak. Fertility peak usually last 3-4 days depending on her cycle.
Health is more important then pleasure. heaven am i glad ur practicing your quak mentality where ever it is ur @, I suggest you research a bit before posting such myopic views. FYI, condoms when used correctly can prevent and minimise the risk of STD's including HPV. Most STD's are trasmitted via bodily fluids, e.g. semen, saliva & blood. the genital warts come out because the blood is infected and the wart is a side effect of whatever STD. In your natural birth advocating time, do you also tell your 'clients' that ovulation times change, that hormone levels sometimes dip, or do you give them ovulation test kits. I suggest you say to your clients they abstain altogether, rather than playing Russian roulette with their lives. Pregnancy isn't the only result of unprotected sex you know, Ebonyeyes: The pill has a hosts of side-effects some of which include; * Nausea, vomiting, constipation, or bloating * Irregular menstruation and spotting * br3ests swelling or tenderness * Decreased libido * Weight gain or loss of appetite * Mood swings, anxiety, nervousness or depression * Changes in womanly discharge and womanly infections * Headaches, dizziness and fatigue * High blood pressure and cholesterol * Acne or permanent discolouration of the face * Fluid retention * Bone density loss * Hair loss or changes in hair growth * Enlarged ovarian follicles
Now before you blame women for sleeping with you try putting a rubber on it. what the women in 'less priviledged' areas of nigeria should do, is advocate the use of IUD's, and other forms of contraception other than pills. the female condom is another option, RISK VS REWARD,  SMH @ this. |
Romance › Re: How Many Abortions Have You Commited by 28Schweet(f): 8:05am On Jun 03, 2010 |
Ujujoan: ROTFLMAO 
You know contraceptives are used to prevent [b]pregnancies while abortions are used to prevent births! There is no way one can be used in place of the other! [/b] If someone decides to abort a pregnancy, that doesn't mean she would rather do it than use a contraceptive!
Admit it, your 'conclusion' is baseless  If she'd used contraceptives correctly then the pregnancy wouldn't have happened. In my humble opinion one termination (no matter how morally wrong) is excusable, it's when you cross that 1 to 2 to 3, that it should then be considered murder , because surely one would've learned their lesson. & why pray tell nairalanders, is it only the woman's responsibility to ensure that fertilization does not occur, & why are most guys almost  when their girls fall pregnant, zebra543: The question poses for men and women alike. I have to admit the men on this forum are a serious bunch of fools. Abortion is nothing to be proud of, its a traumatic experience and women should refrain from discussing it with these type of men. I wonder where the statistics most of you fools quote come from? It will be almost impossible for a woman to have 15 abortions just like it's almost impossible for a woman to have 14 children! I agree with you on the point of some of the men on this forum, but it's definately possible for a woman to have 14 kids, a woman is fertile @ 10 years old, up until they reach menopause around 50 years. so basically one has 40 years to fall pregnant. one is pregnant for 9 months, and is fertile almost immediately after expulsion of the placenta, so please let us not fool ourselves, one can have 15 terminations, but not surgical terminations because eventually your uterus will suffer rapture, because those abortions will have to be performed on a foetus of more than 12 weeks, because then it's almost fully developed, it just has to 'mature, the medical terminations, (use of pills), one can have every other quarter. I must say I'm shocked at how blase some people are about the termination issue, how it's an accepted norm, especially in a country like Nigeria where religion, tradition and 'supposed' morality is so highly esteemed,  |
Romance › Re: Men Why Are You Like This? by 28Schweet(f): 11:23am On Jun 01, 2010 |
d bigrod: [size=16pt]the truth is dat u must have played hard to get for so long.my girl played so hard for me to get her for like 6 months.now we are together and suprisingly all the madness i had for her had dissappeared(just 2 months into d relationship).i just feel like telling her that we cant continue any longer.she is so crazy abt me now but am no longer crazy abt her.sometimes i wonder if it was cos she played hard to get for a long time.maybe our relationship could have started when she was busy playing hard to get.maybe i was expecting her to offer me something extraordinary after playing hard to get. me sef dey confused
[/size] Quick q, why are you still around, & why pray tell, would u chase 'a figment of your imagination' for 6 months, @ Lacrissa, if you don't stop wondering what went wrong with your guy, you're never going to move on, hopefully by month 3 if the break progresses that long you'd have 'moved on',  |
Family › Re: Husbands Who Beat Their Wives by 28Schweet(f): 9:19am On Jun 01, 2010 |
My husband once tried to 'discipline' me with a belt, in return I tried to 'discipline' him with a knife, and told him from then on he must sleep with his one eye open and eat his food like it's the last meal he's ever going to get, none of that 'disciplining' ever happened again  long before a woman is physically beaten, she's already been beaten mentally and financially so that she feels there's no where else to go, |
Romance › Re: Do You Think She's Interested In Me Via This Body Languages by 28Schweet(f): 6:18pm On May 31, 2010 |
 lonelydude: Hi All,
I sat beside a pretty lady in church today who was virtually nervous throughout the service. I noticed the following during the service:
1) Anytime I tried talking to her normally, she gave a very brief eye contact and appears as if she ain't listening to me but she was actually, 2) She kept making physical contact with me with her fingers in a way I would think it's a mistake, 3) She even crossed her leg somehow in nervousness. 4) I also noticed she stares at me for long when I'm looking away. 5)I also noticed that when they say praise the Lord, she replies with Amen, lol
The obvious reaction that made me think she might be interested was that when she was about to go pick her nephew from the children section, she stood and carried her bag but after I gave her a quick look, she changed her mind to leave the bag behind. When she came back, I playfully asked her nephew if he enjoyed the service after which I asked for name and that of her nephew to which she obliged. I introduced myself likewise.
The only problem was that she hardly smiled during these whole experience.
Please, do you think she'll be interested? I'm really searching now and church seems to be my best place.  I die, if it was in a club or shopping complex, would you be unsure, and would you be hesistant in approaching her? |
Romance › Re: Dating a younger guy. by 28Schweet(f): 3:11pm On May 31, 2010 |
Suks: its ok for u to tell him, he actually might nt mind, but luking at marriage , u guyz must be prepared for wat the future holds, if he doesnt mind, wat about his parents, , his friends and family. can he cope wen u start growing wrinkles and he still luking charming cos he is younger,  r u for real, it's a two year gap, nothing spectacular in that, @ all u who think the age gap is a problem please advise why that is. Age is nothing but a number, if the girl/guy is suitably matured, practices good sense and has all the qualities that one is looking for in a partner why should the age be a deal breaker. Unless, if the woman is of a matured age, where child bearing is compromised, then may be age can be considered, IF THE GUY still wants children. Mayflowa: If u dont want to lose him, dont tell because most Nigerians aint cool with this. Make sure u marry him first. In fact, never u tell him @ poster, follow this advise at your own peril, |
Romance › Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by 28Schweet(f): 10:43am On May 28, 2010 |
siyanda.N: Drugs, crime masterminds! They do not discriminate. They ask no age, name, title or gender. They infiltrate horizontally and vertically in any hierarchy or level of the community. They respect no boundaries; obey no laws not made by themselves. Masters of-disguise, they have many names, forms, faces, colors. Talking business with them is talking death. The longer in their service the lower you stoop. They exponentially destroy wherever they move, a destruction most of the time only realized when viewed in retrospect. STAY AWAY FROM NIGERIANS. Your question should be telling you that he does not love or want you, why waste your time trying to get someone who does not love you or want you to love or want. Siyanda, I quite LOVE it when my clean living, Allah fearing, his mother respecting, children responsibility acknowledging 9ija man 'infiltrates me' in the bold mentioned ways,  it, there are bad people everywhere, |