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SA Goddess:
Close all 9 mouths and say NOTHING! she will get it in the end

lmao,

@ poster, it depends on what your motives are for telling her, and just how close you are. if you're hoping to tell her so that you can be there to 'comfort' her, then rather keep it to yourself. and how do you know she doesn't know he's cheating, some women have a sixth sense about such things you know, also, this amazingness of hers, you know from? something seen, felt or heard, do you know what goes on behind their closed doors ALL THE TIME

eclear:
If you were close to your best friends wife and he was cheating on her, would you tell her?
Best friend from childhood, he's like a brother. And his wife is amazing and really doesn't deserve it.

@ poster, If your self confidence has been knocked then i believe you should leave her be, clearly she's been around the block a few times and if she couldn't be kind, physically, to someone who has been emotionally kind to her, then what chance do you stand, also, it's my personal belief, that when one is truly 'in love' with someone, then intimacy, will be at a higher level and one won't have to compare,

zap2:
Oh Boy! See advice jaburata! lmao
its easy to say, since u guys ar all on the outside.
Its only the pipu in d kitchen dat r feeling d heat! Wait till u get in same situation, your perception will change. But its a shame women r always @ d receiving end in such situations.
My advice to all women--"the only way to minimize hurt when your partner chooses to cheat on u is-- Do not give in to Pre-marital sex! But thats too hard, u claim " but i love him", love my backside. true love does not equate pre-marital s The general problem is --Women are too cheap! Even the so-called experience ones stil fall mugu to an heartrobber in the end.

This is the way of the world. Ladies , goodluck if u've found your 'man', if not keep praying and searching.

SHM @ this so you think, once he's married or you're married to him and giving him all the bleeping he wants he won't cheat on you , lmao @ this. a man/woman will cheat if and when they want to, all it takes is loose moral fibre.

only in 9ija, marry a guy whose been absent for some years, you know nothing of him and about him. no courtship whatsoever, no knowledge of diseases, kids left behind, whether or not the guy intends going back overseas or not ,
my advice, elope with the guy you're inlove with (however, misguided that love is), THE PARENTS HAVE ALREADY LIVED THEIR LIVES, they can't live through their child. SMH

kolly-j:
try 2 be sincere,u slept in a guy house n he refuse to touch u how don feel.

ROTFLMAO,  did he refuse to touch you after you asked to be touched, or did u seduce and he didn't fall for it  , did you not ask him this question, cause my thinking would be; his response would then determine how you should feel about this whole thing.

as a woman, an intelligent thing to do, is to ask before hand, when being asked to come sleep over, what are you hoping to get out of it? if there are no taxis, for transport for me to go home after a date or something, the gentlemanly thing to do would be for you to sleep on the couch and i occupy your bed,

@ poster, sorry for you o, lying, cheating son of a gun for a boyfriend, faithless, untrustworthy, jealous of you girlfriend you've got, and you still want to associate with these degenerates, r u desperate or just not able to practice some 'selfishness' and 'my self esteem is high' mentality.

Dump the people. they are no good. i mean, y engage in sexual activity with no protection, both girl and guy. and how long had they been seeing one another before she fell preggies, i mean really, did your'll hang out together @ all, whilst they were fooling you?

@ poster, clearly your friend is not opposed to getting STD's, raising illigetimate kids (should the guy wish to marry), and i suspect too she suffers from a low self esteem, for her to want to 'look the other way' when her guy sows his seeds on her. SMH,

queeneve:
HPV HAVE TWO STRAINS, VIRUS STRAIN AND GENTIAL WART STRAIN,

THE VIRUS STRAIN CAUSES CERVICAL AND UTERUS CANCER IN WOMEN AND ONCE HAVE GENTIAL WARTS, IT NVER GOES AWAY, IT LIKE CONTRACTING HERPES, CONDOM ARE NOT 100% EFFECTIVE AND IF YOU WANT TO BE SAFE,
WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED WITH ONE FAITHFUL AND INFECTED FREE PARTNER,

HOW THE HELL DO YOU THINK WARTS OCCURS? NOTHING TO DO WITH FLUIDS, SIGHS!

WARTS OCCUR THROUGH SKIN CONTACT OF THOSE INFECTED WITH GENTIAL WARTS, SEE THAT WHY YALL bleeped UP NOW LISTENING TO UNCERTIFIED MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS!

FYI, the genital warts are a result or symptom of the the virus being in one's blood , if those warts are not cut, i.e. there's no bleeding it'll take the sperm to infect a person. use your common sense, how is the other person's fluid going to come into to contact with mine to infect me if i don't have cuts.

Unless if you're confusing warts with cooties, i.e. pubic lice,

Please for the sake of 'YOUR CLIENTS' read this and educate yourself http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herpes_simplex_virus.
Just by the way, in my country such issues are discussed on national radio, so it's only those that are hectically ignorant, or stupid, or in denial that still manage to get themselves infected with diseases.

FL Gators:
Yea, it's against our religion.

cuteconnec:
Lets take a look at the moral axis. Contraception even within marriage is bad.It is unafrican and dangerous to health. Abstinence for the unmarried, faithfullness and natural birth control for the married is the way.

God help us

you my dear are normal, ur guy however isn't, dude doesn't trust you,

luizworld:
tahh!! u wan make i die young!!!! that na overload

now that has got me, roflmao,

190:
As a good listener who seldom replies to threads
Im pleading to the mods to leave this my thread till tomorrow
so i can know my good friends and enemies

Wish me happy birthday with lots of love
and you would stand to be my friend for ever

Mods leave this thread for another 48hrs please!

Thanks,

Happy birthday anniversary to de guy who knows how to blow how own horn o----lol

SA Goddess:
It is Friday after all, adventure be the name of the game o!

By the way, I might get us tickets for the show, been promised but not confirmed so we wait, let you know later!

do that o- should be nice hanging with you , might do Big Nuz ko Soweto later 2nite, only if you don't work out now,

luizworld:
^^ plz can i see urs maam

next time may be,

SA Goddess:
Liuzworld, can I take it down now? Done checking me out, make that perving! Kidding oooo, don't take me too seriously!

@ SAG quite adventurous today aren't we, lol

adusol:
will do

so i take it, this has been answered? https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-447972.0.html

dobodobo:
Don't mind those maggots? What did they do when my ex girlfriend after 3 yrs of our relationship cheated on me before we break, I got everything for her to the extent of even get her a shop and fund the shop as well. what come to me will surely go around. because I was cheated, I have become a cheater too and I will cheat till enternity

may be if you'd married her after the first year, she wouldn't have cheated, and where pray tell were you when she was busy cheating

adusol:
i haven't decided yet, its been raining all morning in gidi, which by the way sucks in a major way. hmmmmm, be my guest

gosh i hope that doesn't last till tomorrow  the BIL is getting married tomorrow, although considered good luck, rain does nothing for good photos.

i thought i'd already stalked you guy  drop me a mail one time ne? 

it's only been a year, in to your relationship, why not let him go and do what he needs to do;for the rest of your lives; should he be the one. I can appreciate how you are feeling and how you don't want to be alone, but lady, men need to be leaders, to be relied upon, to be providers, etc. if he's unfulfulled in those spheres, trust me, he won't give you what you want or need.

tell him you support him, you'll wait, and get some form of commitment from him if he's willing and then let him go do what he needs to do.

adusol:
its me, honest


as for the verdict,

ROTFLMAO, it's the weekend now again what's the plan? & pray tell do you want me to stalk you now again,

adusol:
finally,

hello 2 u 2, am still waiting for you by the by, i refuse to believe that sketch is you, & what's the verdict, (u know i like fishing )

adusol:
okay

I take it ur done, cause it's coming off sooner than expected,

adusol:
ok sweet, am back @ my desk

check now, cause by 11:40 naija time, it'll be off again,

adusol:
I can't check now, am currently using my phone

sorry for you o, let me know next time, & i'll post again-o, ROFLMAO

check now quick, lol

Creamish:
@28Schweet . . chubbily noice

@SA Goddess . . cute boy. . .dint see u in there

round, full face yes, i don't like chubby, makes me sound like i'm a heavy mcdonalds eater,

adusol:
is this an invitation?
over to sweet, i don't want to misquoted again
TRANSLATIONS!!!!  

& if it is, u been david copperfieldish again-o,
was just telling her the tickets for nigeria and argentina are available, @ 11,051.63 naira

adusol:
how about you sweet

it's there, one i think you'd appreciate lol,

  going up in 5-4-3-2-1, houston we have lift off   

SA Goddess:
Sir Adu and Sweet, when is your season beginning? Kindly revive the thread!

ke hore nje hao kgone ho i thusa ne, 9ija ea dlala next Saturday, the R560 tickets are available,

Creamish:
in ma profile. . . your turn.

you're hot girl,   

U know what they say boys, the early bird catches the fattest worm,