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i feel for you, it gets better with time o, being sick that is , just take your medication, if that fails. pray,pray, pray, & if that fails, get on a plane somewhere, lol,

SA Goddess:
A drunken response - go ahead and knock her boots, she is legal.
A sober response - would you be happy finding out your friend is sleeping with your daughter? The 45 year old could just as well be the girls' father, some freaks out there, SMH!

@ Schweet - wish I was leaving early, not feeling great at all, thinking of doing a self-diagnosis tomorrow

it has come to that , lol,

my response to this was going to be, me being in Joburg & all, what's your bank balance? do you have veneral diseases? r u stupid, or just s-t-u-p-i-d, is she somebody that you know's daughter, because when you're done with her, ur gonna be left with nothing,

in this instance are sweet and weak synonymous?
A man who knows how to show emotion (pain, anger, happiness) is better than one who is just bland. U know what they say ladies, still waters run deep

Personally I prefer an emotional guy (expressive) because then I wont have to guess what he's feeling or not feeling and I know when I cry, he'll hug me and comfort me, instead of asking if he can call my mother/girlfriend or ask if there's something he can do, an emotional guy, knows how to respond to his woman's emotional needs,

gyde:
, Almost for Federer,but kudos to him,the guy is strong mentally,but of cos he is also superb on grass,was he trying to prove something yesterday?

i think he was and he did, anyone else wish, the days of Boris Becker, Andre Agassi, Govan Ivanossivic, Pete Sampras would come back, the tennis these days is so one way it's not funny,

serious, no scandals, lol, guess i should continue reading my book then, u knocking off early?

how goes it on the other site? am thinking of visiting there,

Bafana @ 4pm
Super Eagles @ 8 pm,

Think I'll change my order right about 3:30 pm, can't face the pain sober,

tonight which ever way it goes, there's no consolation for me o, I is gonna die twice , my poor angels,

I got a feeling, that tonight's gonna be a good night, that tonights gonna be a good good night,

Water on the rocks please, anyone in the house, ?

rite!

Sani Kaita now, sori, they are considering extra security for him, at least they are thinking of it, i want to show my peeps here in the office, how seriously his mistake was taken now,

Carolece:
They had only one TV? LOL

In the end, its sad that a man's life was taken for something so silly. May his soul rest in peace. They shall pay for their silly mistakes. What a shame.

I SUGGEST YOU GO GROW SOME BRAINS, 

@ poster, what inspired the thread, am curiously, curious,


@ odiaero - saw the mods deleted my thread the other day, but failed to delete yours, should i be calling the FECC or is it EFCC, we've got scamwatch,

speaking from experience, from day 1 to 8 weeks, it's best if baby sleeps with mommy on the bed, by virtue of the sheer number of times the baby wakes up at night, from about three months, you can get the baby to sleep in the crib, because that's when you'd want to start sleep training.

when your child becomes mobile (crawling, sitting up by themselves, walking) and they are still sleeping with you, it's going to be that much more difficult to get them out of your bed,

as for mommy squashing the baby, there have been strides made in making products that prevent such from happening, e.g. snuggle nest.

@ Poster; your story could read like mine, the fear and the uncertainty, but at the end of the day you must do what's right for your son and YOUR FAMILY (the three of you), are your quarrels with your husband about the love you have for one another or about everyday issues that can be worked if only one of you could just 'give in'.

I'm married to a nigerian man who practices Islam (u can just imagine how tough I have it), although he's not that staunch muslim, he's a through and through nigerian who expects to be the head (protector, provider, leader, buck stops with me) of the home and house. Until you stop fighting this, you are always going to have quarrels. I has taken me 7 months of separation to figure this out, when he asks for you to respect him, your husband is not asking you to be submissive, but he's asking you to trust his judgement.

The problem that we 'westernized' women have; is that, we like to know the when, how, why and if it doesn't make sense to us, we wont go along with it, all your man wants you to do is agree and let him take responsibility for whatever outcome of his decisions (even though, they involve your family),

How different is your husband from when you people didn't have a BOY CHILD, to what he is now. Before the kids, my husband was okay to let certain things slide, but after I become WIFE AND MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN, the goal posts shifted, because believe it or not, the kids take the lead from you (the mother) about how the father should be treated, especially if they spend most of the time with you, so if you talk back, they'll talk back, if you are snotty, they'll be snotty. Parents should always be a united front in front of their kids.

Just for your information, couples counselling is not going to work, if you both think the other is wrong in their thinking.
I could e-mail you a book, titled, Fascinating Womanhood, or you can google it, to help you on your way.

A split isn't as easy as it sounds, even if being together makes it a better option.

those who have never had kids shoudn't answer posts they know nothing about,

Sanja:
Hi everybody!

I come from a country in Europe, I am married to a Nigerian man. We have a son (1 year old).
I wonder what happens with our child if I and my husband get divorced. Should I be afraid to let him take our son to Nigeria in the future? I mean, are there laws in Nigeria saying that the child automatically belongs to the father? (As it is in some countries).
In the country where we live now the law says we will have shared custody if we both want it.
How is it in Nigeria?

And what if my husband hides our son somewhere in Nigeria, will the Nigerian state be willing to help finding my son? Or are they oing to protect the father?

(This is a worst-case-scenario that I hope never will happen, but I have to ask anyway, )

I just have one question for you, do you not trust your husband? Do you think that he'll not have your son's interests at heart should you people split up. I don't think there's a parent that will keep their child away from another parent, unless if that parent is incompetent and unfit,

I'd like to wake up for my 8 o'clock meeting o, better stick to Benilyn alone then, damn it's cold,

damn Jabulani, he's the one ruining all the fun, my bets are all shot, no pay day for me today
leaving now for, do u think they'll knock me out if i drink them both?

all I can say is, thank you Uruguay, for two mornings in a row I woke up to my alarm, no vuvu sound anywhere :-)
not funny I know,

exits for the sports section in preparation of tonights action, Wayne Rooney is going to meet his match tonite, punch for punch, shove for shove,

to all your'll who believe in this, what's the difference between a blood covenant and actually marrying the lady, i.e. following his and her traditions to make their union formal, or does the blood covenant in this instance mean they are beholden to one another till death do them part,

just incase you practice Islam,

http://www.islamfortoday.com/polygamy5.htm

kea ba tseba motswalle, bana le di pelo tsa di nonyana vele, lol

oa tseba ke shwashwi liscious, send me mail o ompolelle vele, o entseng ooooooo, one shot of tequila coming right up,

me thinks the only thing they serve is Super Malt , or may be ginger beer,