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walk on by,

would her sending a call back suffice as a mean of letting you know she's thinking of you. Give her recharge cards and money to call you, do you.

@ Sagamite : rather anal retentive aren't you. You can have the benefit of the last word.

@ S.A. Goddess : U read the column.

SA Goddess:
^^^ I say settle your dispute without involving other people-O

which people are those @ JennyKadry, i didn't mention her mos.

Sagamite:
So friday is TIC day? Or is it that you take it everyday of the week?

You must be so high, your vision is blurry. Where did I say Naija was best?

If the fact that I said Nigerians populate the top universities give you belly aches then wait till Seun unblocks a post I made above but was blocked by spambot. Maybe you might decide to jump in a river.

if it wasn't for the fact that you're friends with my friend, i'd let this be, but i cannot let you diss me, friend or no friend. you are going on about how nigerians occupy top posts, etc, and i'm saying in spite of that your'll don't have 24 hour electricity. 

so take a chill pill and stop throwing insults at ladies to confirm your superior intellect.

ta

I am "goodest" love,
Gosh the 9ija is best via Saga is nauseating me. If they are soo good they should have 24 hour electricity.

as a woman, i'd be pretty angry that you failed to see that i've been extra busy, preoccupied, etc. is this your story? if it is, enjoy the fact that your wife didn't squander money on things that don't add value and take a chill pill, unless if you were also planning on surprising her with a house.

@ poster, first of all, what kind of cheating was it, emotional, financial, or sexual.
Second of all don't ever make the mistake of thinking its something you did. A man cheats because he can and because there's someone willing and able to cheat with him.
Every relationship has its hurdles, but it takes a real man and woman to work through those hurdles and not jump them, avoid them or walk past them by bringing in third parties.
I was disrespected in my relationship, emotionally, first time i took it. Second time i told him to pack his bags, inspite of the kids, because he's not giving 100% to you and yours. let him have that which he desires at that time.

he left and i worked on me, and i grew stronger and independent and i because a better mother because of it, because i didn't have to second guess myself, worry if i'm doing the right thing, if i'm going to push him to cheat again, no stresses regarding his whereabouts, etc.

It's been a year, and we are trying to work it out, for us and no one else.

do you forgive yes, but do you forget, hell no.

if your husband is an idiot he'll have sexual relations without a condom or knowing the status of the person he's cheating with.

forgive and stay if that's what you wish, but ensure you know his status and insist on a condom, no exceptions.

should you wish to leave, then gather the resources to do so and do so. if there are kids, if he's a real man, he'll maintain.

tialundra:
well im a southern african woman (zimbabwean) and its really true that nigerian men prefer southern african ladies and i particularly myself im dating a nigerian guy while im in zimbabwe and he is in SA.I am usually in S.A In my own observation i saw tht nigerian guys tend to prefer Zimbabwean ladies compared to South African ladies.They believe S.A. ladies are only afta cash they are lazy,very loose and they can even jump in bed juss fo a couple of beers or cigarrattes imagine,they can date plenty of guys at one goal ,are nt gud in bed but they are also curvy or well built very beatiful,sexy light in complexion.whereas zim ladies tend to do what it takes to have and keep their men and these naija believe Zim ladies are gud in bed hardworking, understanding and Zim women give a great deal of respect to their man.Zim women tend to date one guy at a time.BT we are aware that naijimbos are nt afta marriage they will neva go with yu to tha village and meet his parents.Bt I really salute nigerian women coz they seem to stand their ground ,they are strong ,hardworking and they are nt of loose morals bt when it comes to beauty,body structure they really lag behind. this is hw i c tingz.

Funniest crap i've read in a while. Thank you.

S.A Goddess, you should read Khaya Dlanga's opinion piece on News24, JUST FOR THE HELL OF IT. from yesterday.

Rotflmbao, I suppose ppl shouldn't have preferences. We all have point of views based on our surroundings and backgrounds. I think if we all follow Maslow we'll be able to put a rest to this thread.

adusol:
hmmmm

hmmmmm indeed am still chasing you oga, r u ready to be caught

@ Tshepiso, & the list grows, ur hubby sure didn't waste time.

as for the 9ija ladies waiting, wouldn't you wait for your one true love, especially if the intro's have been done @ home etc and the dude keeps telling you he's just 'making money' to come settle back home even after 5-10 years.

Lwandle:
I just hope my sister is married to a sincere person coz the way she talks scares me at times!

Its as if the world revolves around her hubby and usually when a woman tells anonymous people how fantastic and wonderfull her marriage is it means in her heart of hearts she has serious doubts!

Then again who am I to rain on someones parade, its just that our Naija brothers usually marry foreign women not for love but for convinience

who is to blame for that?

One would hope that protection is used by both her and the husband, the person she's cheating with and the person the cheaters wife is probarbly having an affair with.

at the end of the day, we'll all answer for our own transgressions come judgement day, so why should we live other people's choices for us. *smh*

DM me will tell you all about it, besides yena oa tseba

quick question, why are we assuming that they've got a perfect relationship and that he had no reason to cheat that he shouldn't cheat, should he have cheated. we're all making suppositions on insufficient information here.  The thing about us women is that we like to think the sun shines out of our behinds.

long before she found the condoms, she suspected him of cheating, the condoms just gave her an opportunity to ask, and justified her belief that he was cheating. so whether he is or he isn't cheating is irrelevant if she believes he's cheating anyway,

hmmmm. @ poster believe what your moral compass tells you to believe and what you know your relationship to be (in all honesty). If you are to believe him, regarding the condoms, make sure your'll use the same brand from now on, everytime and all the time.

Sir Adu, wonder if I should, hmmmmmm

@Tonsiville, u really,really want to know, dont want to deflate ur ego without ur consent.

@Tonsinville, I think you're the one needing education and exposure,what u wrote is hogwash,regarding why S.A women go for 9ja guys.

ke thotse motho a batlang ho etsa 2x2 1 by hatsela kanna,so 4 sure tla be kele der,

@Sagamite, hmmm,o ba rata oor oor kant ne, :-)

hey, SA Goddes,long time, I c ur representing.,

@ Mr C,I'm none of those things,besides I like my guys as pedestrians so that I can dominate & humiliate him. Post a pic of the gulf pls,I haven't seen or heard of one.

Mr Cork,I believe 'better' will do. No gooder in English. When can I have a drive in ur Gulf & Rova. Lol

hela ngwanana,ako kene ko yahoo o amohele invitation yaka hle. Ke tseleng ya ho ya mahaeng,

@ Angel heart,differen't strokes 4 different folks,we brought up my cousin brother's baby.

go Tatty,show dem,especially that Meryl,what swim wear is, you're hot girl,

his face, his body, the way he's dressed, the bank balance, the wheels, the house, most importantly, the way he addresses me the first time

have said it before, will say it again, MEN CHEAT BECAUSE THEY CAN, AND BECAUSE THERE ARE PEOPLE WILLING TO CHEAT WITH THEM, SO TOO WOMEN,

WE CHEAT, IN EVERYTHING (SOME OF US) BECAUSE WE CAN. capish!

thando:
i am a lil surprised big brother lets uti go on with his political campaigns for jonathan in that house

i'm a bit slow today, if he's going to stop him doing the poli-ticking, she might as well stop giving them booze, cause that's also questionable,  and he must stop Mwisho and Tatty walking around half unclothed 

just to add on, it would help most of us SOUTH AFRICAN's to get the peeps in BBA to talk about their countries (issues, beauty, tradition, etc) just so that some of us could dispel our ignorance and learn about the rest of the continent and finally get rid of this AFROPHOBIA

kobikwelu:
sorry to burst your bubble, s e x sells
following the drab "no show" that was the last BB,

i think they (the organisers) wanted some spontaneity not some self-conscious,righteous clowns

people crave drama!!!! they crave excitement and most of these bunch would give you that,



as for the new self found love that paloma, meryl and mwisho has found about nigeria,

u guys mite be rite about buying nigerian votes, , but dont forget, where these guys come from is tiny and under-developed compared to here, so maybe they were sincere,


and they know that nigeria bashing is at your own risk

I hope you don't mean Tatty,

Rheinmetal:
^^^Hey Sweety Schweet, longest time! How far now?

On point with the personalities assembled! Who do you think are there to make up the numbers, except Jennifer?

That Sammy, that Mwisho & definately that Lerato, since she's gone 'thick' she's lost her 'va va voom',