jany49:

The truth is that, our women abroad knows that our men value and respect our women and we stay in marriage and not as abusive as the western world guys. She has tasted them and came back to her senses like the prodigal son. Guys, we are special and that is why our women still come back home to make their choice or go back to their first love. I would say, consider her and am very sure that she is not here to use you. See her as your prodigal son who is back to you. Love her and forget the fact that she has 2 kids. U cant tell me that you dont have someone you love right now even before she came back to you, you have to be honest with her and not use her to go to Ireland and later come back to pick your lover here. Guess what, your lover too will dosame to you. Its better you just understand that Oju kan ni ada ni.

martin1:

nice comment but it depends on if he will be matured enough 2 accept d kids as his own.
but i doubt.
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There is no doubt about me accepting are and her kids, because, if i haven't bleeped up in the first place there is no doubt that both of us would not had been together considering the love we share for each other and most of all my refuser to accept my fucking up at that time inspite of her coming back to me, to see if i will agree to apologise to her. Silly me, i never did. And now she travelled out and came back to me with kids. Well, i see all this as a reward of my stupidity than. Cheers.

jules123:
She was my childhood love for years until one day i bleeped up when she caught me in bed with another babe. She said, she couldn't stand the disgrace and shame for her to lose me to another girl so she travelled abroad. After eight years abroad she decided to visit her parents and than, while in Nigeria she asked her brother about me if they still sees me and if I'm married. Her brother told her that he doesn't know much about me since she left but he can fish out my mobile number for her if she wants it.  She gave him money to get my number for her, which he did. Than one day i received her call, asking me to come over to her sister's place to see her, which i did. while there, she welcomed me and asked me if I'm married, and i said no not yet and she said, she still loves me all this years and that she will love to marry me and have children for me but one thing, that she already have two beautiful baby girls for a guy, but they are not together anymore and that they were never married. She had returned back to ireland were she resides as a citizen and they had never been a day she will not call me on phone ever since will met here in Nigeria. She speak on phone with me for hours telling me how much she loves me and will want us to be together as we were in our childhood days? Common guys, will you marry her ? even with her two beautiful children? Please, i need sensible contributions.