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Are you married or in a relationship where things have gone downhill? Perhaps you've been dating this great guy but you want him to commit to a relationship. Or maybe you haven't met your prince charming yet.

Join me in this series, as I reveal men's inner secrets with tips to making any man fall deeply in LOVE and DESIRE you FOREVER!!!

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How to Attract a Great Man


There are some great guys out there, and I know you'd
love to know how you can meet up with one.

Today, I'd like to share with you ideas on
how you can attract a great man with minimal effort.

There really are men who know how to treat a woman; they
open doors for her, listen intently to her and have
manners and class.

To add to this, there are men who are successful,
handsome and charming.

Actually, you might give your left arm to attract such
a man, so your first question is:

How do I do this?

** First Impressions **

First impressions do count, so make a good impression
during the first few dates.

Dress in such a way as to accentuate your femininity. Be
sure to wear a fragrance that is appealing, but don't send
him running with a terribly strong stench.

Wear your hair in such a way that you look and feel
beautiful. You are trying to make an exceptional first
impression.

Get the guys looking your way. Don't be afraid to show off
what you've got and carry a sense of confidence.

First impressions aren't everything, but they do help get
the ball rolling in many cases.


** Be Yourself **

Make every effort to be yourself. Don't try to put on an
artificial behavior just to get his attention.

Love yourself enough to be comfortable being you. If you
try to be someone you are not, you are not being fair to
you or the man.

Be confident in who you are.

A man wants a woman who is not afraid to be herself
because if a woman is always looking at a man to define
her, she will be needy and clingy, which will normally
push a man away.


** Reel Him in With Some Creativity **

Do something that will keep you in a man's memory
throughout the day, even when he is not with you.

When you meet, make him feel like the most important
person in the world. Be genuinely excited about his
presence and delight in what he talks about.

Many women are too busy talking and neglect to let a man
speak. Slow down, and allow two-way communication to
occur.

Wear an outfit that shows off your curves, no matter
what your body type. Men love a confident woman who can
pull off sexy attire.

Also, wear a sexy fragrance that he is not able to forget.
Flirt with him and get close to him throughout your date.

Let him know that you are desirable and interested in him.
Be original and unique.

A great man will be able to appreciate your creativity and
will be more apt to think about you after the date.



** Air of Mystery **

Try to leave a man guessing about some aspects of your
personality. You don't need to be an open book.

Don't tell him your life story on the first few dates and
for goodness sake, don't tell him all of your problems
and how all of your other relationships were so awful.

Leave a bit about you a mystery. Men can be greatly
attracted to a woman who is mysterious and keeps them
guessing.

Make him feel he is dating someone special and that
you are unique.

You need to be honest with him, but certain revelations
can wait until you know him better.



** Let Him Be Himself **

You can attract a great man by not attempting to change
him. Leave him as he is, and accept him the way he is.

He will become all the more enamored with such a woman
because men have usually been with women who try to
change them, which is a big turn-off.

Get to know his social circle, and be open to getting to
know his friends. Let him know that you are in favor of
him having friends and having a social life outside of
your relationship.

Men don't want to have to choose one or the other, but
they want to be free to have friends AND a girlfriend.



** Believe the Best **

There are great men out there. Try not to prejudge the
men that you meet based on the past.

Give every man a fresh, clean slate and believe the best
about him. Remember to be yourself and allow a man to
be himself.

From there, you will be able to determine if you are a
fit.

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WHY MEN LOSE INTEREST AND DON'T WANT TO COMMIT


I have to ask: Have you ever dated a man who
suddenly lost interest or simply would not commit
for some reason?

Perhaps you are already with someone who is a
commitment-phobe.

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First, before reading on, if you haven't watched this
video yet, make sure you watch it right away:

==> http://www.findingyourman.com/go/languageofdesire


It's a really accurate and eye-opening short video
that shows you why men lose interest in women they
once loved and how to make him LOVE you forever.

Don't miss it.

Now back to today's tip...

"Why men lose interest and why they don't want to commit"

Let's say a man takes you out on several dates and then
suddenly loses interest and drops you.

Or perhaps you have been married to a man for years,
and then suddenly he just loses interest in you.

It appears he has suddenly become cold and distant.

Why do you think this happens?

You are left wondering what went wrong in the
relationship, and a million thoughts go through
your mind.

Some women just conclude that the guy is a "jerk" and
they deserve better, but in truth, there could be a
lot of other reasons for the relationship ending
abruptly.


**Lack of Warmth**

Sometimes, a man feels he is playing an insignificant
role in the relationship if a woman is not warm and
loving.

Some women hold back their affection due to fear of
being hurt or bitterness over failed relationships.

Gauge your behavior to see if you are truly showing
warm and caring behavior toward a man.

If you are bossy, sarcastic or treat a man like he
is a little boy, he is likely to rethink committing
to a long-term relationship.

Men may not be as emotionally open or warm as a woman,
but they do like a woman to be warm and loving.



**Clingy Women**

Men will tell you flat-out that they don't like
clingy and needy women.

Men understand that women NEED some attention, and many
are up for giving attention, but CONSTANT attention will
push men away.

They will lose interest in a hurry and not even consider
committing long-term.

Men want to feel needed and like to provide for women,
but they don't want to be your sole basis for fulfillment.

If you are seeking a man to fulfill all of your needs and
you base your identity on your man, you are setting
yourself up for failure and likely pushing away your man.

Have some interests outside of your man. Men cannot meet
all of your emotional, physical, spiritual and financial
needs.

That's not their job - it's yours.

You can need certain things from a man, such as love,
support, warmth, affection, help, etc. But if you are
continually needing him for every little thing, you will
suck his energy quickly and he will not want to commit
for long.


**Are you too predictable?**

Moreover, men don't like their women to be too
predictable.

If the man in your life is able to predict your every
action and words, there's not much interesting, exciting
or mystery in the relationship, causing the man to
become bored.

You may need to spice things up a bit and make the
relationship interesting and unpredictable by teasing,
joking, flirting and doing spontaneous, fun things.

Men are generally looking for adventure, humor and
purposeful activities.

If it is just the same thing day after day, relationships
can become boring and a man will lose interest.


**Men like downtime**

Men will admit that they like their downtime.

They work all day and simply want to come home and relax
for a little bit.

They have a need to wind down after work and often do so
by watching television, surfing the Internet or tinkering
around the garage or yard.

If you are the kind of woman who charges a man as soon
as he gets in the door or starts texting him right after
work CONTINUALLY, your man may begin to lose interest
and won't want to commit to a long-term relationship.

Women are more communicative, which is great, but a man
needs a little time after work to just "chill."

Let your man have a certain amount of time to take a
deep breath, relax into something that he finds
relaxing and rejuvenate.

You might think his watching television for 30 minutes
is being lazy after work when, in reality, it is simply
a way he can wind down from a long day and get geared
up for evening activities.

Let him have his time, and then approach him happy and
ready for a great evening of communication.


**Attitude**

Some men lose interest and won't commit if the woman is
too competitive or overbearing.

If you find yourself struggling with these tendencies,
do your best to hold back displaying them.

Men like to feel like they are strong and successful.

If you are continually competing with your man when it
comes to achievements or finances, it may push him away
and he may lose interest over time.

Relationships do not have to be competitive; you are on
the same team.

If you come across a man who does not seem to be able to
commit or loses interest for no apparent reason, you can
simply sit down and ask him what is going on.

Ask him why he does not seem interested or stopped
communicating with you.

If it is something on your part, you can at least know and
begin to change your attitude or behavior, if necessary.

If it was something on his part, you can let it go,
knowing that he still has some issues to work out before
he can commit to a relationship.

It's not always you or something you did.

Men can have issues that they are not aware of or are
still working on before they feel they can commit to a
long-term relationship.

well, I hope you found great value in today's tip.

Make sure you also watch the video below as soon as
possible:

==> http://www.findingyourman.com/go/languageofdesire

I'm not sure how long this will be online, and it's a must-watch
short video that shows why men pull away and how
to be the woman that he'll fall in love with forever.


Bye for now!

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