Good day my fellow nairalanders. I don't even know where to start from. I'm so confused, I need matured advise please. I wouldn't go back to the scratch to tell you how I met the girl coz I don't wanna bore you with that. We've being close friends and often time we do have sex. whenever I want us to define the relationship she'll shy away from it or just tell me we are friends. Yet we do have sex, at times she spends the weekend in my lodge, virtually everyone in my compound thinks we're dating but right inside me I know we are not. Initially, I was enjoying the sex so weather the relationship is defined or not wasn't my problem. To my greatest surprise, I've started developing feelings for this girl. I'm falling for her which I don't wanna do coz I know sooner or later its gonna hurt me. I'm a kind of guy that when I love, I love with whole of my heart. I've told her to date me several times but she refused becoz she sees me as a guy who would be jealous and wouldn't give her a breathing space(which am not). What would I do so that I wouldn't fall for her. I can't send her away or stop her from coming to my place becoz I really like her. Even if am able to cajole her to date me, I strongly believe the relationship won't have a good prospect and sooner or later she'll go which is gonna hurt. So, how can I prevent myself from loving her? Pls pardon my blunders.

Very simple.
Text PREVENT to 131

divinehand2003:
Very simple.
Text PREVENT to 131

. Hmmmm, I believe you can say something better than that.

Next time put sacrifice in front of ur door

U dont need to send her away she will send herself away Build ur relationship on sex smh for u!

...keep enjoying the sex bro
Don't be a bitcch!!!

You only have feelings cos she doesn't want to date you.,if today she says okay to your proposal..sooner or later it will crumble and she knows that!!

Go smoke some weed.

Really

Den quit having sex with her & stop seeing her

#lobatan

sickstars:
Next time put sacrifice in front of ur door

U dont need to send her away she will send herself away Build ur relationship on sex smh for u!

I've started liking her before the sex came in which I never planned for

You see each other regularly,
You sleep with her,
She stays overnight.
YOU ARE DATING HER.
What you want is a Committed Relationship.

Next.
You wanna drop her?
Don't call. Don't text. Don't Pick. Permanently.
Simple.

davydtroy:
I've started liking her before the sex came in which I never planned for

Tell her work it out

Only u ask question, only u give answer 2 d question

Since u already know dat even if u cajole her 2 date u,its gonna hit d brick wall..,kindly pull back n stop having sex wit her. D earlier u do away wit her, d better 4 u

You should be asking, "how do I prevent myself from having sex with her"? Stop having sex with her, find another girl and start up on a clean slate...

Funny

Get her a competitor in your life, reduce ur seeing her & spend more time with the new person, she sure will miss u & try fighting 4u, dats all. But u have been sinning all the while oh, i mean fornication

Lovetinz:
You see each other regularly, You sleep with her, She stays overnight. YOU ARE DATING HER. What you want is a Committed Relationship.
Next. You wanna drop her? Don't call. Don't text. Don't Pick. Permanently. Simple.

what if she comes to my place?

Awwwn i knw it hurts to love sm1 dat doesnt love u too buh ave u tried to find out y she cant love nor date u Start frm dere

man, she is obviously using you as her booty call. Since sex is involved, leaving her will be an uphill task because you are enjoying it, but its achievable. Best of luck.

Mjshexy:
Get her a competitor in your life, reduce ur seeing her & spend more time with the new person, she sure will miss u & try fighting 4u, dats all. But u have been sinning all the while oh, i mean fornication

thanks

FWB... Some gurls thou,I dnt knw wat they derive in this so called friends with benefit I hate it like pooo

davydtroy:
what if she comes to my place?

Tell her you need to go out.
If she comes. Go out.

Mjshexy:
Get her a competitor in your life, reduce ur seeing her & spend more time with the new person, she sure will miss u & try fighting 4u, dats all. But u have been sinning all the while oh, i mean fornication

. She's beautiful and lots of guys are clamoring around her. so, I don't think she'll give a fight 4 me.

Girls except oloshos don't have sex for sex sake. For ladies to have sex with a guy, feelings must be involved. Try harder, she has a thing for you

OP is such a fool and the girl knows it.

Don't ask me why I said so, just figure it out yourself, I'm sure you will know with time, perhaps a pregnancy will help you define the relationship better.

Mumu!

davydtroy:
. She's beautiful and lots of guys are clamoring around her. so, I don't think she'll give a fight 4 me.

Then stand out of the crowd, i know u really love her & she knows this, she wants to be independent & keep playing her games but u must be a man, life's too short bro, withdraw from her & give her that space & get closer to someone else, if possible just get down with some one else. The truth is that she's not ready to settle or she has someone else, get on with ur life bro.

PushMusic:
OP is such a fool and the girl knows it.

Don't ask me why I said so, just figure it out yourself, I'm sure you will know with time, perhaps a pregnancy will help you define the relationship better.

Mumu!

LAWMA! You've got a job here to do.

You will get heart broken anyway you want to do it....
Just look forward to that day

davydtroy:
Good day my fellow nairalanders. I don't even know where to start from. I'm so confused, I need matured advise please. I wouldn't go back to the scratch to tell you how I met the girl coz I don't wanna bore you with that. We've being close friends and often time we do have sex. whenever I want us to define the relationship she'll shy away from it or just tell me we are friends. Yet we do have sex, at times she spends the weekend in my lodge, virtually everyone in my compound thinks we're dating but right inside me I know we are not. Initially, I was enjoying the sex so weather the relationship is defined or not wasn't my problem. To my greatest surprise, I've started developing feelings for this girl. I'm falling for her which I don't wanna do coz I know sooner or later its gonna hurt me. I'm a kind of guy that when I love, I love with whole of my heart. I've told her to date me several times but she refused becoz she sees me as a guy who would be jealous and wouldn't give her a breathing space(which am not). What would I do so that I wouldn't fall for her. I can't send her away or stop her from coming to my place becoz I really like her. Even if am able to cajole her to date me, I strongly believe the relationship won't have a good prospect and sooner or later she'll go which is gonna hurt. So, how can I prevent myself from loving her? Pls pardon my blunders.

You re having sex with her u expect ur self not to fall in love with her abii!

Some of una no just get head at all!!

Go find out the true meaning nd reason of sexual intercourse nd stop mumuing hia...

Meanwhile try harder on winning her!!!

divinehand2003:
Very simple. Text PREVENT to 131

Lmao
ODE!!

davydtroy:
Good day my fellow nairalanders. I don't even know where to start from. I'm so confused, I need matured advise please. I wouldn't go back to the scratch to tell you how I met the girl coz I don't wanna bore you with that. We've being close friends and often time we do have sex. whenever I want us to define the relationship she'll shy away from it or just tell me we are friends. Yet we do have sex, at times she spends the weekend in my lodge, virtually everyone in my compound thinks we're dating but right inside me I know we are not. Initially, I was enjoying the sex so weather the relationship is defined or not wasn't my problem. To my greatest surprise, I've started developing feelings for this girl. I'm falling for her which I don't wanna do coz I know sooner or later its gonna hurt me. I'm a kind of guy that when I love, I love with whole of my heart. I've told her to date me several times but she refused becoz she sees me as a guy who would be jealous and wouldn't give her a breathing space(which am not). What would I do so that I wouldn't fall for her. I can't send her away or stop her from coming to my place becoz I really like her. Even if am able to cajole her to date me, I strongly believe the relationship won't have a good prospect and sooner or later she'll go which is gonna hurt. So, how can I prevent myself from loving her? Pls pardon my blunders.

Stop being intimate with her then, the more u guys get hitched the more u love her according to u.
Tell her how u feel. Im sure if she's a "good friend " she'll understand.

All this una complicated relationship shaa

1min silence for this our brothers lost sense

U see r regularly
U guys have sex
She even spends the night over @ ur place..
So she must say u guys are dating b4 u know abi.
Dey dere mk pant de wear u