crackhaus:

You should be able to tell...us girls need to stand by each other and not let men think they can eat their cake and have it.

Crackahus! !!

really enjoying the convo though

lifeisabitch:
once again, are you male or female?

Honestly, I don't seem to remember...I just know that I like the look of your ass.

My friends may have been right afterall, I really have lesbian-tendencies.

Crackhaus your cover is blown

lifeisabitch:
Crackhaus your cover is blown

Yea right...

PresVA:
Crackahus! !!

really enjoying the convo though

Thank you very much

I would never confront the woman , as long as she's not a close friend or relative she owes me no loyalty. The one who owes me loyalty is my husband who took an oath with me in front of God and man. He is the one that's married and responsible for keeping his vow, if your husband is a randy goat many women do you want to keep confronting? You'll just start looking like a mad woman around town and very soon you'll earn a bad reputation sef. In fact such men will go around saying its your aggressive behavior pushing him into cheating .

Face the person you have business with and that's your spouse.

crackhaus:

You're right, but do you honestly believe this sermon is enough to put an end to his infidelity?
Like he didn't know all this before he did it the first time?

No, I don't think it would end his cheating ways. But just in case (even by the slimmest chance it would change him), I'll tell him about himself.

Mostly though, I'd be saying it for my own piece of mind...getting my feelings off my chest and covering my own backside. So he nor anyone else (like family members) can ever say that I didn't address it with him.

But in all sincerity, I wouldn't expect him to change and certainly wouldn't trust him to change...ya know what I mean?

I will confront both,

But when confronting the woman, I will be well prepared in case she attacks me, the only reason I will confront the woman is to know her story, maybe hubby told her he was not married you never know.

cococandy:
Mtchew

Lmao! Cococandy ooooooooo. This just sums it up. Fear dey catch am to even ask her husband but she get strength to deal with the side chic. Mstchewwwwww

Your husband!

Confront ke? Just let them know you are aware and move on with your life, gift them each other .

Joy1706:

Lmao! Cococandy ooooooooo. This just sums it up. Fear dey catch am to even ask her husband but she get strength to deal with the side chic. Mstchewwwwww

Exactly

I would confront both of them in a civil manner.