My dear, break up is a strong word I wouldn't suggest. He's at a point where he's confused and believe me when I say that whatever broke them up before will still happen again if he choose to get back together with her. So like I told my best friends girlfriend when she found herself in a similar situation; calmly (and I mean calm if u want to come out of this on top, don't exchange words or raise ur voice) confront him about it and tell him you choose to walk away and give him time to think his decision through and that if he chose u, he knows where to find u; if it's not late by the time he does. If not, you'd understand. Give him that space to make a second and confirmatong mistake that'll help his choices be clearer to him. Do this for him and you; and for love I suppose.

foladaraawe:
me kee?? I'm under 18 fa

big lie.. As if you havnt been fingered b4!

frm experience, getting in contact with his ex definitely brought back some memories. if he really loves u, even though he wants his ex, he would still treat u with respect. so all u ve to do is tell him abt d situation calmly, give him some space for sometime nd if he wants u, it wont take long b4 he returns. in fact, if he does nt return after a month, my dear walk away cos if u let him stay, he will do it again. except u dnt wanna let him go, den u ve to fight for wat is urs cos he is urs nw bt if he turns out to b someone who is nt worth fighting for, the simple answer is QUIT

JustHere2Observ:
If a guy makes me insecure because of his ex, is not willing to reassure me that I'm the one he loves and makes me feel guilty for being territorial, then he ain't worth my time.

Exactly.

My advice to u is to resign from ur present job to be a full time story writer.
Chai!! I almost forgot it was a true life story.

OP, remember Okafor's law: "A hole once entered can always be easily re-entered." An ex still loved is the most dangerous entity one can ever have to reckon with in a relationship. Your boyfriend is still in love with his ex, and vice versa. They are sneaking around, they are still intimate. Diagnosis: Hopeless. Please, OP, move on no matter how painful it will be. From reading your write-up, I think you deserve better. And you'll surely get someone better.

MemphisDepay:
big lie.. As if you havnt been fingered b4!

didn't even know what dat means

But u sabi lie sha op