I have been enduring, but I can't take it anymore. This particular FWB I have is frustrating me. Imagine that she visits with a small bag containing her night cloths and whatever but she always leaves with the same small bag and a nylon filled to the brim. It is always days after she has left do I start looking for things in my home. Apparently my belongings tend to find their way to her nylon bag. Because of our arrangement I never inquire the contents of the nylon lest I annoy her and loose my privileges to her punna.

But this thing is really making me angry, she left on Wednesday and I just realised my brand new 2800 jumbo kelloggs cornflakes is gone. She left the carton and took what was inside. My perfume gone too, my milk sef gone. A phone I stopped using and abandoned on my dresser gone, to make matters worse, in fact this singular act is driving me nuts the most, MY CLOSEUP TOOTHPASTE IS GONE TOO. This is me that hates buying things I can't eat like toothpaste, detergent etc. I consider them a waste of money. Plus I just bought that toothpaste on Sunday.

I am very angry. Deceiving myself that I won't call her again blah blah blah will likely fly out the window the moment konji comes knocking. But I really don't feel safe in my own home anymore. Especially as I have to leave her at home and go to work. She uses that period to wash me of my belongings. Abeg before it becomes the turn ofmy head to enter her nylon bag. What should I do

It's your cross, carry it.

That one na your cross,
Carry am alone

you know what to do and you are still asking lalasticlala...

dear OP.. i beg you in the name of sango..
just gerrrrrraaaaarrrriiAa

Hahaha. Can't stop laughing. The thief with impunity has come to plunder your goods.

Hide ur most personal stuff from her with key and lock, but those ones u can afford to lose just let her have them, or romantically tell her that what so ever she needs from your house she should tell u before she takes them infact lie to her that that phone she took was a police case phone that u were asked to keep for evidence sake, she should return it. I think this will do the trick. Some girls can do that shii too much
A girl that visited me took my bangle right from my hands, see as a come dey drag am with her ohh, next she say if I no give her it means I no like her and that she will be remembering me each time she wears it on, Girls sometimes eh SMH

Cc Decker Tosyn2much naijaboiy STFUareyougod obiorathesubtle mrsphyno ladyf carolyner yourmain laveda estherfabian misspicy wildflame and others too jare, brb to drop my comment

Lol lock your room and everywhere else before going out and let her stay in the sitting room.

Then install something that looks like a camera in your sitting room, it doesn't have to be functioning. Let her know that things have been disappearing and you got someone to install CCTV just to catch the thief, she won't lift anything from your house again.

You're always welcome.

ladyF:
Lol lock your room and everywhere else before going out and let her stay in the sitting room.

Then install something that looks like a camera in your sitting room, it doesn't have to be functioning. Let her know that things have been disappearing and you got someone to install CCTV just to catch the thief, she won't lift anything from your house again.

You're always welcome.

I agree.

"EVEN MY CLOSEUP TOOTHPASTE IS GONE"

Lwkmd.. This is Hilarious

Bros, she's taking her birthright na...

U chop d puna, she takes d goods... 50/50










But on a more serious note, dat girl na Savage oooo... She dey steal toothpaste? Now Datz not scavenging, it's jex Stealing jawe

Seriously, hide a camera in your room (if she hasn't stolen that too)
and record her stealing.just to show her you know.
and then get a lock for your room.

hopeforcharles:
Hide ur most personal stuff from her with key and lock, but those ones u can afford to lose just let her have them, or romantically tell her that what so ever she needs from your house she should tell u before she takes them infact lie to her that that phone she took was a police case phone that u were asked to keep for evidence sake, she should return it. I think this will do the trick. Some girls can do that shii too much
A girl that visited me took my bangle right from my hands, see as a come dey drag am with her ohh, next she say if I no give her it means I no like her and that she will be remembering me each time she wears it on, Girls sometimes eh SMH

God bless bro. Let me try this. And see how it goes

Leave her punna, she leaves your things

CaroLyner:
Seriously, hide a camera in your room (if she hasn't stolen that too)
and record her stealing.just to show her you know.
and then get a lock for your room.

funny you. If I catch her and prove it and she tries emotional blackmail. By accusing me of complaining cos of small small things. I might look childish. Haven't brushed today cos of my missing toothpaste.

ladyF:
Lol lock your room and everywhere else before going out and let her stay in the sitting room.

Then install something that looks like a camera in your sitting room, it doesn't have to be functioning. Let her know that things have been disappearing and you got someone to install CCTV just to catch the thief, she won't lift anything from your house again.

You're always welcome.

this ruffian will steal the camera. I will simply tear that nylon next time, hopefully as the contents empty on the floor. I will pick up Wat is mine.

ladyF:
Lol lock your room and everywhere else before going out and let her stay in the sitting room.

Then install something that looks like a camera in your sitting room, it doesn't have to be functioning. Let her know that things have been disappearing and you got someone to install CCTV just to catch the thief, she won't lift anything from your house again.

You're always welcome.

...assuming there is a sitting room ba?

@OP.. U can't eat ur puna cake and have ur belongings it .. so choose 1.. Ur belongings or ur FWB.

Eddygourdo:
this ruffian will steal the camera. I will simply tear that nylon next time, hopefully as the contents empty on the floor. I will pick up Wat is mine.

end of FWB

misspicy:

end of FWB

exactly what am afraid of. Na Wa oh