Dear Nairalanders, I am new on here, my friend crazykid told me about this wonderful forum when I explained something to him.

He said it would be best I sign up as a member to share my thoughts with fellow nairalanders out here. He also warned about yabs and lunatics that would come along someone's topic. But I really wont mind a great response to my question.


My name is Tunde, and I have a lovely girlfriend I have been dating for 7 9 months now.

She is very beautiful and down to earth loving girl, she is a student of U.I of 100 levels.


I am sorry for boring you all out with those above introduction, I just had to do that.


What I am here to really ask about is, when we started off this relationship, there are some certain things she would not do in my presence due to the fact that we are just getting to know each other.


But within this last few months, she has been doing things that she would not do those days. i.e she farts in my presence, eats the way she would eat at home while any other girl would still be forming even after so many years of dating. Tells me stuff she would not say way back. I was even about taking a shower one day, I went into the bath tub, and she came in the bathroom and started using the toilet in my presence.


Now my main question is, with her doing all this, does it mean she is used to me? Into me? Most especially, if a girl does all this kind of things, does it simultaneously mean she loves u too?


Please answers will be gladly appreciated.

yes yes yes yes.

Congrats!!!!!!!

The pretender has left and her true self has shown up.

Now start evaluating her on this "new" person you have in front of you and forget everything you thought you knew about her before.

She feels safe enough around you to let the guard down and let you see the real her.

Rejoice my brotha you are no longer in the dark but have seen the light.

mgbada- what are you saying?

Look, if you keep asking these questions, then you are not ready to love.

SHE IS comfortable with you. If you were to marry her, the way she is currently behaving is the way you can expect her to behave if you are not depriving her of anything. so good for you. but relationships are complicated. always remember that