no hard feelings about this.but i`ve always wondered and i came to the conclusion that guys dont know what they want.they are just babies but the irony of it all is that they dont know and wld never accept. what do u think.when i get replies i`ll elaborate on the issue.

Hello scondy,

Please elaborate on the issue. We're waiting on you!

Seun.

Am a bit surprised @ your conclusion that guys will not accept your acertion.Why not?
NOw to the discurse.A number of guy no what they want and in most cases they go for it wholeheartedly.I wondn't say you gave this topic of dicurse out of experience but "whatever"
I for for person know fullywell what i need i found it,grab it and am still on it for the past 5 years.
thank you

this is no issue for discussion

some guys probably know what they want and some obviously dont. Like the kind of guys Efik_ibo, thoughs kind of guy dont really know what they want putting in mind that all guy are not the same. There are really some that have ambitions and know what they want in life and will not rest until they get it, some that are straight-headed.
i really think some guys know and some do not know what they really want.

Efik_ibo:
They want to get married to a "virgin" yet they the same one out there popping other people's future wife's cherry. They want a woman who is submissive, but then they in the same breath they don't like "weak" women. They want a woman who has mastered the art of Kamasutra 101, but once she starts showing u her skills, u hear him talk about ... oh she's a LovePeddler, but then if u don't... u get the usual... Nigeria girls are frigid and prudes.[/b] And they say they know wot they want?? Well my name is Halle Berry then

I just have to clap! You rock, girl.

Thanks for your contribution. I would like to conduct a start on how many guy married to a virgin.Note this,90 out of 100 girls got deflowered at between age 12 and 19.the issue of lost of virginity is a natural phenominon.Therefore, I would like everybody to remember the philosophy of human differences.

correction; I would like efik_ibo and not myself to conduct the stat i talked about.

thanks

well,i must admit that efik ibo really feels my gist.
most guys feel they know what they want and go for it but the real gist is that they actually dont know.an average guy if asked to describe his ideal woman wld rant on and on,but when it actually comes to confrontin such issues they are handicapped.the thing is, the ideal woman a guy wants in his thots actually bores him in real life cases.why?because guys haven`t realised one law to romance and love,which is...............THERE IS NO DESCRIPTION TO WHO U WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH.......it is something that flows and whatever that makes that person her/him is what u r fallin for not what u want or think he/she shd be.

>scondy<........If there is no discription of "who" to fall in love with, i believe there is discription for "who" to MARRY






THANKS.
It's me
ayourhinde

Some of them do know

scondy:

well,i must admit that efik ibo really feels my gist.
most guys feel they know what they want and go for it but the real gist is that they actually don't know.an average guy if asked to describe his ideal woman would rant on and on,but when it actually comes to confrontin such issues they are handicapped.the thing is, the ideal woman a guy wants in his thoughts actually bores him in real life cases.why?because guys haven`t realised one law to romance and love,which is, THERE IS NO DESCRIPTION TO WHO U WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH, [/b]it is something that flows and whatever that makes that person her/him is what you're fallin for not what u want or think he/she should be.

In real life, things happen differently than they are planned. Before I say any more, one question for you: How exactly does [b]your point that men have no description of who they want to fall in love with have anything to do with the fact that they are men? What makes your statement true?

No bcoz they still think with their head up their a s s

No cuz all that sounds in der Head when they see a gurl is SEX,SEX.SEX

jaybaby:

No because all that sounds in der Head when they see a girl is SEX,SEX.SEX

Yeah it probably holds true for all the guys you meet. . . those stupid guys. you're very unlucky.

Hmmmmmm & watz ur Prob Wit d guyz --Guess u r stupid afterall

maybe I am stupid. . . the odds are I'm not.

It's funny you're still bent on you assertion that ALL guys think sex whenever they look at you. You make a pathetic mind-reader.

Huh dnt srt with me-----This is wat i read ,hear,see waz ur stress Boi? Did U see me say it happens 2 me Even if thatz wat happens when they see me---waz ur PROB?

Chill girl.

i was only saying that for you to make a generalization that All guys think sex when they see a girl, you must be goin thru some really tough times with em.

ohhhhhh u r now goin dwn d way of CHILL GURL Ok 99%

I dont think there's anything wrong with me not wanting you to misunderstand me.

'njoy ur dumb self i'm off 2 my bed

jaybaby:

'njoy your dumb self i'm off 2 my bed

Good night wise one

Back to topic.

well, girls are more true to what they want no matter what pple say, but guys always want to conform to some societal norms.

No.

You See,,,, Guys Really Want Girls. But Girls Are Difficult To Know.

I Mean,,,,,,Understand. Therefore Guys Never Get To Know What They Really Want [Girls]

I Hope That Answers Your Question?

of course they do;
just dat the complexity of the women folks makes
him insecure,
mind u evry lady has got issues

you are a confused guy

Oh yes they do. . . The activities you as females see is the sifting exercise.

When they see it. The world can stop for all they care (Infact, the world WILL stop).