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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation by fromnigeria(m): 8:32pm On Feb 15, 2016
This counter thread is coming from the burning desire for correction.

Having read through www.nairaland.com/2935677/how-permanently-stop-masturbation-lessons/2#42952876
I discovered the poster deliberately overlooked and commonized what is indeed the solution to a spiritual problem.

This is the truth, As long as there is nothing like,
Allowing the spirit of God into
ones life
, the so called solution would worsen the situation.
I mean;
* How long would one not stay
alone. When you spend much chunk of hi or her time in a day alone.
* How long would you continue
to drink and pee. Etc
* He even adviced getting a girlfriend or patronzing brothels. hence encouraging fornication and Deceving gullible persons.
* My people, you can not stay away from porn with the devil incharge of your actions.


Final note:
Allowing God's spirit into ones
life is the permanent solution to masturbbatn.
Because once one has the spirit
of God. The evil spirit called
masturbation will never come
close.



Hope this make sense.
Re: Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation by Topestbilly(m): 8:42pm On Feb 15, 2016
Give a practical solutions not spiritual.
Re: Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation by fromnigeria(m): 8:45pm On Feb 15, 2016
Topestbilly:
Give a practical solutions not spiritual.
The only practical solution is to know God and receive the holy spirit.
Re: Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation by Topestbilly(m): 9:02pm On Feb 15, 2016
fromnigeria:
The only practical solution is to know God and receive the holy spirit.


There are things u don't understand about addiction. Even some ppl who goes to church every now and then ar also guilty of dis act.

To get someone off such act u need to outline d consequences.

You need to give steps d addicted pple need to take n at d middle of it u may introduce God words.
Re: Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation by Peritus(m): 9:05pm On Feb 15, 2016
Only the spirit of God does the job as you said. I was into it for close to twelve years (started around 15/16). I tried severally but to no avail. To tell you how bad it became, I can have sex with a gal just now and do it next minute while she's asleep.
Marriage does not stop it, it reduces it. Work or busy schedule does not stop it, it reduces it. It's only the spirit of God. One time last year, I prayed to God to give me the grace to surmount sin and bring me into life (not just because of masturbation but my yearning for his presence in my life). He did it, and now I live everyday in true reverence to God. It's not just about stopping masturbation but quitting sin and living by his grace.
NB: masturbation can generate crazy sexual fantasies like, homosexuality, bestiality, pedophilia, so be careful.

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Re: Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation by Peritus(m): 9:23pm On Feb 15, 2016
Topestbilly:


There are things u don't understand about addiction. Even some ppl who goes to church every now and then ar also guilty of dis act.

To get someone off such act u need to outline d consequences.

You need to give steps d addicted pple need to take n at d middle of it u may introduce God words.

No step can work for someone who is not ready to leave sin. One who is just tired of the guilt and lack of self control. Such person can only quit for a while and come back with Fuller force. To quit it, one needs a higher force.
Re: Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation by Topestbilly(m): 9:41pm On Feb 15, 2016
Peritus:

No step can work for someone who is not ready to leave sin. force.

I disagree with u on dat. I hav a friend who stopped dis act by listening to a radio program for just an hour cos d woman counselling or advising listeners who engage in such act never said anything about religion rather she picked out main points and callers were actually convinced.

You don't meet a counsellor on issues like this and he or she started telling you about God.
Re: Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation by fromnigeria(m): 10:27pm On Feb 15, 2016
Peritus:
Only the spirit of God does the job as you said. I was into it for close to twelve years (started around 15/16). I tried severally but to no avail. To tell you how bad it became, I can have sex with a gal just now and do it next minute while she's asleep.
Marriage does not stop it, it reduces it. Work or busy schedule does not stop it, it reduces it. It's only the spirit of God. One time last year, I prayed to God to give me the grace to surmount sin and bring me into life (not just because of masturbation but my yearning for his presence in my life). He did it, and now I live everyday in true reverence to God. It's not just about stopping masturbation but quitting sin and living by his grace.
NB: masturbation can generate crazy sexual fantasies like, homosexuality, bestiality, pedophilia, so be careful.
Thank God for his mercies.

May God give us the grace to believe, so we can be redeemed.
Re: Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation by fromnigeria(m): 10:31pm On Feb 15, 2016
Your friend changed perhaps because his conscious was a little alive. So whats conscience bro.

We can only do all things through Christ who strenghtens us. -- Philipians 4:13

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