UrbanMystique:
Mehhhh

You can't stop masturbation.. You can only distract yourself for a little while. Trust me you will still go back to it.
Its like double nicotine addict.

Masturbation will only end when you finally get married and both of you do it whenever you want it.

Only thing you can do is limit it. Like say once a day when you are about to sleep or may be thrice a week. That's possible to achieve with the methods you listed .

you are right man .is not just easy.unless you get married and stick to your wife.though if she just deliver u will be off for some month and you might give it a thought again/talking from experient

Kezifils:
30/12/2016

I thought I was the only one who saw that date 30/12/2016. So this guy is telling us that he still plan on masturbating at the aforementioned date abi? KWANTINU

Sanchase:
If you keep masturbating, one day you will discharge your brain cells.

you are right..... and too much of masturbation will lead you not to enjoy real sex, brain diseases like Parkinson's disease.

adren:

hope this helps!!

As long as there is nothing like, ''Allowing the spirit of God into your life''. This will never help.
1. How long would not stay alone.
2. How long would you continue to drink and pee. Etc
Allowing God's spirit into ones life is the permanent solution. Because once one has the spirit of God. The evil spirit called masturbation will not come close to you.


Hope this make sense.

Prayers is de only key to stop such.

Porn is the main thing that leads to MASTURBATION, From watching porn u will start growing that feeling of satisfying itself. But pray to God for total DELIVERANCE

Nche95:
xvideos and naijauncut, if only Government can block these two sites eh.. i remember when i vowed never to visit xvideos again, 1 hr later, i saw myself typing it into my browser....

lolz.. God qo help u o

adren:
i stormed on one guy's post asking to be saved from his guilt.. people never took him seriously.. someone went as far as suggesting he cut off his hand (just like wright's mom did on instagram).. NL can make you want to co.mit suicide without killing yourself.... lolssss


to everyone, this might be funny and hilarious but it is a thorn in a masturbator's flesh..

i want to share this solutions because i used to be one prominent member of the "masturbators association of nigeria- MAN" myself ( i was about to be voted as the vice president before i resigned)..

trust me, experience is the best teacher.. some would ask you to pray about it, some would even ask you to give your life to jesus .. bitter truth is, i once saw a painting of the mother of jesus- Mary, i found it sexy and i got a hard-on from it.. i had to masturbate at the next chance i got..

so.. this is about personal issues.. it is a disgrace because you don't wanna be caught by someone else (your prick go calm down instantly)..

enough of the stories.. these are what i did to stop it.. it wasn't easy but i am a living proof..




1. avoid been alone when you feel Hot: boys naturally have high libidos.. except one is impotent.. unless, it is bedtime, you dont wanna be caught left alone.. there is this spirit that pushes you to do it and you would have cvmmed long before u get back to your senses..

the best solution to this is looking for a public place with lots of crowd to interact with..

even the devil cannot give you enough liver needed to masturbate in public places.. go to a football viewing centre, a gaming centre, a bar etc..

2. desist from porn: the last time i masturbated, (30-12-2016) .. i was feeling lonely, idle and 'single'.. imagine a 23 year old without a gf!!
so.. i switched to my favourite porn site to watch the only thing that can satisfy my urge and get me so high to think masturbation is the only thing that could get me out of my fantasy..
i masturbated as usual but it was not business as usual..
then i thought to myself 'o boy, is this how you would keep living till the end of your days?? is this how you will continue into 2016?? at 23, you don't want to get a life??

mind if i tell you my readers, that my masturbation act got so bad that i could masturbate in an uncompleted building.. i'd just bend down like i want to defecate but emmmm...

so.. it was the last day i watched porn..

3. drink lots of water and pee everytime: for guys, peeing has a way of suppressing erections..
i need not talk much about this but it is the best and the most proven strategy to help stop it only if you want to..
when you feel that the devil is about to make a workshop out of your hand.. stand up almost immediately and go pee.. force out the pee if it won't come.. it is a sure bet that your joyatick is going to take a chill pill (500mg)..

4. get a girlfriend or pay for a one-night stand/quickie (olosho): this is a long-term solution.. i know myself.. even if i tried to stop masturbating, and i do not find a long term solution to my problem by looking for a "LASWMA" to leave my 'trash' for, my case might end up been like that girl in the bible whose demon was cast out and the demon went to invite seven others..

masturbation has a way of torturing sex freaks.. fortunately for me, i went to a party the first week of 2016 and that was where i met this fine girl.. she is from ondo and they are only second to calabar girls on "baddest nigerian babes list." if such thing exists..




on a final note.. i have only written this to inspire those who are battling with masturbation issues..

i dont know if ladies can utilise my 'tested and trusted' methods but i can use ayilala to swear that this will work for you 100%..

if you are bold enough.. without feeling stigmatised, share how u conquered it.
you would be helping a thousand others who are dying in silence.. and if you want to start stigmatising, think again because your relative is doing that shiiii right now..

and to etc.. this is plagiarism free and not "oyinbo man" recommended.. their ways are different from ours..

hope this helps!!

I thought u said u have stopped masturbating? so the last time u will masturbate is 30th of December this year. lol

OP, you are encouraging pre-marital sex!!!! Which is a sin against God and man ..."flee from fornication"...The best way is to understand that you are God's child. immorality is a craving desired by the flesh. As children of God, we no longer live in the flesh....because we kill the flesh daily....be born again, understand God's purpose for your life...God loves you

Nche95:
xvideos and naijauncut, if only Government can block these two sites eh.. i remember when i vowed never to visit xvideos again, 1 hr later, i saw myself typing it into my browser....

You just spoiled more lives by releasing these. By the way have u tried xhamster?

Make I book space though am not chronic,maybe twice in a week...sometimes 0 for 2 weeks

banttieman:


You just spoiled more lives by releasing these. By the way have u tried xhamster?

brother please, i don't want again. wish God could format my brain.. i don't want to remember these sites again

my apologies for the mix-up in the date highlighted in my write-up..

i last masturbated 30-12-2015..


"30-12-2016" was a typographical error and lalasticlala no give me second chance to debug it..

englishmart:
that has been the case for a long time

I know. I don't see why masturbation is such a dangerous word.

banttieman:


So u did not bookmark the website¿

bookmark? that's when i was a beginner, and lacked data. now i can download hundreds in 20 minutes, and delete them later

Nche95:
brother please, i don't want again. wish God could format my brain.. i don't want to remember these sites again

Lolz.... first get rid of your smartphone.

marshborn:

Naijauncut especially! That one should be banned permanently!

my brother, real naija mojo.. i won't be surprise if i see my neighbour's sextape or leakphoto there

Jesus delivers...... ..... There is power in the name of jesus to break the yoke of masturbation.

PasNina:
OP, thumbs up. I think the best method should be not staying alone. Again, avoiding porn videos. But above all efforts, praying ceaselessly to God for the grace and strength to conquer is VERY IMPORTANT.

praying lols

Nche95:
bookmark? that's when i was a beginner, and lacked data. now i can download hundreds in 20 minutes, and delete them later

Hard bought data na him u dey download and delete? I like you. You must be a PDP faithful

Shortyy:

Lmao

it ain't funny dear.. this is not ordinary.. village people must be at work

NigerianSHA:


I will be sure to check it out...OP only Teenagers masturbate in excess. . When I got a gf I stopped masturbating, also my sport activities drain my energy and leaves me fulfilled...sports and exercise might help too.

please don't o.. the things you will see there are very enticing

but why are these girls yelping like it's only men that masturbate? what about girls who do it cucumber, carrot and candlestick i know one in my former compound. she would hide in the toilet and drill her hole with anything long and straight. one day, i invited her to my crib and told her i got her a gift. she saw the cucumber and was shocked.

"what's that for?" i just laff am.

"what does it look like? i know this is one thing you love so much besides cooking. i saw a mallam selling it and thought you'd like it"

"so you've been peeping at me?"

"of course, i've been peeping at you, and i like it"

we ended up fvcking like idiots....but even after that, this ho still masturbated with the cucumbers while i watched.

morale: some are so addicted to masturbation even sex can't heal them

Nche95:
premarital sexx is better. mastabation steals ur happiness

you a self-servicer only a self-servicer can know dz

banttieman:


Hard bought data na him u dey download and delete? I like you. You must be a PDP faithful

no.. mtn bblited things

demosoft:

this topic is a very important topic because I know what it feels like to be in this bondage that evil urge to satisfy ur self sexually.I have been there before. Initially I thought there was no going back from it for me. But early this eayr after 10 days of fasting and praying session organized by my church i find myself free from it that urge no longer comes and I desist from things that may lead me to it
I took my prayer life seriously and read my bible everyday and I am getting to two months without that urge to masturbate. Me before na three times in a day for seven days. I thank God am no longer that man anymore. If u want to be free u must first of all come to terms with ur self. Tell ur self the truth that this is bondage and to be free from it u need to fight hard. God is there to help u as long as u are willing to say I am no longer that person. I will be writing on the steps in my book Freedom from Addiction. A step to freedom

Nche95:
it ain't funny dear.. this is not ordinary.. village people must be at work

banttieman:


Lolz.... first get rid of your smartphone.

i can't bro.. it's my bro and best friend. the source of my joy...

ipledge10:
you a self-servicer only a self-servicer can know dz

ya.. an active member of M.A.N. Anambra chapter

avalontony:
Jesus delivers...... ..... There is power in the name of jesus to break the yoke of masturbation.

Story.

Seriously its very simple to rid urself of the habit. I was a chronic self servicer too. Only two things saved me.

One i got a job that hardly gives me tym to even brush my hair. But then the restroom was still suitable when theres less work being a bachelor.

Second is to get married. That is d best way ever. after a tough day at work, well wasted, my wife will simply touch me and i will get mad at her. I dont even remember when last i laid with wifey how much more self service.

It is in truth for idle people.

This is a very nice informative and educative write-up... You did a very good job here@OP..Keep it up ;DThis is a very nice informative and educative write-up... You did a very good job here@OP..Keep it up

People keep saying stop watching porn or being alone.. Lol.. The number one cause is network.. Once there is no Internet service ur half way there.. Lol