The rate of Babymamas in Nigeria is fast growing at a shocking rate, coupled with the fact that is an imported culture.
Back then, when a girl gets pregnant while in her father's house without a husband, the girl will be hiding from Public inorder to avoid public glares, opinions and mockery.
1.But now, many ladies are proudly aiming to be a babymama for the guy in a relationship with them, with an aim to tie him him down for marriage, most of the time it Fails woefully.
2. Some Guys want a babymama inorder to bypass the pressure of getting married.
According to them, "they have a babymama, a child, no marriage, So Flirting all the Way.
- Nigeria Ladies, let us reject this rampant strange culture called Babymama, our Mothers rejected it, the got married and had us.
- And to guys, if you truely love a girl, Put a ring on that finger, and don't send her to maternity without a wedding ring.
Thankz.

It's a two way thing! Guys wish to make enough before settling down,others wish to enjoy life to the fullest before total commitment. Ladies on the other hand ain't getting any younger hence the desperation! However being a baby mama is the wrongest choice any lady should ever go for.

Lalaclasilala can this make front page, so that matured minds can give their opinion. Thankz

Jadekitana:
It's a two way thing! Guys wish to make enough before settling down,others wish to enjoy life to the fullest before total commitment. Ladies on the other hand ain't getting any younger hence the desperation! However being a baby mama is the wrongest choice any lady should ever go for.

thank you sis.
Even now, some Guys use it to threaten ladies in a relationship, be a babymama or its over.
Pressure can be a factor here.

Because the love of material things among women is growing and the level at which all these male celebrities reason with their d!ck is alarming.

As u come ask me now, Na who u want make I ask?


E dey pain u or what?

I don't think one should have rules on how to live their life to the fullest unless you talking about culture which has held Africa down since time immemorial.

cruzita:
Because the love of material things among women is growing and the level at which all these male celebrities reason with their d!ck is alarming.

thankz 4 the contribution.
Some ladies are desperados and most of these tymes, the babymama is dumped for a fresh "honeypot" for marriae.

akoladejesu:
As u come ask me now, Na who u want make I ask?



E dey pain u or what?

awwww, is that all u can say?

aaronson:
I don't think one should have rules on how to live their life to the fullest unless you talking about culture which has held Africa down since time immemorial.

Babymama is Unafrican.

Brb

Adaure4ever:
Babymama is Unafrican.

which Is why i wrote "Culture has held Africa back since time immemorial" for crying out loud, baby mama or no baby, procreation still would take place so what's the fuss?

There is a popular mod here that people love mentioning in a thread, I don't know his exact name, something like Min14 or Myy4 .

Jadekitana:
It's a two way thing! Guys wish to make enough before settling down,others wish to enjoy life to the fullest before total commitment. Ladies on the other hand ain't getting any younger hence the desperation! However being a baby mama is the wrongest choice any lady should ever go for.

my crush

Cos most girls have fish brain n dey reason wit their anus

There is nothing wrong with a babymama.

Africans and culture.

because, girls want child support, but they forgot this is naija.



Guys always think that the only thing that can lead them into marriage (bondage) is children, and since they can get one or two outside wedluck, they could just relax and enjoy themselves, make more money, pay child support and every one is fvcking happy @ d end. @least I am one of the guys that thinks like that, weird I guess.

it just seems like abstinence is the best men, but it's just really difficult, like really really difficult.

I can't imagine impregnating some girl out of wedlock, I don't need all that drama in my life men, especially when there's already Netflix

Its the new world order and you b1tiches need to calm your fragile heart down! Its a mans world not yours to dictate, after all you females live breath dress and act to please us right? So we choose what b1tch to be with. If you can't be a babymama you should go find a help with dildos for reproduction.

Adaure4ever:
awwww, is that all u can say?

?

money money money

Adaure4ever:
The rate of Babymamas in Nigeria is fast growing at a shocking rate, coupled with the fact that is an imported culture.
Back then, when a girl gets pregnant while in her father's house without a husband, the girl will be hiding from Public inorder to avoid public glares, opinions and mockery.
1.But now, many ladies are proudly aiming to be a babymama for the guy in a relationship with them, with an aim to tie him him down for marriage, most of the time it Fails woefully.
2. Some Guys want a babymama inorder to bypass the pressure of getting married.
According to them, "they have a babymama, a child, no marriage, So Flirting all the Way.
- Nigeria Ladies, let us reject this rampant strange culture called Babymama, our Mothers rejected it, the got married and had us.
- And to guys, if you truely love a girl, Put a ring on that finger, and don't send her to maternity without a wedding ring.
Thankz.

Am planning to babymamarise you....and the poster below...

Op av u heard

Ive a baby by me baby b a millionaira?

If its not making money its nt making sense?
Children are d heritage of God's kingdom?

But now children are d heritage of their moda for her to indirectly in herit d children's father kingdom of wealth

Adaure4ever:
Babymama is Unafrican.

nice and marvellous post so far, Adaure4ever please just reply my pm once again...wit your digit no.

smithsydny:
my crush

be crushing on a dude. I pity you

gals nowadays have no shame!....dey can do anything cos of money and fame!....dey don't care if dey birthed a dozen children so far as u are wealthy and famous!



advice mostly should go for d ladies!....abegi make una try close leg!

Husband scarce oooo.

Adaure4ever:
The rate of Babymamas in Nigeria is fast growing at a shocking rate, coupled with the fact that is an imported culture.
Back then, when a girl gets pregnant while in her father's house without a husband, the girl will be hiding from Public inorder to avoid public glares, opinions and mockery.
1.But now, many ladies are proudly aiming to be a babymama for the guy in a relationship with them, with an aim to tie him him down for marriage, most of the time it Fails woefully.
2. Some Guys want a babymama inorder to bypass the pressure of getting married.
According to them, "they have a babymama, a child, no marriage, So Flirting all the Way.
- Nigeria Ladies, let us reject this rampant strange culture called Babymama, our Mothers rejected it, the got married and had us.
- And to guys, if you truely love a girl, Put a ring on that finger, and don't send her to maternity without a wedding ring.
Thankz.

1. baes are not loyal, you better get insurance (put her belle) to be sure of your investments, else she go chop you go marry another man.

2. Na the baes open legs, if they don't open, there will be no baby mamas

3. Some baes purposely get pregnant to pin down a guy, because they believe the guy will marry them

4. Baes are after material things and financial security, no decent guy would put a lady in a family way without going through proper processes, even if it happens, he would hurriedly pay dowry and plan for a wedding before the baby is born.

5. baes want to be popular, do you know what getting pregnant for celebrity means, ahhhhh if you are lucky like Annie you end up as the wife in the end …

6. baes don't remind boo to wear condoms, yes It is the responsibility of ladies to ensure that the guy wears condom, if him no gree, no open your hornypot


now you may be thinking why am Blaming ladies

seun, farano this thread deserves fp

we have copied western values, lifestyle, gender equality BS and empowerment. and the result is many woman will never want to be under any man afterall dey can take care of them selves. in d west , marriage is now rare, babymama tins is d norm , @op some babes her hv done abortion some guys here hv also paid for abortion. are they any better dan d so called baby mama

Adaure4ever:
Babymama is Unafrican.

who african culture don help . in various banks, offices etc there are ladies over 35 nd still single wat do u suggest dey do keep waiting till menopause nd lose out on kids nd husband. cos have noticed guys over 30 are getting married to gals 22-26. so wat shud those over 35 do.