Is been 1yr since i broke up wit my ex yet i still hv strong feelings 4 him. I ve tried datin again but i culdnt, i dnt knw wt 2 do again, cos it didnt take me long to get over my past relationships. am so confused n scared, i dnt wnt to be alone 4 d rest of lyf because of dis.am still 2 young 2 waste my lyf cos of one guy. I nid help oo i rly nid help nairalanders.

topup?

Why post your pix? Abi you dey advertise?

Godmother are you my future wife?

@ C2H50H
Lol.Wait let me consult the Holy Spirit

kit,
break ups are different from break ups.  umm, I guess perhaps in your other relationships you have been the dumper?  Which maybe allowed you more time to actually distance yourself emotionally from the dumpees before you dumped them?

It could be that in this said relationship you let your guard down and allowed too much of your electrons to bond with too much of the protons from the guy.  When this happens the bond is really strong and hard to sever.


The good news is that you will get over it, albeit in a longer time period than you got over the other ones.

If you are currently in contact with the guy you broke up with, I would advise you to halt all contact with him.  Give yourself a chance to get over him before attempting to be friends or whatever with him.  Gl

Consult the Holy Spirit, consult mami water, consult whatever you want to consult. He no go stop me from asking the question.

If a single, decent guy like myself came in contact with you, best believe I would pitch it to you.

I understand you're not interested, but that doesn't stop me from admiring you.

Gee thanks . Im blushing,already.

@C2H5OH, Thanks but in dis case i did d leaving(i lyk to call it dumping) unlyk d others dats y am confused. I ve stopped communicatin wit him since yet its nt helpin issues.
@godmother, am nt advertising, i just used dt pix 2 c if my new software uploads pix 4rm phone to d internet n it workd, i hv bin tryin 2 remove it i cnt. Besides if i wntd 2 advertise i wuld hv put a full pix ok.

kitlady02:

@C2H5OH, Thanks but in dis case i did d leaving(i lyk to call it dumping) unlyk d others dats y am confused. I ve stopped communicatin wit him since yet its nt helpin issues.
@godmother, am nt advertising, i just used dt pix 2 c if my new software uploads pix 4rm phone to d internet n it workd, i hv bin tryin 2 remove it i cnt. Besides if i wntd 2 advertise i wuld hv put a full pix ok.

May be u should think of the reason why u broke up with him since you were the one that did so. Also, nothing wrong if you want to post/advertise ur picture, it is a free world.

@C2H5OH, Thanks but in dis case i did d leaving(i lyk to call it dumping) unlyk d others dats y am confused. I ve stopped communicatin wit him since yet its nt helpin issues.
@godmother, am nt advertising, i just used dt pix 2 c if my new software uploads pix 4rm phone to a website n it workd, i hv bin tryin 2 remove it i cnt. Besides if i wntd 2 advertise i wuld hv put a full pix ok.

@sexychic, d reason we broke up is cos he was goin 2 jand n i cnt cope wit dat kind of distance so i suggestd we broke up. Is dat enof reason?

kitlady02:

@sexychic, d reason we broke up is cos he was goin 2 jand n i cnt cope wit dat kind of distance so i suggestd we broke up. Is dat enof reason?

I can now understand why u still have feelings for him, but since u cannot cope with the long distance thing, i'm sorry to say which i'm sure some people would advise u to do is to try and move on. With time I;m sure, everything will come to place when u don't see each other for long. it has happened to me, an ex of mine, so much in love, he travelled to canada, i thought my world was crashing but hey before i knew it, it had already faded, we are even friends.

kitlady02:

@C2H5OH, Thanks but in dis case i did d leaving(i lyk to call it dumping) unlyk d others dats y am confused. I ve stopped communicatin wit him since yet its nt helpin issues.
@godmother, am nt advertising, i just used dt pix 2 c if my new software uploads pix 4rm phone to d internet n it workd, i hv bin tryin 2 remove it i cnt. Besides if i wntd 2 advertise i wuld hv put a full pix ok.

That a beautiful pix. Please dont remove it.

i know why u are still feeling him, its cos u have not really met someone whoes koko is sweater than his
come try me you go agree say nolongthing

why post your pic? I think we hold onto past relationships when there’s some unfinished business. Could it be that there was something you wanted to say, that you didn’t say. Like stay, or sorry, etc It’s never too late to say these things, or send them in a letter, or just write them.

maybe

@sexychic, i guess ur right.
@gudmother, tanx. I tink ur funny.
@sexyleamon, u tink so? pls enlighten.
@jlee, may God hv mercy on u
@biola44, maybe wat?

It'l be better if u can 4get abt him coz if u try go back 2 him, he'l surely take advantage of u. So 4get him, 4 not 2 4get him. Op understood?

@baabs, am nt even dreaming of goin bk cos i dnt wnt 2. But i dnt undastand ur last sentence.

kitlady02:

@sexychic, i guess ur right.
@gudmother, tanx. I tink ur funny.
@sexyleamon, u tink so? pls enlighten.@jlee, may God hv mercy on u
@biola44, maybe wat?

what I mean is that, maybe there is something you still want to tell him, or you did something bad to him and now you can't get over him.

@sexyleamon,mmmmm i c. Tanx, dis is very useful.
Well abt my pix, hw do i remove it b4 up 2 ten pple ask me same question.

kitlady02:

@sexyleamon,mmmmm i c. Tanx, dis is very useful.
Well abt my pix, hw do i remove it b4 up 2 ten pple ask me same question.

go to modify, and then check down the attachment box and delete the link.