Is there a such thing as being "Single" ?
Does it mean No bf/hubby, No sex, No nothing
Or Not being in a commited r/s but still sexually active?

ask google!

Lol!!! I wanna knw wt it means 2 u,

No husband. . . .B/f. . . .'Bed mate'!!

not being in a commited r/s,

Missy B:

No husband. . . .B/f. . . .'Bed mate'!!

Do you know why I'm asking this?
This other guy said being single to him means he is not in a commited r/s but he does have sex partners.
And I realise that most people will say they are single but not really single.

biola44:

not being in a commited r/s,

But in some kind of r/s?

It simply means one is not an Hermaphrodite.

sexybabes:

Do you know why I'm asking this?
This other guy said being single to him means he is not in a commited r/s but he does have sex partners.
And I realise that most people will say they are single but not really single.

Uhrrmm. . . . My idea of being single is:

Missy B:

No husband. . . .B/f. . . .'Bed mate'!!

I think if One isn't in a commited r/s. . . .One can just say ''It's complicated''.

being single in my book means that there is nobody important to whom i have to answer to. so all the lovers/booty calls wouldnt count.
having some bed mates that you dont answer to is like being single just without the sex starvation and the occasional outing.

to diff pips diff meaning.
to me its simply being not in a r/s but yes can have sex partners.

sexybabes:

But in some kind of r/s?

maybe, cos it's a 2 way thing
someone not in a committed r/s and sexually unactive is single(my idea of being single) and
someone not in a committed r/s but committed 2 "whores" also single

single means'not answerable to anyone at the moment',

Ben20001:

It simply means one is not an Hermaphrodite.

Now that the word I think i shud google as biola44 said, Lol!!!

MRbrownJAY:

being single in my book means that there is nobody important to whom i have to answer to. so all the lovers/booty calls wouldnt count.
having some bed mates that you dont answer to is like being single just without the sex starvation and the occasional outing.

izeek:

to diff pips diff meaning.
to me its simply being not in a r/s but yes can have sex partners.

Guyz why not say you in an open r/s.
BTW do the sex partners know that they are just sex partners or they think they are in a r/s with you?

those saying not answerable to anyone.
do u have a consistent sexual partner, or u swing?

biola44:

maybe, cos it's a 2 way thing
someone not in a committed r/s and sexually unactive is single(my idea of being single) and
someone not in a committed r/s but committed 2 "whores" also single

This your definition is too funny especially the highlighted. Lol!!
How can be commited 2 LovePeddler & still be single?

sexybabes:

This your definition is too funny especially the highlighted. Lol!!
How can be commited 2 LovePeddler & still be single?

commited 2 LovePeddler means strictly business

single means not in a relationship whether it is a gf/bf or husband/wife

having sex withsomeone you are not in a relationship with is not single it is a LovePeddler/manwhore, slut, skank, hoe, harlot take your pick

maybe

agathamari:

single means not in a relationship whether it is a gf/bf or husband/wife

having sex withsomeone you are not in a relationship with is not single it is a LovePeddler/manwhore, slut, skank, hoe, harlot take your pick

Lol! Isn't that harsh? They call them friends with benefits,

sexybabes:

Guyz why not say you in an open r/s.
BTW do the sex partners know that they are just sex partners or they think they are in a r/s with you?

being in an open relationship means that you do all the things couples do just without the commitment. a fwb/booty call is there only for sexual gratification and should know that this is what it is. if we only have sex then we definitely are NOT in an open relationship. you should always let a person know what "deal" you are into so that they dont mistakingly think that there is some relationship going on. some women can see some bedroom acrobatics as a declaration of love so better put them at their place very early one and TELL THEM.

MRbrownJAY:

being in an open relationship means that you do all the things couples do just without the commitment. a fwb/booty call is there only for sexual gratification and should know that this is what it is. if we only have sex then we definitely are NOT in an open relationship. you should always let a person know what "deal" you are into so that they dont mistakingly think that there is some relationship going on. some women can see some bedroom acrobatics as a declaration of love so better put them at their place very early one and TELL THEM.

Yhooo, & they still agree?
I wudn't,

sexybabes:

Yhooo, & they still agree?
I wudn't,

well it all depends on what people are looking for in life.i guess you are different and there is nothing wrong with that. not all women wants to go through the troubles and hustles of relationships. also some women havent met the right guy to date and would rather have lovers/booty calls/fwb than to invest their time and energy on some guy that wasnt what they were looking for.
should they sexually starve themselves because they havent found the right guy yet? should they stop being sexually satisfied just because they havent found the right BF yet?
I say to each their own

People get mixed up when they ask the wrong questions.

If I am asked 'are you single?' my answer is NO because I am not married.

This is completely different from 'do you have a girlfriend?' or 'are you seeing anyone right now?' which is the direct way of asking a question.

If you want to take it further, ask 'are you sleeping with anyone?'

By asking DIRECT questions, you can avoid being deceived.

Make no assumptions, ask the right questions and you'll be ok.

@sexybabes,
being in an open relationship still means ur heart has to be involved.
but when u have sex partners, sometimes its directly saying look its just for the fun and dats it.
but the question of a constant sex partner now comes in.
to me its no longer a case of being single, cos the aim of heart involvemnt has been defeated.

debosky:

If I am asked 'are you single?' my answer is NO because I am not married.

shouldnt that be YES?

@mrbrownjay,
well debosky seems confused or better still him don jayup.

@izeek
I still find it difficult 2 undstnd hw u cn 1 be sexually involved wit 1 & stil nt be emotionally involved wit that person or evn hv feeling for.
Mayb im bein naive.

@debosky
The fact that 1 is nt married dsnt make 1 single by default.
U cn be in a r/s & stil u nt married.

Will like to know oo make ona contribute jare

sexybabes:

@izeek
I still find it difficult 2 undstnd hw u cn 1 be sexually involved wit 1 & stil nt be emotionally involved wit that person or evn hv feeling for.
Mayb im bein naive.
@debosky
The fact that 1 is nt married dsnt make 1 single by default.
U cn be in a r/s & stil u nt married.

Agree with you. I'm also trying to understand that aspect. I've got to have some kind or atom of emotions towards a man before I could sleep with him willingly of course if it's not rape but I guess people are different.


@ Debosky, I don't agree you don't have to be married not to be tagged as being single. Once you are in a committed relationship, you are not single during that period.

well its qiute easy for a guy to sleep with a babe with no attachement.
but most cases i have cometo realise that the girls actually have some level of feeling for the guy,
or its monetary concern.
either way, ladies dont gointo something without some level of benefit.
emotional or optherwise.

spot on!