falconey:
Had that experience 6years ago, i found out after we had sex.


seriously i cant date a baby mama talk of marry her, common she is a BABY MAMA!!!!!! someone's mother.

SMH ! The woman you will marry will not give birth I guess? What a man!

oriflamebaby1:


SMH ! The woman you will marry will not give birth I guess? What a man!

thats a different scenario, my wife my burden.

falconey:


thats a different scenario, my wife my burden.

The likes of you starts looking out after your wife has given birth, change your mindset

oriflamebaby1:


The likes of you starts looking out after your wife has given birth, change your mindset

hw are u ?



u re such a beautiful damsel. I love the shape of ur lips n I will be glad if I can feel the warmth of ur lips

Well...

If she cannot be honest about her own child what else is she hiding? Women complain that there are no men out there but if you lack the basic principles of a relationship hoensty being one of them then it's going to be difficult for someone to trust you. I know of a woman who calls her daughter, her sister. She cannot understand why one guy broke an engagement with her and the other is not really committing. All because they found out from other people she has a 15 year old daughter. Let a guy have choice in terms of deciding. Rather than blackmail him with "I was worried you would leave me". This is not a very good start to a relationship.

she isn't honest enof...she shld hv told u frm d onset...is she ashamed of her baby ..
well if u can deal with a baby mama n baby daddy's drama.. go ahead. ..ppl r talking abt baby's mama's drama...hv u ever xperience a baby dady' drama....omo dat one is d hardest ooo...xpecially wen d baby's dad is an irrespnsible tout...u go fyt taya till u die of HBP...just knw that d irresponsible dad will come 4 d child one day...na dat time ur pain go start...d mom will start running here n dere...they'll start havin secret meetings n discussion abt their child...omo e nor easy ooo...because in most cases d girl normally goes bk 2 d baby's dad if he comes bk begging...i no go tell u lie...u may suffer emotionally...but de say love conquer it all...so if u hv d energy...u can go ahead...
4me i can't. ..unless d baby daddy is dead...my opinion though....
LOVE IS A B!TCH...u can do anything 4 love..

Yes it is
Especially in NIGeria

You think its part of our culture to be having babies without man or marriage or stability .. If its not y do alot of wayward chics go n abort if its ok to be single mum

Pls dont give bad advice

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You r on point. It is a stigma

If u love her marry her.