I couldn't believe my ears when he said it to me. I have been dating for a year now with this guy.

I am slightly more financially stable than him and I take care of myself very well. I was just discussing generally about marriage and he got a little bit annoyed and said that I should propose to him since I like to do everything myself.

Is it because I like to buy him gifts and I don't wait for him to spend money on me? Help me out on this one.

what's the big in woman proposing to man??

babe u r playing a fast one on him na.. so tell us the truth! When a lady discusses abt marriage with her boyfrnd too soon, she is either desperate or hideous...


Look, you are not d one to bring up the marriage discussion, dats his job! Period! So he has every right to create Dat drama..

For those wanting to quote me, just knw this, my Fvck went out.

As u said,u r more financial stable than him but that's not the key to a man's heart..do not involve ur money to ur relationship otherwise it wud look like u buying his love & that piercing his ego..

Juz chill & laid back..let him do his thing & don't let him feel he is under pressure.

Cutehector:
babe u r playing a fast one on him na.. so tell us the truth! When a lady discusses abt marriage with her boyfrnd too soon, she is either desperate or hideous...


Look, you are not d one to bring up the marriage discussion, dats his job! Period! So he has every right to create Dat drama..

For those wanting to quote me, just knw this, my Fvck went out.

chop knuckle! Well said

No big deal...this is change era

KashyBaby:
As u said,u r more financial stable than him but that's not the key to a man's heart..do not involve ur money to ur relationship otherwise it wud look like u buying his love & that piercing his ego..

Juz chill & laid back..let him do his thing & don't let him feel he is under pressure.

a swear you get sense if no be because i don marry i for marry you

Ahmed0336:
a swear you get sense if no be because i don marry i for marry you

Huh! Saaaaaaay what?

Cutehector:
babe u r playing a fast one on him na.. so tell us the truth! When a lady discusses abt marriage with her boyfrnd too soon, she is either desperate or hideous...


Look, you are not d one to bring up the marriage discussion, dats his job! Period! So he has every right to create Dat drama..

For those wanting to quote me, just knw this, my Fvck went out.

Okay. I disagree. Isn't marriage meant for 2 people? Why can't I bring up the marriage discussion

He said well, go ahead and propose.

Afterall, ladies of this generation are seriously fighting for gender equality.

Everything these days is all obout ladies;

soon men will be regarded as second class being with amout of pressure ladies are mouting for equality.

As if man no dey get problem too..

Mtcheeew..

[quote author=Cutehector post=43575401] babe u r playing a fast one on him na.. so tell us the truth! When a lady discusses abt marriage with her boyfrnd too soon, she is either desperate or hideous...


Look, you are not d one to bring up the marriage discussion, dats his job! Period! So he has every right to create Dat drama..

For those wanting to quote me, just knw this, my Fvck went out.[/quote).

KashyBaby:
As u said,u r more financial stable than him but that's not the key to a man's heart..do not involve ur money to ur relationship otherwise it wud look like u buying his love & that piercing his ego..

Juz chill & laid back..let him do his thing & don't let him feel he is under pressure.

I don't oppress him or put him under pressure. I don't think that I have ever made it an issue with money. I always tell him before I get anything and he is usually okay with it.

yrret:
He said well, go ahead and propose.

Afterall, ladies of this generation are seriously fighting for gender equality.

Everything these days is all obout ladies;

soon men will be regarded as second class being with amout of pressure ladies are mouting for equality.

As if man no dey get problem too..

Mtcheeew..

Take it easy, please. A woman can propose but our Nigerian culture does not allow it

Go ahead and don't forget to pay his bride price too.

Stupedinluv:
Go ahead and don't forget to pay his bride price too.

Should I also make him pregnant? lol

Born2Freak:




I don't oppress him or put him under pressure. I don't think that I have ever made it an issue with money. I always tell him before I get anything and he is usually okay with it.

For u it cud not be an issue but what abt him? U shud ask him what's the real issue why he told u that u shud better be the one to propose since this is what u wanted to happen..

Ok, but there is madness going on that what a man can do, a woman can do better. So u can even do the better proposal than the guy self


who run the world .......... Girls

There's nothing wrong in that. You are even lucky he asked you to do that.

Born2Freak:


Okay. I disagree. Isn't marriage meant for 2 people? Why can't I bring up the marriage discussion

Since you can bring up the discussion even when ur man hasn't brought it up, then why don't you just go ahead and propose to him??

Maybe You think because you are more financially stable, you should take the lead and bold steps right??

I support him, you must propose to him or forget it!!

Born2Freak:




I don't oppress him or put him under pressure. I don't think that I have ever made it an issue with money. I always tell him before I get anything and he is usually okay with it.

.

Ab025:


Since you can bring up the discussion even when ur man hasn't brought it up, then why don't you just go ahead and propose to him??

Maybe You think because you are more financially stable, you should take the lead and bold steps right??

I support him, you must propose to him or forget it!!

.

olihilistic:
what's the big in woman proposing to man??

I wonder o my Bro...

nma24:
I don't see anything bad in a woman proposing to man. Its kinda cute and defies the archaic social expectations. I wonder when we Nigerians will drop this cultural and moral shackles and open up our minds to new developments

did u even read waht she wrote? He asked her to propose to him na.. she was highly furious.. u r just twisting the whole thing!

Born2Freak:


Okay. I disagree. Isn't marriage meant for 2 people? Why can't I bring up the marriage discussion

babe read my comments again! U brought it up too soon.. I wrote Dat didn't I? I ddnt say d girlfrnd shouldt bring it up, ur problem was Dat u brought it up too soon! There is time for everything abeg. U dnt hav to rush into marriage na, it's something Dat takes a careful study. Instead u should make him see reasons why he should put a ring on ur finger instead of forcing him to see reasons why he should dump u.

KashyBaby:
As u said,u r more financial stable than him but that's not the key to a man's heart..do not involve ur money to ur relationship otherwise it wud look like u buying his love & that piercing his ego..

Juz chill & laid back..let him do his thing & don't let him feel he is under pressure.

Then why do you expect us guys to involve money in it..rubbish

lakesguy:
I wonder o my Bro...

if girl propose to me I go do shakara small sha

Propose na pls buy chanel hand ker chief should incase he cries

Cos na who dey recieve ring they cry pass

Just let him be maybe he's feeling intimidated.

9ja4show:


Then why do you expect us guys to involve money in it..rubbish

Lol...as if u have money to spend on ur chic... u got a big mouth with empty pocket.

KashyBaby:



Lol...as if u have money to spend on ur chic... u got a big mouth with empty pocket.

I didn't know you were dangote's daughter biitch

9ja4show:


I didn't know you were dangote's daughter biitch

before u called someone a bitch remind urself who the hell are u? U so loud trying to defend ur lousy ego & an old broke ass nigga with a big mouth...


Truth hurts tho! And besides u even "share" ur own quotes..that's disgusting.

KashyBaby:




before u called someone a bitch remind urself who the hell are u? U so loud trying to defend ur lousy ego & an old broke ass nigga with a big mouth...


Truth hurts tho! And besides u even "share" ur own quotes..that's disgusting.

I am sure you are very ugly and broke who depend on guys for a living