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My Relationships Don't Last by bhibbi2644: 10:06am On Mar 08, 2016
Hello peeps, have been in dis place for a while and have been reading people's story n d cool as advice that's been offered tu them.
My name is Chioma and am 21yrs old, am in 300L in d university. my relationships don't seems tu last long, reasons been dat i don't buy d idea of having sex in a relationship, have dated abt 3 guys now n they all seem tu b asking for that same thing sex. am still a virgin and i see my virginity as d best gift for my husband on our wedding night. When my ex (d guy I dated last) was asking me out, I told him about this sex issue and he was like he isn't dating me because of sex, dat he wants tu date me because he loves d way i reason stuffs with him, that I always find solution to his prob. n because he loves me aswell. We dated for about two weeks and he started asking for sex. when i told him having sex with is gonna b last thing i would do, he started avoiding me. He does not pick my calls, he hardly reply my chats and others. Am really inlove with this guy, and tried my best not tu bother him for any financial issue. I was so free with this guy, to d extend that I sometimes give him my ATM card tu withdraw money for himself whenever he runs out cash...I dont really know wat have done to deserve this shit from him.
pls NL, can I really be in a relationship without sex
Re: My Relationships Don't Last by Hunger: 10:07am On Mar 08, 2016
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Re: My Relationships Don't Last by sinaj(f): 10:09am On Mar 08, 2016
I was so free with this guy, to d extend that I sometimes give him my ATM card tu withdraw money for himself whenever he runs out cash..

Like seriously undecided


Btw, you should try nd find out if Itz jux the sex ish daz causing d breakup or ur character or some other thing.


Serzly I dunno ow to help you, you can look for an elderly person to talk to, maybe ur pastor or...
Re: My Relationships Don't Last by Nobody: 10:13am On Mar 08, 2016
You're in school. Everything will always be about sex. Get yourself some life goals rather than looking for love undecided
Re: My Relationships Don't Last by ILOVEFOOD: 10:16am On Mar 08, 2016
Ur v is ur pride, there's nothing wrong with wanting 2 keep it intact

Yes it cn still b kept till u get married

Forget d guy move on if u r damn crious smiley
Re: My Relationships Don't Last by jmichlins(m): 10:17am On Mar 08, 2016
Apart from your virginity do you have any other thing to offer to a man. Am not talking about boys cause you seem to be meeting only boys. Virginity is a one night thing and life will continue afterward so if you just think that your being a virgin will keep a man, think again. Real men know what am talking about

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Re: My Relationships Don't Last by Kondomatic(m): 10:45am On Mar 08, 2016
Do you really need a boyfriend

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Re: My Relationships Don't Last by Luckygurl(f): 11:08am On Mar 08, 2016
embarassed embarassed
Awwww!! grin grin

I can bet this is all this school relationship palava grin
Bae, biko stay out of relationships for now if you're hell bent on this no sex thing.
I've come to the realization that no sex relationships are pure scam, atleast to an extent grin

Nothing is wrong with you, stick to what you believe.
Don't let anyone dissuade you
At the right time, someone who sees things from the same perspective as you will come along.

Fvck relationships
Fvck sexxx
Till you think it's time wink wink

Besides work on been a better person, there's more to life than relationships and sexx kiss

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