SeanT21:

~~and it takes 7 days just to wrap your arms around her.

nah! i have been practicing

TheSeeker:

Oyinda, does it mean if a pastor kisses his wife in public he's a freak too? What about if a pastor does his wife anal? What if the wife sucks the pastor up? Is that being freaky too?

if the pastor is preaching against these things in the church or disapproves of it, he shouldn't be doing it. otherwise, that's hypocrisy.but i can only give my opinion though. considering u saw nothing wrong in stealing -from ur convo with sweetdoc.

but not all conservatives are freaks behind doors though. lol many men don't do anal or act crazy behind doors. that's why i said some. and one man's sexual fantasy is repulsive to the next (ex some men who are turned on by feet, anal sex etc) anyway.

but usually on boards like this where there's anonymity, ppl say stuff n u wonder lol (ie someone who would denounce a naija girl for wearing a little revealing shirt, mini skirts or copying oyinbo etc n then saying naija girls aren't as good in bed. etc that just sound funny n closet freakish to me.)
like someone who will mess around n then look for homely girl to take to mama.

i thought u and na2day will be up on each other's neck by now over the girl who wants a piercing down there

oyinda.:

i thought u and na2day will be up on each other's neck by now over the girl who wants a piercing down there

nah, unlike u we think things through

oyinda.:

if the pastor is preaching against these things in the church or disapproves of it, he shouldn't be doing it. otherwise, that's hypocrisy.but i can only give my opinion though. considering u saw nothing wrong in stealing -from ur convo with sweetdoc.

but not all conservatives are freaks behind doors though. lol many men don't do anal or act crazy behind doors. that's why i said some. and one man's sexual fantasy is repulsive to the next  (ex some men who are turned on by feet, anal sex etc) anyway.

but usually on boards like this where there's anonymity, ppl say stuff n u wonder lol (ie someone who would denounce a naija girl for wearing a little revealing shirt, mini skirts or copying oyinbo etc n then saying naija girls aren't as good in bed. etc that just sound funny n closet freakish to me.)
like someone who will mess around n then look for homely girl to take to mama.

i thought u and na2day will be up on each other's neck by now over the girl who wants a piercing down there 

Thank you jare i sincerely do not know wetin some men dey look for inside shit hole. Men perversion is really something else. Haba, women already have what you need why the heck are they going to the shit hole. The thing tire me o.

Western culture is so bleeped up because on one hand they want to stop femal genital mutilation (which i completely support) one the other hand they/some are mutilating their own clitoris with different kind of piercings. Nna na wa o  wonders shall never end.

I have a friend he and his gal dont even communicate in school just say a very cold hi but when he says of his sexcapades and how good she can own a jt all of us go ballistic, and if u see this babe in church chei u go fear and he says seeing her in church singing all those songs turns him on, so my dear Oyinda dats the definition of a real freak can u imagine having a hard on in church cos ur chick is speaking in tongues and u know later that night yall will be on cloud 9. As for the fantasies i see them as normal u have 2 be a freak 2 make that dude happy wen they r happy u r happy but wat irritates me most is peeps dat when they r in the bus wiv u they start cupping private parts now those r open freaks

1. That girl playing with fire, how can she be fornicating and still be a member of the so called choir (i am assuming the poster is saying that she is a member of the choir) (this is exactly the kind of nonsense that pisses me off about a lot of religious people).I personally prefer not to pretend that I am someone who I am not. I am more comfortable with men and women that know they are committing sin and are not hypocrites about it.

2. Their relationship is doomed to say the truth, cus it seems its just sex and sex and more sex from the looks of it.

3. I don't understand ladies how can they be having so much premarital sex and yet not communicate and yet she is still a member of choir and yet she would then think the guy would consider her as wife material. Haba, 


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a.  The freakiness is too much once it starts getting into public.

b. Anal sex is just simply a no-no as far as I am concerned considering the spiritual and hygiene factors against the nonsense. Why the heck would anyone want to dip[b] his something[/b] inside a shit hole, then the lady would then put the same shit covered something inside her own mouth and her something and then use that same mouth to kiss me and then probably later expect me to put my own mouth at[b] her something[/b] to do something (men that is so bleeped up in many ways). No wonder there are so many exotic diseases springing up in the west, it is so twisted.

c. Yes sex is supposed to be good, freaky and all (this applies to married people please  i am not advocating nor supporting premarital sex  thank you), but haba everything as to be done with moderation. Some boundaries ought not to be crossed.

as i always say:

do what you wish and expect the person with you to have the same "fantasies", if they havent then bounce and look for someone who has.
do not try to change anybody/mold or shape someone into what you desires.
there is no reason for any person to repress their fantasies for the benefit of marriage, partners unwilligness or what not.
let people do what the fukc they want as long as they dont hurt anybody(but themselves), are not doing anything criminal or are not trying to force anything upon you that you are not cool with.
to each their own

They are a bunch of pretenders;eitherway,its hard to satisfy them.

^^^^^^who cares^^^^^^^