TheSeeker:

I never denied I'm a sex freak and yes, I'm a closet freak . . . . . I'm a closet freak. . . . . I'm a closet freak. Name one man that isn't

na2day?:

hi 5 bro

TheSeeker:

Welcome! And membership is still open for closet and open freaks

na2day?:

hell yeah! and if u just promise to be like that i will come back to the marriage negotiating table

oyinda.:

lol. a promise is a debt u kno. i can't promise u that 'cause i will fail u
personally if i get magic wand, my choice of husband will be a Harvard or MIT boy. handsome skinny nerd like that.
nothing freakish like McNair who fit die or enter gbese for sex. mba if ur life is so boring sex is the only way to make it exciting then u get problem

u don't fit my type srry lol

TheSeeker:

na2day? If you get her, you'll most likely divorce her 2 weeks after marriage because you'll find out she's the kind that doesn't feel a touch, can't even be tickled at the least.

TheSeeker:

So what are we? Lucifer's kids?

na2day?:

naw bro, we r the very pikins of the Lawd, they were adopted  

oyinda.:

crazy dudes lol  see how they're talking affectionately with other sef. who knows  their freakish nature knows no boundary
na2dae, i say i no do   na ata rodo i go use rub ur  

MRbrownJAY:

i think that the problem in all this is not really what you do or not in the privacy of your bedroom but why do you go for such person at the first place.
it is a well know fact that most men in 9ja look for women to marry that would be "good" in the eyes of everybody else (family, friends, colleagues etc) before theirs.
so it is safe to say that if a beautiful woman looks/dressed/talk/act like she is "sexually open minded" then she will have no chance of EVER getting married in 9ja.
on the other hand, if you meet that same woman in social settings (clubs, bars, party, wedding), she will be the one all the single guys (married ones too) want to get down with.
what does this tells you? well it is safe to say that if men didnt care so much about what others think then they would marry that open minded woman but since they have to consider everyone else's view then they go and marry daddy's girl.
now, daddy's girl might not have been is [b]true first choice but in a country where "face" is everything, you dont want to go against your parents wishes or have your friends look down on your wife
.[/b]
the term freak is too broad to even try to define it. some people might tell you that any woman who wears a mini skirt is a freak or that a woman with a foul mouth is a freak while others might say that a woman who has party is a freak.
everyone can decide for themselves what a freak is BUT there is one important point:
if a husband ask his wife to have anal sex(or whatever she think is freaky) and she refuses doing it quoting verses from the bible then she has only her self to blame when that man goes and get down with some "freak".
when a men asked his wife for anal, he is simply trying to turn his wife into the "freak" he desires, her refusal only open the door to some outside sexual help.
to each their own

silentc:

I think Oyinde's issue really lies with men who want to sleep around and then marry a Conservative woman who is as freaky as the one they slept around with.

oyinda.:

yea exactly! i like ur post. it's very honest

guys who go out seeking closet freaks. girls that are "sweet, naive and shy" in public but sex freak in bed (like their slutty ex girlfriend or some porn star)
guys who would go out with a loose girl and then say they want "wifey material" to marry. i mean u shouldn't date a girl if u don't see the qualities u want in marriage in her to begin with.
i think it partly has to do with social pressure (neighbors, family impression etc ) too.  so they marry the village girl and then cheat with the freak.

You didn't possibly say that, did you? When has shyness and naivety become qualities of a village girl? Mind you, some village girls are freakier in girls than your supposed city girls, so I heard and I know people who have experienced that -- so that is baseless. If I date a girl who's loose, why should I marry her? My wife trying out all kinds of sexual positions with me in the bedroom doesn't make her loose . . . . . don't confuse yourself because now you're mixing up everything. There's a difference in being loose and being a "bitch" with your husband in the bedroom. And if as you have claimed, that village girls are less active in bed, you're their proxy in the city

silentc:

I see your point from your response to Mrjaybrown,

It is a case of double standards, most likely, a woman who is sexually liberated (freak if we want to call it that) doesnt conform or fit the bill of "decent, good girl". Most men want both i.e good girl in public, bad girl in bed. The public persona is most important to these kind of men, so they marry a good girl in the end and try to get her to be "freaky".

I agree that a man should marry a woman who suscribes to his sexual mindset, Some men marry women who are freaks and arent "good girls" in public. Those men know who they are.

But, there are some women out there that fit the bill i.e girls you can take home to mum and girls that would blow ur mind away in bed, Now that would be the ideal woman for most men, abi?

silentc:

I see your point from your response to Mrjaybrown,

It is a case of double standards, most likely, a woman who is sexually liberated (freak if we want to call it that) doesnt conform or fit the bill of "decent, good girl". Most men want both i.e good girl in public, bad girl in bed. The public persona is most important to these kind of men, so they marry a good girl in the end and try to get her to be "freaky".

I agree that a man should marry a woman who suscribes to his sexual mindset, Some men marry women who are freaks and arent "good girls" in public. Those men know who they are.

But, there are some women out there that fit the bill i.e girls you can take home to mum and girls that would blow ur mind away in bed, Now that would be the ideal woman for most men, abi?

oyinda.:

why marry a girl who doesn't do anal sex to begin with?

i think it's hypocritical. and unfair to the girl. I've read stories of women enduring their husband's strong sexual desires etc and agreeing to stuff they don't believe in just in the name of saving their marriage. shouldn't the guy just marry his type? rather than save face at the expense of the woman?

ps: i was expecting u to show up on this topic. open freak like urself

oyinda.:

Closet freaks do exist (if ur lucky like silentc u'll get one  ) but majority of women are not. they are either good or bad. lol and i feel for the ones that have to endure their pervert husband who married them just to please the world. etc

oyinda.:

crazy dudes lol  see how they're talking affectionately with other sef. who knows  their freakish nature knows no boundary
na2dae, i say i no do    na ata rodo i go use rub ur 

TheSeeker:

Good to know we're full blooded heaven citizens. BTW, my house is located on the Golden Lane off Peace and Harmony Street all in Heaven. My house is built with pure diamonds, what about you?

sugabelle:

Girls pretend a lot to a new catch

nothing freakish like McNair who fit die or enter gbese for sex

if ur life is so boring sex is the only way to make it exciting then u get problem

and he says seeing her in church singing all those songs turns him on

tpia.:



sinners full this world sha.

Very unholy fellow.

abi does the woman dress to entice?

Kunbee:



My sister na so we see am and suprisingly she no dey wear trouser even shorts na headache abori ma bodi

tpia.:



sinners full this world sha.

Very unholy fellow.

abi does the woman dress to entice?