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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by uzoormah(m): 11:16am On Mar 12, 2016

well it is true but some ladies no dey use eye see money.. some ladies sees it as their FUNDAMENTAL HUMAN RIGHT..which is bad

THAT WE ARE DATING DOES NOT MEAN THAT I MUST GIVE U MONEY TO MAKE YOUR HAIR

#IamNotYourDad

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by uzoormah(m): 11:20am On Mar 12, 2016

Leriebloom:

Most guys dont reason this way which is pretty upsetting. Infact u deserve a hug.

HUG?? u go stingy sha o

Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by sydney440(m): 11:31am On Mar 12, 2016

Leriebloom:

Pretty true. As little as a gift wouldn't hurt. A guy who dates a woman and has never given her a gift (no matter how little it is) is stingy. He doesnt have to give her money,buy a houz or wateva it is for her to show her he rly cares bout her wellbeing. But the little things he does for her goes a big way. (not for all girls tho).

issues that concern relationship is vice-versa, give and take, they guy have to give the girl also have to give... if one gives and the other don't give then you you is a one way traffic... and it is not good

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by Leriebloom(f): 11:37am On Mar 12, 2016

uzoormah:

HUG?? u go stingy sha o

Stingy how??

Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by Leriebloom(f): 11:39am On Mar 12, 2016

sydney440:
issues that concern relationship is vice-versa, give and take, they guy have to give the girl also have to give... if one gives and the other don't give then you you is a one way traffic... and it is not good

Yes true, its a give and take thing. But we are discussing according to the topic "why keep a girlfriend and dont spend on her?"

Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by franzis(m): 11:40am On Mar 12, 2016

Only broke guys don't provide (no matter how little it is) for their girlfriend

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Mar 12, 2016

NewSheriff:
Because you can't provide for yourself?

If the proof of a guy's love is providing for you, what's the proof of your love for a guy?

What's the use answering your question, I'm not dating you now am I? undecided

Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by Rexhenrex(m): 12:54pm On Mar 12, 2016

Leriebloom:

Most guys dont reason this way which is pretty upsetting. Infact u deserve a hug.

for real

Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by ebubey(f): 12:56pm On Mar 12, 2016

Rexhenrex:
just came across this on f.b this morning whats your take?? I don't care what name anyone might wanna call me but I strongly support the notion of this quote below .

if you indeed love someone at least you spending on them shouldn't be a problem no matter how small.some men even find it difficult spending on there wife's or fiance some guys its a taboo to give their girl friens money or buy her a gift truth has to be told.

cc:ebubey
farano
lalasticlala

i totally agree with you. You find out that most guys want their girlfriend to always look nice so that they can show her off to their friends bt does not want to contribute to that beauty... which is bad sad

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by uzoormah(m): 1:15pm On Mar 12, 2016

Leriebloom:
Stingy how??

he deserves more than a hug..just as ur fellow lady said to d oda guy grin

Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by sukkot: 2:07pm On Mar 12, 2016

you spend on each other. this dude is a mangina lolz

trust me, relationship is sweeter if you spend on each other. of course maybe you will spend more but she will buy you things too. it makes a man feel special for his woman to buy him thangs too na jus sayin

Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Mar 12, 2016

ThuGnificenX:
Gold plated digger alert

GOLD PLATED DIGGER Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by abbey621(m): 2:09pm On Mar 12, 2016

It is this exact double standard that keeps making females inferior to men. Women feminist groups advocate independence, self reliability and so on yet when a guy chooses to treat his woman as equal it is seen as unacceptable. There's nothing wrong in spending on your partner as long as it is reciprocal. It shouldn't be a one way thing, men are not ATM!

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Mar 12, 2016

Dojupyo:
No doubt, guys should spend for their babes.. But the ladies shouldn't be too demanding, she could also do some little (legal) things to make her own money

For this, i owe you a DATE.

Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by Smellymouth: 2:11pm On Mar 12, 2016

Where Izzit written I ve to spend on my GF to make her happy?? undecided

Only broke girls have such low mentality..

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by samuel051: 2:12pm On Mar 12, 2016

Wetin concern me

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by ndcide(m): 2:13pm On Mar 12, 2016

The ones I spent for I didn't marry them.

Na advice I dey give.. and time, which is money but not money.

A guy does not owe any lady an obligation of providing for her until after marriage. GUYS invest your money. this thread will turn you to a Maga. You'll be looking for sex compensation.

The lady who is not married to you yet keeps receiving, will be uncomfortable if you give another lady anything. Don't give. Don't waste your money. Invest it. Otherwise, marry her, make her family and give her everything.

This was how my neighbor got 4 blackberry phones from 4 different guys on her birthday. Yet she sleeps with men at oriental hotel.

The fools giving her those phones share same sentiments as some condemned magas here.

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by Nobody: 2:13pm On Mar 12, 2016

NewSheriff:
Because you can't provide for yourself?

If the proof of a guy's love is providing for you, what's the proof of your love for a guy?

Nice question.

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by josite: 2:16pm On Mar 12, 2016

and who really minds being a soldier escorting the queen to the king and getting to Bleep the queen more than 365 days in a year.if u have exceptional fucking skills ,then u must be a fool if after exerting your energy ,u still have to spend on her.most smart babe realise guy with exceptional fucking skills are rare and will go extra miles to make him happi.lucky me.d highest spend so far on babe is 3k.

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by tottinova: 2:17pm On Mar 12, 2016

Rexhenrex:
just came across this on f.b this morning whats your take?? I don't care what name anyone might wanna call me but I strongly support the notion of this quote below .

if you indeed love someone at least you spending on them shouldn't be a problem no matter how small.some men even find it difficult spending on there wife's or fiance some guys its a taboo to give their girl friens money or buy her a gift truth has to be told.

Why spend on her

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by Ekakamba: 2:17pm On Mar 12, 2016

Dojupyo:
No doubt, guys should spend for their babes.. But the ladies shouldn't be too demanding, she could also do some little (legal) things to make her own money

Truly your bf/spouse have found a good gf/wife indeed. I hope some lazy ass ladies learn from this.

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by Smellymouth: 2:21pm On Mar 12, 2016

I have a home, a car and all the bills to go along with that. Yes I am single and have extra cash at the end of the month, nice to get out once in awhile. However I have no intention of spending excessively on a lady because that's just absurd, better to save that money and take a nice vacation.
undecided

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by erico2k2(m): 2:26pm On Mar 12, 2016

Suigeneris93:
Three ways a man shows he loves a woman: he provides, protects and professes- Steve Harvey

The bolded says it all

Provides doesn't always translate into special sing money

Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by advanceDNA: 2:27pm On Mar 12, 2016

Boys no mind to spend the little dem get..na babe gats understand and not turn boys to ATM demanding for hair,shoes,bags and makeup enuf to buy land for ibadan,when u know fully well guy man salary no pass 60k...
And there are cases where ladies say no sex till marriage since its not sure relationship might lead to marriage...some dude have this kinda mentality too..dude sef gats lock up say no overspending for babe wey I never sure say I go marry...nobody wan loose at the end...

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by Nobody: 2:28pm On Mar 12, 2016

ndcide:
The ones I spent for I didn't marry them.

Na advice I dey give.. and time, which is money but not money.

A guy does not owe any lady an obligation of providing for her until after marriage. GUYS invest your money. this thread will turn you to a Maga. You'll be looking for sex compensation.

The lady who is not married to you yet keeps receiving, will be uncomfortable if you give another lady anything. Don't give. Don't waste your money. Invest it. Otherwise, marry her, make her family and give her everything.

This was how my neighbor got 4 blackberry phones from 4 different guys on her birthday. Yet she sleeps with men at oriental hotel.

The fools giving her those phones share same sentiments as some condemned magas here.

I concur

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by amokeme(f): 2:30pm On Mar 12, 2016

A man is obliged to provide for his FAMILY........ I don't know about a gf.
Or is the gf part of his family??

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by advanceDNA: 2:36pm On Mar 12, 2016

NewSheriff:
Because you can't provide for yourself?

If the proof of a guy's love is providing for you, what's the proof of your love for a guy?

Why ask a question u already have an answer for??..90%of most ladies are classic prostitutes without knowing that they are..all they bring to the table is their body..and that will only work in relationships where the guy is over financially stable..not the average hustler making a few bucks in 30days or small cash gain per day..

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by repogirl(f): 2:38pm On Mar 12, 2016

[size=16pt]Tell all those stingy koko small boys, hoarding dia money as if dey will die and go to hell with it! CHEAPSKATES! [/size]

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by olarhtunji(m): 2:38pm On Mar 12, 2016

@op is it your girlfriend

.......Why are u bothered

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by chukwudi06(m): 2:38pm On Mar 12, 2016

Case study when she decree no sex, money should also be inclusive or what do you think?

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by olarhtunji(m): 2:39pm On Mar 12, 2016

repogirl:
[size=16pt]Tell all those stingy koko small boys, hoarding dia money as if dey will die and go to hell with it! CHEAPSKATES! [/size]

And tell the girls that are golddiggers that they can kum n svck my d!ck!!!

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Re: Why Keep A Girlfriend And Don't Spend On Her? by RexTramadol1: 2:39pm On Mar 12, 2016

All men are equal

Some are just more equal than the others

George Orwell

A lady should spend on guys too.........anyways

It's Seconded!

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